What should parents do when they see others criticizing their children?

Children's education has always been a concern of many parents. From the birth of a child, I hope he has excellent moral character and polite behavior. But children are naturally lively and naughty. It is inevitable that there will be some annoying behavior habits. For example, if children go out to play, if they make mistakes or infringe on others, others will easily criticize them. As parents, what should we do when we see our children being criticized by others?

1 first of all, we must understand the reasons why children are criticized by others.

It is not a bad thing for children to be criticized, but it is not a bullying behavior of others. Parents should not mess with their children from the beginning, but should know where their children's mistakes are, why others should criticize their children, and then decide some things or behaviors after understanding the problems. If a child has caused harm to others, or his words are uncivilized, it is understandable for others to criticize him, but as a parent, he can further educate his child on the spot and let him know his mistakes.

If the child makes a mistake, he must point out his problem.

We often find that such parents care too much about their children, especially when they can't see others pointing at their children or even criticizing them, they feel that their children are being bullied and rush forward to argue with others. However, many times it is your own children who make mistakes first. Not only did they not apologize, they even called names. Therefore, as parents, we must point out the mistakes of our children. It is not only a kind of respect and courtesy to others, but also the key to educating children.

3. How to educate children when they make mistakes?

It is inevitable for children to make mistakes, because they cannot be very self-disciplined or as expected in the process of learning and growing up, so parents should give their children appropriate guidance. For some principled mistakes, we must correct them on the spot or take some punitive measures to let children know that they have to accept criticism from others, and even have the courage to bear them and apologize to others. Only when children understand the seriousness of the problem can they be strict with themselves, otherwise they will feel that their parents are biased towards themselves, and this situation will get worse.