Pregnant before marriage, can't you get respect from your husband's family?

People should have dignity and self-discipline, and should respect laws and moral norms. Especially girls, be chaste. It is not only a matter of fame and fortune, but also a matter of one's own health. Premarital sex is harmful. What's more, people like you are still valuable after many miscarriages and years of love without marriage. Treacherous kicking is enough. Let you fall into ruins. Sad, not sad. Fame is abroad, and there is nowhere to go.

My opinion: resolutely oppose premarital pregnancy and the marriage of a child. I don't think pregnancy before marriage is unhappy, but it is too difficult to meet a husband's family who is pregnant before marriage and pregnant after marriage. Although it is more open now, premarital sex is almost common. But this is not the same as getting pregnant before marriage. A responsible man will not make you pregnant before marriage, embarrass you, and embarrass you. Maybe your feelings haven't reached the point of talking about marriage, and as a result, you got pregnant first and had to take the road of having children. Maybe you're not fit at all. While rushing to get married to solve the urgent need, it may also lay the groundwork for an unfortunate marriage. Pregnancy before marriage is obviously a mistake made by two young people on impulse, but they will only secretly scold the girl for her misconduct, but praise her son for his skill and charm. But my heart is secretly pleased, so that I can control my in-laws, save money and effort, and get more dowry. Don't think that they will appreciate you, they will only think that you are eager to marry their family. (At least 95% of in-laws will do this. Some people who can't afford the bride price or don't want to spend money directly instruct their sons to get their girlfriends pregnant. There are many such people. Don't simply think the world is so beautiful, think more about everything in the future for yourself, and don't believe those sweet words easily. True love will be practical, at least get the certificate first. If you are pregnant before marriage, you will either face abortion or let your husband's family handle it. The key is to worry that people will think that you are rushing to get married in the future, and you will block their better future and bully you. Getting pregnant before marriage will also make her family lose face. Although she is open-minded, she is still very traditional in her bones, especially in backward places. Getting pregnant before marriage is to be laughed at. Her parents raised her for decades and finally played a joke on them?

The management of marital emotion is like investment, and enhancing the value must be the goal of investment. If you think that getting pregnant before marriage can increase your value, that's fine, but it often backfires, because the other person may not think so.

People can't be against human nature! Because people's most instinctive need is self-interest!

If you get married, don't dwell on the past. How to manage the future is the key. After all, a good and flexible investment method can make up for the previous losses.