My girlfriend and I always quarrel.

My boyfriend and I were like this for a while, but you have to understand that if she treats you as an outsider and really doesn't like you or hate you, she can't speak ill of you, let alone complain to you. If she found a stranger in the street, would she treat you like this? ! Even if you are not a stranger, even your best female friend may not treat you like this. She explained that she has you in her heart and cares about you. I hope you can get better and get along better with each other. That's why she will tell you some of your shortcomings in her mind, because I did the same to my boyfriend before, but you are a man, so you should learn to be tolerant and patient. You should think about why she said these things to you and why she did this to you. Should you think carefully about what she said to you and then think about whether there is really a problem in this regard? If what she says is wrong, you can give him patience and make her understand you. If he mumbles that you are right, no matter how much you don't like it, try your best to overcome and correct it. Her criticism of you is not disrespect for you, but love you and like your performance, I can guarantee that!

After all, you've been together for a year. Although a year is short, maybe you don't know enough, but I tell you, what you have now is normal. This is the so-called love running-in period. I have been with my boyfriend for two years, so I always quarrel and have broken up several times. But now we have been four years, because we can think calmly with each other and get to know each other clearly before giving in, so that we can get better and better.

My personality and temper are also very grumpy, but in the face of my boyfriend's grumpy, it may be only superficial. At this time, what women want most is the comfort and understanding of their boyfriends. If you don't patiently comfort her when she has a bad temper, of course you will quarrel. Even when she lost her temper, you were right and she was wrong. In that case, you should restrain yourself to comfort her and admit your mistake. Although it may be unfair to do so, you two can calm down afterwards and you can analyze it for her. LZ, do you think it was a heated argument at that time, or did you reduce the fire first and then solve it?

Also, when you have something on your mind, such as loneliness and inferiority, don't hide it. You can tell her, make her understand you better, and make me believe that the love between two people is based on trust and understanding, and your quarrel will be less.

It is important that you don't always think about how good the past is, and then compare the present with the past, because the past is the past after all, and no one can bring it back. No matter how good the past is, we should live a good life now, don't you think? When you recall the sweetness of the past, you will often be more dissatisfied with the present, which will greatly affect your feelings. You should also tell her that you will take her forward and never look back to continue your love.

Let's talk so much first. I think the situation in LZ is really too similar to what we used to be, so I give you these suggestions. I hope LZ can also calm down and think about it. A year of love is really hard to come by. There is no love that is not tortured, that kind of love is unstable. I hope you can solve the problem between you as soon as possible. I hope you can have a good result.