What do you think of the phenomenon of "going home as a village girl and returning to the city as a goddess"?

After staying in the city for a long time, I believe many of them will not adapt to the life in the countryside. If you work hard in the city, you may have an English name in the office: Murry, Andy, Judy, Susan. When you go back to the countryside, others will only remember your nicknames: Big Girl, Zhao Di, Xiang Xiu, Jiamei and so on. In the city, you can wear fashionable, avant-garde, fashionable, sweaters, suspenders, miniskirts and keep up with fashionable hairstyles. Maybe you can get a tattoo. But when I returned to the countryside, I immediately became a village girl.

As the saying goes, "Go home to be a village girl and go back to the city to be a goddess". Is that really the case? What is the reason behind this? We will analyze this phenomenon in depth.

First, I am afraid of being talked about: in cities, everyone will dress up brightly, and no one will pay special attention. After all, everyone wants to show their maturity and fashion. But in rural areas, this situation will be different. If girls dress too fashionably, they may be talked about by other villagers. If it is too enchanting, it will affect the atmosphere of the whole village. Therefore, rural girls will follow the trend at home, how others wear them, and how they wear them. Relatively simple clothes will have more appreciation and affinity in rural areas.

Second, live in the countryside at will: no one will pay special attention to image, just dress simply. After all, I am surrounded by neighbors and don't care too much about my personal image. Visiting relatives and friends will dress better, and ordinary rural girls will be relatively hardworking and thick. Will they help their parents with farm work when they get home? If you dress simply, your parents will ask you for help. If you still dress so brightly, your parents won't let you help, and it's not good to get dirty. If you are asked to change clothes, you might as well not call.

Third, the job needs: to live in the city, rural girls will dress themselves up as goddesses and look cold. After all, that's how everyone else dresses. If you dress too casually, you will become a joke in others' eyes. At work, the general company will require employees to dress more appropriately, so as to leave a good impression when facing customers. Girls themselves like beauty and naturally pay special attention to their own image.

Society is changing, and people's thoughts should also change with the change of society. Only in this way can we adapt to the social trend and integrate into life in different environments. This is also the truth of "natural selection, survival of the fittest". But the gap between urban and rural areas is also narrowing. Many country girls are no worse than goddesses.