Why can't you joke in intimate relationships?

The most important thing in interpersonal communication is frankness and sincerity. Although we want to show our best in intimate relationships, sometimes jokes also contain some real feelings.

I remember once having dinner with my closest friend and suddenly blurting out a joke: "Don't rob me of my meal, that's my favorite!" " . I didn't think too much at that time, I just wanted to use jokes to ease the atmosphere. However, my other half felt my feelings and said to me, "Don't you want to share it with me?"

This sentence surprised me, because I didn't think I had anything to grab at all, but I thought it would make everyone happier. However, through this sentence, our feelings for each other seem to have deepened a little. In this interaction, I deeply realized the importance of honesty and sincerity.

From this small example, we can find that although we often relax the atmosphere by joking, it doesn't mean that we can't express our true feelings. Sometimes, there are some real desires and feelings in jokes.

When we face the people closest to us, we don't need to hide our emotions and feelings, and we don't have to be afraid to express our true thoughts. Only when we dare to express our feelings and thoughts honestly and sincerely will our intimate relationship be more honest and true.

In short, joking can certainly bring some relaxation and laughter, but in the face of the closest people, we should also dare to express our true feelings and thoughts, thus enhancing feelings and trust.