What kind of woman should a man marry and what kind of woman should he not marry?

What are the criteria for men to choose a spouse?

Colleague Xiaoqiu once joked with me: "First, you should be beautiful, then you should be beautiful, and finally you should be beautiful."

This is of course a joke, but it also exposes men's expectations of their partners in terms of face value. In other words, there are not a few men who want to marry a beautiful wife.

If you are a man who only wants to marry a beautiful wife and doesn't care about the rest of your partner, be careful. If you marry the following five kinds of women, you will regret it for life.

They are like poppies, no matter how beautiful they are, they will ruin your happiness. Even if you don't want a dowry, you can't marry home!

1, a jealous woman.

Emperor Zhu Jianshen of the Ming Dynasty had a concubine named Wan Zhener. Zhu Jianshen loves her very much, and even named her the imperial concubine, but she is a jealous woman.

She was too old to have children for the emperor, but she couldn't hide that other women had children for Zhu Jianshen, so she tried to make pregnant concubines drink birth control pills.

Wan Guifei's jealousy almost made Zhu Jianshen the last emperor.

It can be seen that jealous women are terrible. They can't hide that others are better than themselves, and always try to destroy other people's good things in order to achieve the goal of harming others and not benefiting themselves.

Living with such people, life is like a palace drama, not to mention happiness.

2. An extremely lazy woman.

An innocent girl, a woman, can feel satisfied with men, but if she relies too much, she will feel physically and mentally exhausted after a long time.

I want to ask, even opening the bottle cap, going out, buying food and going to the supermarket are inseparable. Send it to work, pick it up after work, carry it on rainy days, and so on. Do you have to have a man with you, or do it and do it well? Should a man take care of her like a daughter?

In addition, the phone should be answered every second, and the information should be answered every second, whether you are in a meeting or training; I want you to coax me anytime, anywhere, even if you have just been criticized by the leader during the day and are in a bad mood, you should coax the little baby when you get home?

Such a woman may feel nothing at first, but which man can stand it all his life?

Life is not easy, everyone will be tired. Husband and wife do not take care of each other, but take care of each other. They are comrades-in-arms rather than patients. I can help you, but I want to keep you for life, so we'd better not be together.

3. A lazy woman.

There is a story about a fat man who is lazy and depends on his parents to support him. Once his parents traveled far away and worried that he would starve to death, they hung a big cake around his neck. As a result, when their parents came back, they found that the fat man was still starving to death.

The reason is that the fat man only eats the cake in front of him, and he is too lazy to get the cake at the back of his neck.

This is of course an exaggerated and absurd story, but it exposes the harm of laziness in an absurd way.

In real life, many people give up the pie behind them because of laziness. They would rather muddle along in poverty than work hard to create the future. If they marry such a woman, their married life will be difficult to improve.

Nowadays, most people's marriages need two people to work together. Even if women don't want to go to work, they should take care of their families and do housework at home.

But imagine, if a woman doesn't go to work, cook and wash dishes, clean up household items, and don't want to take care of children, and even wait for a man to come home from work to cook and wash clothes every day, how can she live?

4, a woman who loves to gossip and gossip.

As the saying goes, "Three women's lives." This sentence is not groundless. In reality, there are indeed very few women who like to gossip behind their backs, gossip and even reverse black and white.

They are afraid of chaos in the world. When they hear some rumors, they will add their own ideas like "writers", "restore" the truth and spread it.

Married such a wife, there will be countless right and wrong around, and interpersonal relationships will not be much better.

It is said that the premise of doing things is to learn to be a man. If you can't respect others at least, it's not easy to achieve something big.

5. A woman addicted to gambling.

Gamblers have a set of self-hypnosis tutorials, such as: "Small gambling is good for feelings, and big gambling is bad for health."

They always use this kind of rhetoric to excuse their gambling behavior. Gambling is gambling, there is no difference between big and small. The gambler's psychology is nothing more than wanting to get rich overnight and get something for nothing.

People with gambler psychology can almost say that no one can really get rich, just fantasize all day.

Moreover, the harm of gambling is very great. From small to large, people sit around the gambling table all day and don't make progress. At large, people lose everything and have nothing.

If you form a family with such a woman, the harm is self-evident Don't think that gambling will be all right. Gambling is gambling.

As the old saying goes, people living near Zhu Zhechi are all black, and with the passage of time, what kind of people they live with will inevitably be affected. Moreover, it shows that malignant tumors are very susceptible to infection, so we should stay away from them, let alone marry home.

Husband and wife are like people in the same boat. The husband is the rower, keeping the boat moving forward, while the wife is the helm, guiding the boat forward.

Husband and wife Qi Xin, the boat can ride the wind and waves and go wherever they want. If there is something wrong with the person at the helm, the ship will spin around in the same place, or even sail into the whirlpool, which is in danger of capsizing.

Therefore, it has been circulated for thousands of years: "If you marry a wife, you must marry a sage." Instead of "when you marry a beautiful woman."

Have beautiful skin, but not a sound and beautiful mind. It's just an embroidered pillow, which looks useless.

A wife is a partner who will spend a lifetime. The soul is much more important than appearance. Therefore, the above five kinds of women, no matter how beautiful, can't marry even without dowry.