Why did Zhuge Liang love an ugly woman all his life?

In history, emperors and princes were wise, not three wives and six concubines; Darkness, who is not romantic. However, Zhuge Liang only married one woman in his life, and he was loyal to her all his life.

Zhuge Liang was wise all his life, cautious in everything, cautious and steady, invincible, and immortalized. He resolutely married an ugly daughter-in-law, Huang Shuo. This ugly daughter-in-law has become a powerful pillar of his life and career development, which not only enables him to successfully embark on the starting line of life, but also has no worries. More importantly, he was taken care of by Huang Shuo all his life. The intimacy between Zhuge Liang and Huang Shuo is unparalleled in the world.

Zhuge Liang was born in Hanguanghe on March 5, 2004, and in Langxie County. My parents died early and were raised by my uncle. When the world was in chaos, his brothers and sisters came to Xiangyang with their uncle. At that time, there was chaos in Guanzhong and the Central Plains was boiling. Xiangyang was a place where dignitaries and businessmen from all over the world took refuge.

Zhuge Liang's family came to Longzhong, 20 miles outside Xiangyang City, to farm for a living.

When Zhuge Liang was 25 years old, his uncle died. His eldest brother Zhu Gejin went to Wu Dong to be an official, and his younger sister Zhuge Huiyuan married Nanzhang, leaving only Zhuge Liang and his younger brother Zhuge Jun at home. Zhuge Liang at that time "put all your eggs in one basket in troubled times and didn't ask Wen Da to be a vassal".

In ancient times, especially in wartime, people usually got married at the age of 15 or 16 or even 13 or 14, and young husbands and kannika nimtragol were paired. Like Zhuge Liang, it seems a bit out of place to get married at the age of 25. With Zhuge Liang's conditions, he must be the ideal object for a noble family to choose a son-in-law. No one expected to marry an ugly woman.

Huang Shuo has a strong figure, as the name implies, with yellow hair, dark skin and some goose bumps on her skin, which makes people feel cold when they see her, but her kindness is well known. She is the daughter of Huang, a famous scholar in Henan. In the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, there is such a love story: Shu fought Xiao Ting and Lu Xun defeated Liu Bei. Shu will die, and Liu Bei will die in Baidicheng. Zhuge Liang, who was staying in Chengdu at that time, heard the news and came in a hurry. In order to save the crisis, he set up a gossip chain array and trapped Lu Xun's hundreds of thousands of troops with some stones. At this critical juncture, Huang, who suddenly appeared in the Eight Diagrams Array, led the general Lu Xun and hundreds of thousands of troops out of the array. He broke Zhuge Liang's serial array and saved hundreds of thousands of lives.

Here's a joke, which is about Zhuge Liang and Huang Shuo. Joke: Zhuge Liang and Huang presided over the wedding. It is said that Huang broke the secular concept and found Zhuge Liang Gate himself. He asked, "I heard that you are choosing a wife. I have an ugly girl with yellow hair and dark skin who wants to marry you. Do you agree? " Zhuge Liang agreed without saying anything. Huang banged gongs and drums and set off firecrackers, and personally sent his daughter to Longzhong.

In fact, Zhuge Liang had long known about Huang's moral articles, but he seemed to have heard a little about the basic situation, so Zhuge Liang agreed to the marriage. Perhaps, Huang saw through his mind and thought that Zhuge Liang was indifferent to everyone's good family and beautiful women and was bent on making the country rich and strong. What he needs is a wife with both ability and political integrity, not a beautiful woman of noble birth. Therefore, Huang dared to speak for her daughter face to face and volunteered.

On the other hand, Zhuge Liang's seemingly casual answer is actually well thought out. In fact, it was not Huang who sent his daughter to get married, but Zhuge Liang who personally proposed marriage. Huang Chengyan made full preparations for Zhuge Liang's arrival and told her family long ago: "As long as Zhuge Xianggong arrives, please invite him directly into the house without notice."

Legend has it that Zhuge Liang came to the Huang family and broke into houses. Suddenly, two fierce dogs suddenly jumped out from between the two corridors in the hall and rushed at Zhuge Liang. The maid who heard the sound in the back room quickly "stopped" the two fierce dogs and went forward to pat them on the forehead with her hand. In an instant, two fierce dogs stopped jumping. The maid twisted her ears again, and the two fierce hounds retreated to the porch and squatted down. Zhuge Liang took a closer look and found that both fierce dogs were mechanical dogs made of wood. He couldn't help laughing.

Huang greeted Zhuge Liang with a smile.

Zhuge Liang praised the magic of making two wooden dogs. Huang said: "When my daughter is fine, the wooden dog is a joke. I don't want to scare you. I am really sorry! "

Zhuge Liang looked around and saw a picture of reading in Cao Dajia Palace on the wall. Huang immediately explained, "This painting is a little girl's letter graffiti, so I smiled."

Huang pointed to the flowers outside the window and said, "These flowers and plants were cultivated, watered, pruned and cared for by my daughter."

Zhuge Liang married Huang Shuo to his family. His neighbor judges a book by its cover and sarcastically said, "Don't be like Kong Ming, marry an ugly wife." Where did they know that Zhuge Liang had already drawn a clear-cut picture with his imagination when he saw wooden dogs, pictures and flowers, and he knew that this was his goal; He was in high spirits when they met. At the moment, I am glad that I married a virtuous daughter-in-law.

Huang Shuo went to Zhuge Liang's house to farm and cook, and handled all the menial work and trivial matters inside and outside. Zhuge Liang naturally benefited from it.

Zhuge Liang loves to make friends. Bo Ling Cui, Ru Nan Meng, Ying Chuan, and others often come here to drink and write poems and talk about state affairs. This ugly sister-in-law is very enthusiastic about cooking and shochu. It turned out that my friends always felt uncomfortable looking at my ugly daughter-in-law, but after her kind care, everyone felt at home. Over time, people's attitude towards Zhuge Liang's daughter-in-law gradually changed, from contempt to indifference, from indifference to attention, and good feelings came into being. Zhuge Liang is a proud man. Seeing that his friend is happy, he is naturally happy.

Beauty is actually a feeling. Although outsiders only think that Zhuge Liang's daughter-in-law is ugly, how can they know that she is still a woman with another kind of "inner beauty"? There is such a record: whenever the dead of night, under the dim light, ugly women are full of coquetry. In the light, Zhuge Liang actually felt that this little woman had a charm that fascinated him.

The Romance of the Three Kingdoms describes Zhuge Liang's six trips out of Qishan, seven trips to capture Meng Huo and a great shock to the Central Plains. He invented a new type of transportation called "Cattle-herding Liu Ma", which solved the problem of grain and grass transportation for hundreds of thousands of troops. This tool is more advanced than the present one, which does not consume energy and will not cause an energy crisis. Invented a new weapon "Liancrossbow", defeated the enemy, and Zhang Bu, a general of Wei State, died under this weapon; In order to avoid miasma, he invented Zhuge Xing Jun San and Wolong Dan, which were actually taught by his wife.

As we all know, Zhuge Liang has made great contributions to Shu, and his contributions are not small.

After Liu Bei visited the cottage, Zhuge Liang fought against Liu Bei, and his ugly daughter-in-law often stayed at home in Longzhong with her baby Zhuge Zhan, waiting for good news. Huang Shuo, the wife of the Prime Minister, led the whole family to plant 800 mulberry trees in front of and behind the house in Longzhong, advocating silk production and promoting the development of social silk industry at that time. Huang Shuo is also a famous educator. As a prime minister, Zhuge Liang is a military commander, who cares about state affairs and takes care of everything. The responsibility of educating children naturally falls on his ugly wife. Zhuge Zhan, his son, was later ordered to defend Mianzhu, Wargo, Enemy at the Gates and Zhuge Zhan, and died heroically. Zhuge Shang, his grandson, also died. After the Jin Dynasty unified the whole country, Zhuge Huai, Zhuge Liang's third son, was invited to Luoyang to give him a knighthood, but Zhuge Huai declined politely. It can be seen that Zhuge Liang's legacy and Mrs. Zhuge's education are effective.

"The Yangtze River flows eastward, and the waves wash away the heroes; Success or failure is empty, the green hills are still there, and the sunset is a few degrees. " However, no matter river of no return, he has scoured out all the romantic figures of the ages, but there are always people in history who can compete with the sun and the moon and remain immortal. Zhuge Liang's great wisdom is praised by the world, but he has no compromise on ugly women. Who can understand the taste?