Yellow-faced woman joke

"I can't catch up with that BMW after all, so I can only watch it go away in the sunset. It's not that my engine is broken, but that my chain has fallen off. " Many people regard it as a joke and make up different versions to make fun of it, but few people pay attention to the positive and optimistic attitude towards life shown by the person who said this sentence: no matter what my mount is, no matter how powerful it is, I dare to compete with you as long as I am willing!

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I once heard a disabled girl singing loudly in Beijing subway station. Her name is Maxine, and she has been disabled since her calf. Although fate was a little mean to her, she didn't complain, she was positive and optimistic, and she was full of confidence. She never wants to live on charity from others. She wants to travel to Beijing alone and realize her dream of becoming a professional singer. We can imagine how much she has to suffer and how many hardships she has to go through to get close to this dream. In the eyes of many ordinary people, this is not an easy task, and it is even more difficult for her, but with her tenacity and enthusiasm for life, she finally did it.

The beautiful song "Far Away" is like declaring war on fate, and it is also like a passionate song of life. Her success proves the significance of not giving up, and it is also like a light source that illuminates the way forward for countless people with dreams.

Life needs such a state of mind, positive optimism, full of hope, passion and motivation. Only when something happens will you dare to do it and have unlimited vitality. Positive optimism represents a person's sunny mentality and is also a manifestation of self-confidence.

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Yesterday, I should go shopping with my best friend to buy clothes. As a result, I didn't buy clothes, but I heard her complaining about her sister Li Fang all the way. Actually, I can't blame my best friend. I have such a sister, and I also have a headache.

Li Fang is the mother of a junior two boy. Since having children, she has resigned and become a standard housewife. Once, she was very satisfied with such a life, but she was divorced from the outside world after being smoked in daily necessities for too long. In addition, I seldom try to pat my clothes, so I accidentally stood in the team of the yellow-faced woman. Gradually, my husband began to complain, and the expression of disgust was on his face. Li Fang is very sad. She has paid so much for her family, but as a result, she was rejected by her lover and had to complain to her only sister again and again for comfort.

My best friend sympathized with my sister and advised her to find a job quickly several times. It's important to regain confidence. When Fang Li heard that she was asked to go to work, she had some contradictions: "What can I do if I haven't gone to work for so many years?" "I can't write a resume, how can I find a job?" "I can't drive to work. It's too tired to squeeze the bus." "Besides, when I was at work, no one at home did anything." "I didn't think about going to work, just want you to tell me about your brother-in-law, the heartless thing. My best friend said, "If you don't change yourself, your marriage will be in danger!" " "I don't think so. In fact, your brother-in-law is just more picky than before, and everything else is fine. "My best friend was so angry that he almost vomited blood and could not speak.

People like Li Fang could have had too many opportunities to live a different life, but they can't walk, and the only normal state is to stay where they are. Or stay in the comfort zone and don't want to come out, or feel anxious to go out but wait. They wait for others to give them opportunities, for others to build bridges and pave the way, and even for others to change themselves. Everything is passive, even if there are 1000 reasons to insist on what he wants to do, then he will subconsciously find the first 10 1 reason to quit.

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Are there many such people? Too much!

There are people who have just entered the university but don't know how to spend four years in college, people who are about to graduate but can't see the future, people who have entered a good company but are doing jobs they don't like but hesitate to leave, people who want to pursue poetry and distance but can't take the first step, and people who are trapped in a painful marriage. ...

They are all upset, unhappy and even miserable. They sincerely hope that there is a strong external force to help them change this unsatisfactory situation, but they also have a common passive waiting mentality. Even if they are eager to change, they just hope for others, not face them positively. In other words, there is a lack of enthusiasm for actively pursuing life, and there is a lack of motivation and courage to change the status quo.

They always expect to get warmth from others' light and heat, but they never fantasize that they want to be a light source and sun that can bring warmth and heat to others, because they don't have that positive state, let alone that ambition.

On the contrary, proactive people always bring their own light sources, and there are always many people who are attracted by light around them. They are like magnets that can attract iron powder. They can not only attract people around them, but also change their magnetic field. Whether a man or a woman, initiative represents this person's optimistic attitude towards life and embodies his ideological realm of not attaching to others and pursuing himself.

For men, all your initiatives will be the basis of your struggle and the inevitability of your success.

For women, your positive attitude towards life is the best embodiment of your own life value. I don't remember the book saying: if others can take away your property and your husband ... even if everything outside you is taken away, it is not enough to prove that you are a weak person. But if no one can take away your happiness, your enthusiasm and your positive and optimistic attitude, then you are invincible. Because no one can stop your light!

If you don't want to live in the sunshine given by others, please take the initiative to get out of that comfort zone;

If you want the sun to shine on you all the time, please take the initiative to turn around and find a place with a light source;

If you are not satisfied with chasing the bright direction behind others, please take out your positive and enthusiastic efforts to become the sun that can not only achieve yourself but also warm others.