I failed the second subject five times. A person’s biggest enemy is himself.

I was chatting with a colleague tonight. He said he was riding in my car yesterday and it was so cool to see me driving while wearing sunglasses.

He said he never thought that a female driver who had only had her driver's license for a few months could drive a manual car so smoothly. Plus he's wearing sunglasses, so cool.

I smiled and said, when you buy a car, you should also buy sunglasses and feel the coolness.

He said helplessly, "I have to wait until I get my driver's license first. I have already taken the second subject 4 times and haven't passed it yet."

I immediately comforted and said: It doesn’t matter, no matter how bad it is, can I still be worse? I am someone who failed the exam five times and had to take the exam all over again.

Looking back on the experience of taking the driver’s license test, it’s really hard to describe in words. Subject 1 and subject 3 are all taken once. But for the second subject, I couldn't pass it even after taking the test several times.

For me, it’s not a technical issue. If you don't know how to operate it, you will be able to do it if you practice more. But the psychological barriers must be overcome by oneself.

I have been relatively introverted since I was a child, and I can blush when I talk to others.

I remember when I was in school, I usually had no problems in exams, but when it came to major exams, I immediately fell out of control. On the day of the exam, I would have stomachaches, headaches and other discomforts.

There is no problem at all when it comes to taking the driving license test and practicing driving. But when the exam came and I got in the car, I felt like a deer pounding around in my heart. I was beating so hard that my whole head was not in control.

The fifth time I took the exam, I still failed subject two. At that time, I was really depressed and felt like I was doubting my life.

I remember that when I went back, I didn’t want to say anything. I just lay on the bed and burst into tears.

At this time, there were two voices in my heart. One voice said, Alas, you are not good at driving, so just give up. You don’t have to be able to drive. Nowadays, all means of transportation are convenient.

But another voice said there, you can't give up like this, everything may not be smooth sailing, try again, maybe it will be different this time.

I still chose the latter. I didn’t want to admit defeat. If I gave up as soon as I encountered a little difficulty, there wouldn’t be much that could be accomplished.

So, I signed up again. It's just that this time I made an adjustment to my mentality. I had never passed the exam before. When I took the exam next time, I felt extremely stressed. I always thought, I must pass this time. It would be embarrassing if I failed.

But this time I thought about it, I thought to myself, after signing up, I will have 5 opportunities. Besides, it is me who wants to take the driving license test, and I want to do this, no matter what No matter what the result is, you don't have to care about other people's opinions.

If you are not good at technique, just practice technique. If you are not good at psychology, just look for any opportunity to train yourself.

So, after signing up again, I successfully obtained my driver’s license in less than two months.

Therefore, a person’s biggest enemy is himself. If you figure it out yourself, nothing will be a problem.