What is the difference between poor people and rich people? Why is there such a big difference?

Rich people don’t like to interact with poor people. This is not because of class differences, but mainly due to differences in thinking.

Let me tell you a joke first: two poor people were chatting in the sun after breakfast. One of them said: "If I were an emperor, I would drink a bowl of bean juice for breakfast every day. The bean juice is so fragrant. My family is too poor to afford it. It would be great if I could drink a bowl of it. It would definitely taste great!"< /p>

Another poor man chewed grass roots and laughed at him and said: "The emperor only drinks a bowl of soy juice for breakfast? Stop making trouble, the emperor must drink two bowls, plus a scallion pancake!"

A joke is a joke, what problem does it reflect?

Obviously, the thinking of the poor is restricted by the reality of poverty, and they are unable to think about more things on other levels.

Many people were not poor originally, but because they only stayed within their own threshold range for a long time and made wrong efforts and actions accordingly, they became poorer and poorer over time, and their thinking became worse and worse. Come and solidify.

It is precisely because of the self-restrictions and rigid thinking of the poor that the rich do not like to deal with the poor.

The thinking between the two is too limited, and their vision, structure, and spiritual level are completely different. They cannot talk together, let alone do things together.

So, what are the differences between the thinking of rich people and the thinking of ordinary poor people? Let’s take a look at the following summaries:

1. Rich people focus on opportunities for success, while poor people are more likely to notice the consequences of failure.

2. Rich people usually try their best to avoid risks, while poor people like to take blind risks and believe that high risks and high returns are high.

3. Rich people value using actions to overcome fear, while poor people retreat as soon as they see fear.

4. Rich people always think that they need more knowledge, so they insist on learning; while poor people think that they know everything and do not learn at all or rarely.

5. Rich people are convinced that they will have money through their own planning and arrangements; while poor people also long for money, but they do not believe that they have the ability and channels to make a lot of money.

6. Rich people focus on the process when doing things, thinking that the results are just by-products of the process; while poor people are obsessed with fate to give themselves a little good luck amid worries and fears, and do not control the process in detail. .

7. Rich people use money as a tool to make money and invest, and spend money to make more money; while poor people spend money only to satisfy simple life desires such as food, housing and entertainment. .

8. When rich people encounter difficult problems, they actively find ways to solve them; while poor people just want to escape and are unwilling to face them.

9. Rich people think that the most thing in the world is money, and the least thing is a person’s energy and ability; while the poor are completely opposite. They always think that they earn too little money, and energy and leisure are the least. There is plenty of time, and I can't use it all.

10. Rich people usually spend money to hire people to work because they understand the principle of making money work for their own plans; while poor people, on the other hand, work just for money and do not care about planning at all. future.

11. When rich people invest and make money, they will focus on how to solve current problems; poor people will only focus on trivial matters such as whether there will be less money and who can give me the most. .

12. Rich people always value and are willing to promote their own values; but poor people think that values, ideals, etc. are too empty and unimportant.

13. Rich people like to associate with positive and successful people; while poor people like to see others who are not as good as themselves, and even enjoy being with people who are not as good as themselves, just to satisfy their vanity of being superior to others. .

14. Rich people think that seeking benefits for themselves is a matter of course; while poor people think that it is immoral to take the initiative to make profits and find money, and they can settle down from nine to five.

15. Rich people set life goals for themselves in stages, and even have ideas and ideals to change the world; while poor people are just satisfied with the immediate basic necessities of life, or just short-term goals.

16. Rich people think about how to open up more ways to make money and actively set up channels for this; while poor people just dream about how to become rich but do not take action. .

17. Rich people clearly confirm that they can control their own lives; while poor people are very confused, not sure and confident about themselves, and always think that their lives are controlled by someone. With.

As can be seen from the above 17 items, the obvious difference between the rich and the poor is something called positive psychology.

If a person does not have a positive attitude, he will not see the essence of anything he does.

For example, rich people may not be rich at first, but because of their positive attitude and self-awareness, they always suggest to themselves:

Although I don’t have money now, as long as I From now on, I will actively learn financial management. As time goes by, if I gather less and make more, there will always be a sum of funds saved. If this is not done right, then I must find other ways and channels to complete it, instead of letting it go. This is where things get stuck.

In psychology, this is the power that a positive attitude can bring to people. This person has trained himself in this way for a long time and used powerful attribution methods to constantly summarize the factors for success. How could such a person do this? How about staying poor?

So, one of the characteristics of rich people is a positive attitude and they always have goals and requirements for themselves.

On the contrary, the poor often have a negative mentality, crying over the trivial matters in life, wasting energy and emotions, not only prone to depression, but also consuming their time and money at work. energy.

Can people whose work and life are out of balance not be poor over time? Who would want to deal with such poor people and people with such poor ideas?

In today's world where social strata are becoming increasingly solidified, the path to social advancement is becoming increasingly difficult and narrow. A person cannot just think about becoming rich, but must put in practical efforts and actions beyond thinking. It's like the beggar below changed his destiny.

A beggar accidentally received a beautiful flower as a gift from a little flower seller. He was very happy because he could not afford such a beautiful flower. After the beggar returned to his shabby home, he put the flowers in a vase and slowly admired them.

Suddenly he found that the flowers were beautiful, but the vase in which they were placed was too dirty, so he washed the vase again. After the bottle was washed and placed on the table, the beggar found that the table was too dirty. Then he wiped the table, then cleaned the room and the yard...

Finally, the beggar looked in the mirror He found himself in tattered clothes, which did not match the tidy room at all, so he decisively cleaned himself up.

When the beggar packed up everything and looked at himself in the mirror, full of energy and a clean and lively room, the beggar finally realized what was valuable to him, so he decided not to beg again. , and went out to look for a job the next day.

In the end, the beggar became a slightly famous entrepreneur because of his dedication and hard work.

What does this story tell us? The process of becoming a rich man from a poor man?

Of course not.

It tells us that only by making changes in thinking and cognition can a person ultimately change his destiny.

So, if a person always believes that he is a poor person and defines himself as a beggar, then life will give you the life of a poor person and a beggar.

And only if you believe that you should make a difference and will make a difference, and you are changing your position through this knowledge, can you truly change your destiny.