As the saying goes, "Brothers have no money, but sisters have little contact". Is this reasonable? Why?

As the old saying goes, "good things don't go out, bad things spread thousands of miles." No, a young man in the next village beat his brother to the hospital in the morning, and it spread all over our village in the afternoon. Some people accuse the young man of not caring about his family, while others think gloating and watching jokes are not too much. Of course, more people expressed sympathy and asked why. It was not until a relative of the young man's family appeared in the village that everyone knew the real reason! The cause of the matter is probably like this. The young man's three fathers and sons have always been contractors. Because neither brother has a family, the money earned, including the family car, engineering car and other assets, belongs to the father. Family, of course. This situation is understandable. However, unexpected events happened. The young man's father was killed by a sudden accident two months ago, which not only brought sorrow to the two brothers, but also brought controversy. But things often backfire. The boss thinks that when he was working with his father on the construction site, the second child was still studying, and he naturally paid more than the second child, while the second child thought it was all his father's hard work. Why does he take up more than half? After several arguments and debates, there was no result and the opening scene appeared.

Speaking of which, some people will say, does the author say so much nonsense have anything to do with today's theme? In fact, if you think about it carefully, isn't what happened to the young man a typical consequence of the seeds planted by "brother wealth"? Imagine that if one of the two brothers had not cooperated fully in the project, or if his father had drawn a line for them early, perhaps today's consequences would not have happened. The purpose of the old saying that "brothers don't make money" is to tell everyone that brothers had better not have the same interests. If this happens, it is very likely that brothers will turn against each other, hurt the feelings between brothers, make a joke and be influenced by outsiders.

At this point, I think everyone can understand the sentence "brothers have no money", but when it comes to "sisters don't have much contact", I think everyone will feel uneasy for a while. After all, we usually say that ordinary relatives should move more, let alone sisters who are connected by the same blood. In fact, the original intention of this sentence is not to say that sisters should not contact frequently, but to say that the frequency of contact should not be too high. After all, everyone has a small family, and each has its own things. It is impossible to stick together every day like when I was a child. If you disturb each other for three days in a row, it will inevitably bring a lot of inconvenience to each other's life and work. People will say hello to you, and they can't do their own things. Without saying hello to you, I feel that they are heartless and often together. We are impolite to each other, and it is easy to have an argument. Over time, if I don't talk about it, there will be a gap in my heart. Once we can't help it, it will erupt, leading to the breakdown of feelings between sisters, and even the death of old people. Isn't that not worth the loss?

So the so-called "less contact" in this speech is actually for the sake of the long-term relationship between sisters.

To sum up, I believe everyone has a certain understanding of the sentence "Brothers have no money, sisters have little contact", and they must also understand the good intentions of the predecessors to leave this sentence to future generations. The main purpose is to hope that brothers and sisters can live in harmony, and don't break up sisterhood easily because they have no sense of distance, no boundaries and no respect for each other.

Therefore, the phrase "brothers have no money, sisters don't come and go" seems to alienate the relationship between brothers and sisters, but in fact it makes the relationship between brothers and sisters closer, longer and stronger. As for being unreasonable, I think as long as smart people have answers, what do you think? Welcome to leave a comment! Disclaimer: The image source network has nothing to do with the position of this article. If there is any infringement, please inform to delete it!