How can you tell that a person looks down on you?

Will rely on jokes to enhance trust and shorten the distance. Humor is actually very good, which can enliven the atmosphere and bring the relationship closer. But be careful when joking. Too many jokes are not humor, but disrespect for others.

Lee Ji Bolun said, "A sense of humor is an appropriate limit." Some people play a disproportionate joke, regardless of other people's feelings, making people embarrassed and hurting others in the name of joking. Any joke that makes people uncomfortable and hurts the dignity of others is malicious. If some people you know often make fun of you in the following four ways, they often "look down" on you. It is best to alienate and keep your distance!

1, making fun of your appearance and dress.

Some people in life like to expose other people's shortcomings, attack their looks and talk about their clothes. In order to hide their malice, they usually use the word "joke" to prevaricate. If you think this is your own joke, you can gain others' understanding.

Those who always make fun of your appearance and clothes in the name of "joking" don't really treat you as a person, treat you as an object of entertainment and despise you from the heart. For this kind of person, fight back decisively, then deliberately alienate, don't contact again!

2. Make fun of your "imperfect ability"

Some people in life are competitive and jealous, but they just can't hide that others are better than themselves. If others surpass themselves and are better than themselves, they will be dissatisfied and indignant, and then attack others with jokes and hurt their dignity.

This kind of person thinks highly of himself. As long as they see any shortcomings in other people's abilities, they will exaggerate and magnify their own shortcomings and expose their imperfections as revenge and satisfy their vanity. When you meet such people, you must stay away. After all, in their hearts, there is no one but themselves.

3. Make fun of your taste habits

Some people in life never know how to respect others. For the tastes and habits of others, we must take our own requirements as the standard. If you are a little different from them, you are vulgar, have never seen the world, and even call you a "bumpkin".

They don't agree with or respect your taste habits. They often tell you what to do, judge you and make fun of you in a strange way to laugh at you and crowd you out. You don't need to argue, get angry, stay away and reduce contact when you meet such a person with no quality.

4. Make fun of your emotional experience.

Everyone has emotional experiences, good and bad, which are personal privacy. But some people are too mean, always gloating and boasting about other people's emotional experiences, so as to create hot spots and become the topic of jokes.

Such a person, making fun of your emotional experience, is actually a malicious move, damaging your reputation and slandering your character. When you meet such people, you must fight back and never let them be arrogant. Otherwise, it will be discredited by them, which will be unfavorable to oneself and affect life and marriage.

It's not that you can't afford a joke.

First, people who can't afford to make jokes have too many lines of defense and bottom line for themselves, and jokes told by others are easy to touch. Others have no obligation to know where your bottom line is.

Second: I can't recognize others and I can't say it myself.

Joke itself should be divided into occasions. A joke touches the bottom line and you can turn your face! If it's a joke to set off the atmosphere, it's acceptable. After all, being born in this society means dealing with people and contacting circles.

When a joke is just a joke, it is harmless. I believe no one can afford it!

When jokes become your superior way of communication, they look like jokes, but they are actually insinuations. Do you really step on others as stools? Or say nothing?

When the joke turns into humiliation, when the bottom line is touched again and again, I don't know if the joker can live. Do you think you are still joking at this time?

Some people say that this is just a joke, so why take it seriously? Generally, as long as you say so, this joke is basically no longer a joke! You said that others can't afford to make jokes, so you don't want to touch other people's restricted areas. You also said that others are melodramatic and not funny! I wonder who cares about affectation. This type of people, the general emotional intelligence is not high …

In fact, he can't joke ... joking with people! The jokes made by people you don't know are generally jokes, which is a harmonious atmosphere.

Don't joke with sensitive people!

It is impossible to joke in the face of people with inferiority complex!

Jokes are based on respect!

How disgusting is the logic of mocking others in the name of joking, but being told that they can't afford to joke?

In real life, some people always like to play tricks on others, whether it is practical jokes or verbally belittling others, and then get pleasure from it. Such people are extremely unhealthy and even a little deformed. It is also immoral to base your happiness on the suffering of others. Don't blindly tolerate such people, or they will push their luck, find a suitable opportunity, and deal with them as they do.

Many people like joking, but they can't afford it. It feels like they are verbally attacking each other and being sarcastic.

Joking is a way to adjust the atmosphere, but some people satirize others in a joking way, which is incorrect, because there are certain ways and means to joke. You can't attack others with jokes, which is malicious slander.