How many true words can only be said through jokes

1.

"You don't like me, do you?"

"Yes."

"Huh?"< /p>

"Look at you, it's so funny. I lied to you. I can't even take the joke."

"Haha, just say it."

You Do you know? That one is true, and that one is a joke.

I don’t know why I don’t dare to speak my true words directly. In fact, I have also thought that if you give me a smile after I say you are right, maybe my The confession was successful, but when I saw your surprised expression, I felt like I was forcing you with a knife.

So I put down the knife, and I turned the knife into a tickle.

Jokes may bring us back to the original point and resolve the embarrassment caused by telling the truth.

2.

As we grow up, we become less and less afraid to speak the truth. This is because our self-esteem does not allow it and because we are afraid that we will not be able to bear the consequences of speaking the truth.

The older you grow, the more worries you have. The older you grow, the more constraints you have on your body.

When we were young, if our toys were taken and played with by others, we could cry or make trouble, and we could loudly declare not to take my things. But when you grow up, every time someone invades your life, We always tell ourselves that the thing is not very important. Even if we feel really uncomfortable, we will just say "no" as a joke.

The tone at that time was completely different from the tough tone of childhood. We learned to be diplomatic, learned to avoid embarrassment in life, learned to list and compare too many people and things, and were unwilling to break interpersonal relationships. May you leave a bad impression on others.

As a result, all our sincere words turned into jokes, and no one would think that we were serious anymore. Our opinions and our anger could no longer be expressed correctly.

There are so many jokes, but where are the truths?

3.

I went to a bar a few nights ago, and people always feel more sober the less they want to be sober.

Looking at the people mingling with each other, laughing and making noises, the sound of glasses clinking, the lights and the color of wine interlacing, I thought everyone was very happy.

When I went out to sober up, in a dark corner in the distance, a girl sat on the ground sobbing. As I got closer, I realized that she was the girl who was sitting next to me in the lively crowd just now.

It turned out that they had just been drinking and playing Truth or Dare, and asked her to name the person she liked. She told the boy at the same table, and everyone started making noises. Later, the boy secretly asked, "Who were you just now?" Just prevaricate them, I know you actually like xxx."

"Yes, you see you are acting as a shield. Haha."

"Thank you, we have developed a new function."

In fact, that This is not prevarication, but the truth.

4.

I recently re-watched "I May Not Love You". There is a line in it that says: Why do people always lose what they pursue in life? Love will be lost, family affection will be lost, and even the puppies you raise may be lost.

Then Brother Daren’s inner monologue is that I may not love you, and this is why.

Yes, they are afraid of losing, afraid of not being able to remain friends, and afraid that the two of them will never get along so easily, so every time the topic of love and marriage comes up, their serious thinking will It turned into a slapstick joke.

I feel very sorry for Brother Daren, but he has to say it as a joke when he obviously means the truth. I feel very sorry for Sister Youqing, because he can only hear the truth like a joke.

5.

If they are like this, why are we not the same? Tell the truth as a joke and turn yourself into a joke in your own eyes. In fact, it is really full of helplessness.

Dear you, maybe you still want to tell a joke at this time. If you tell too many jokes, you have deceived them and even yourself.

You thought you had let go of the past, and you thought your heart wouldn't hurt if you told it as a joke.

Sometimes if you don’t want to laugh, don’t laugh. The forced smile looks really ugly.

Let him be embarrassed sometimes. In fact, it is a relief for both of you to tell the truth. In the future, you don’t have to carefully hide your feelings, and he doesn’t have to worry about your good and bad moods. Bad reasons.

If you tell too many jokes, people will become fake. We don’t like others wearing masks, so why should we let our true words wear a joke mask?