How to chat with blind date on WeChat?

Question 1: What do you talk to the blind date girl WeChat? Many students don't know what to talk about when they get each other's WeChat.

Tango, a well-known pick-up girl, mentioned it in Bad Boys Teach You How to Attract Girls on a First Date. First of all, we should know that sometimes it's not what you talk about, but that the other person has no motivation to interact with you. She only responds to you politely and doesn't want to really communicate with you. For example, her reply is very short, never causing a topic, and it takes a long time to reply to you, sometimes even not to reply to you.

There are two points about how to pick up girls in WeChat chat and solve the problem that girls lack motivation to interact with you. First of all, girls' first impression of you: for example, your appearance, usually pay attention to hair style and facial skin care, and pay attention to some fashion information. For example, your body language and speech, keep your body stable, don't lean forward when you speak, make eye contact comfortable, slow down and pause, and articulate clearly. Girls have a good first impression on you, so they will naturally have the motivation to associate with you. Many students are not confident about their appearance, but this is unnecessary. As long as you pay attention to the above, it is basically possible.

Secondly, chatting with girls on WeChat should pay attention to the construction of their own WeChat circle of friends. Your circle of friends is the window to show your life. To make girls curious about your life and more interested in you, it is necessary to establish a circle of friends. For example, you must pay attention to the background and light in the photo, and try to choose a place where the background is textured and the light is not too bright or too dark.

Students who want to improve themselves in these aspects can take part in the task of love times and get detailed guidance. Click the talent button in the middle of the bottom of the WeChat screen, or directly reply to the task of the love era.

After solving the motivation of sister interacting with you, let's solve the structure of chat. Your chat with your sister should have a clear structure.

Namely: chat before appointment-chat after appointment.

You should chat with girls on WeChat to invite services. The misunderstanding of many students is that I chat with my sister WeChat a lot, get along well, make her like me, or chat vaguely, so the chances of dating are greater. Actually, it's not like this. Many times, the more you chat with your sister, the less mysterious it is, the lack of intersection in life and limited topics. If you talk too much, your sister will gradually stop wanting to date you. So chat properly, say some basic information to make your sister feel safe, and say some relaxed and psychologically close topics to make your sister feel familiar with you, so that you can ask each other out.

You are ordinary friends, and it's easier to invite, but your sister has no pressure and prefers to date you.

So how does it work? My suggestion is that you should send an invitation within the third time of interacting with her on WeChat, and it is appropriate to send an invitation after the second or third chat.

Here we should correct two misunderstandings, 1, and don't talk every day, as if you have no life, which is of low value and bad. Don't pander, Panko is too heavy. For example, I thought you wouldn't talk to me. I'm so happy that you replied to me. For example, every time the other person says a word, you should continue to say it. Even if there is really no need to reply, the other person will reply with a thank you. You should also say that the goddess' thank you' is really cute and the goddess is really polite.

You can't make your sister respect you like this. Your attitude shows that you and she are not from the same world at all, so you should avoid these two misunderstandings and even try to bravely cut off the topic and cause new topics.

Well, on this basis, let's talk about what we should talk about.

Chatting with an unfamiliar person, the early stage is nothing more than these three topics, the exchange of basic information, interesting third-party topics (that is, there is nothing between you and her, such as movies being a third-party topic), and some feelings about her (more praise and appreciation in the early stage). And interesting points (or boring random conversations ...) are formed around these three kinds of topics in interaction.

The basic problems of people who can't chat focus on interesting third-party topics and express their feelings. They live in a small circle and lack social experience. What they pay attention to is completely different from that of their sister, and they can't cause topics that their sister is also interested in. At the same time, their consciousness of expressing their feelings is very weak, and they can't express their thoughts about their sisters in chat at all (for example, your circle of friends seems to be a little sad all the time). Because of their notes ... >>

Question 2: How to chat with blind date girl WeChat? Can't find the topic. How should I chat? Does she answer the chat when you ask questions? No, that's a checking account. Did you spend the whole day talking to her about European history? No, that's a classroom. What is chatting? Just a few people together, you have something to say and I have something to say. It's actually quite simple. In fact, it has been mentioned in the most classic "first date can attract her" in the girl circle.

Wechat girls are not like this:

-Hi, I want to know you ~

-Hi ~

-Are you from XX?

Yeah, yeah.

-Is your avatar me?

Yeah, yeah.

-How old are you?

- 18

-Why do I call you XX?

-The message could not be delivered. Please add each other as friends first.

- WCNMLJB

-The message could not be delivered. Please add each other as friends first.

1. What is chat?

2. Why chat?

3. How to chat?

Actually, I'm lazy. My friends wouldn't have seen this post if I hadn't accidentally caught a cold, been ill in bed and had nothing to do all day.

Sin sin, gnome male-~

Wechat pick up girls: 1. What is chatting?

Does she answer the chat when you ask questions?

No, that's a checking account.

Did you spend the whole day talking to her about European history?

No, that's a classroom.

What is chatting?

Chatting is a conversation between several people, one after another.

It's actually quite simple.

Wechat pick up girls: 2. Why chat?

You have been chatting, but have you thought about the purpose of chatting?

What is the purpose of chatting? Just killing time.

Bullshit. Why do some people chat to make people like him more and more, and some people chat to make people want to sleep more and more?

What is the purpose of chatting?

In PUA's view, the only purpose of chatting is to make others like you.

In professional terms, chatting is to show high value/negation/framework/build trust/build the comfort of the upcoming ML.

Of course, I wrote this post not to deeply analyze the process of picking up girls, but to help newcomers learn how to chat correctly.

Wechat pick up girls: 3. How to chat?

The conversation at the beginning of the post seems to me to be a complete joke.

Please forgive my confession. Let's learn how to get rid of this dilemma.

3- 1. How to start.

No accounts, really. Might as well spend more time playing League of Legends.

Get to the point, how to start.

Guess.

Guess is one of my favorite ways to start.

How to guess?

If she is extroverted, guess she is introverted.

For example, you seem to get along well with everyone, but I feel that you are actually a particularly lonely person.

If her information is particularly grandiose, you can guess that she is conservative.

For example, well, actually I think you are a good person, but you always give people a bad feeling. The girl who does this actually has an unforgettable past, just to protect herself from harm. Right?

Do you understand? You can guess the opposite of what she shows.

Well, if you don't understand, you didn't look carefully.

If you understand, you will learn to read coldly.

3-2. How to go deep into the theme?

-Hi, I want to know you ~

-Hi ~

-What about you ... >>

Question 3: Is it necessary to send text messages or chat on WeChat every day in the process of interacting with blind date? Hello, I've been on blind dates, too, and I think blind dates are really boring and terrible. However, I am a blind date. As for the question you mentioned, in fact, as long as you can let the other person know that you care every day and contact her seriously, you can do this. People who want to go on blind dates are generally people who have no time to find someone, or who are introverted. The former is nothing, but now that they are dating each other and have the intention of continuing to associate, I think they can still make the other party feel that you are seriously associating with yourself every day. Being a girl is particularly troublesome and sensitive. If you are a boy, of course, take the initiative and contact more! Married, of course, it takes time to run this section, but it also takes time to act. At the beginning, my husband called me every day and invited me to have time to play. Even if he doesn't go to those expensive, considerate and romantic places, I don't feel uneasy as long as someone is willing to take himself out to play. No matter when and where, no problem! Because, when you are not in love, you are really bored and will be blown away to get married. That bitterness, I'm still afraid! However, it is still divided. If the other person thinks the same as you, you can cooperate with your schedule well and have a love! However, your problem now is not ah, the other party is obviously not what you think, saying that there is pressure outside and there is no time. Then, why did you get married and go on a blind date? It's better not to live alone, it's so simple, and there's no trouble now! You are right! I think the other person thinks so, too, idiot! Introverts, who don't know much about talking to people, will make it difficult for them to meet their other half and make it difficult for them to date each other. Therefore, the other party should take him out and go to your world. Two people grew up in different families and have different personalities. If they want to get married, they have to work hard and go to a world that you organize together.

Question 4: How to chat with blind date on WeChat? We have never met. Hello, just talk about some hot topics, such as music, travel, food and so on.

Question 5: How to chat with the blind date WeChat to tell the truth, chat, send text messages, make phone calls, it is better to meet the truth. Because these are all bubble feelings, they are easily destroyed. Actually, you can go to a marriage agency. I feel that their service style is quite good. I will help you decolorize after knowing your clothes and choosing a mate. However, I will know your men's clothes by phone. If you both agree to arrange for you to meet at their place, you will know something the first time you meet, which will largely depend on the spectrum for me.

Question 6: Do I have to chat with the blind date WeChat every day? Talk if you can. If you can't chat, you can bye bye.

Question 7: How to chat with blind date in different places by sending WeChat? Say what? Ask her what she likes, what she likes to eat, where she likes to go, and when is her birthday. Knowing this will be very helpful to you in the future.

Question 8: How to chat with the blind date's WeChat Many students don't know what they are talking about when they get each other's WeChat. Tango, a well-known pick-up girl, mentioned it in Bad Boys Teach You How to Attract Girls on a First Date. First of all, we should know that sometimes it's not what you talk about, but the other person's lack of motivation to interact with you. She only responds to you politely and doesn't want to really communicate with you. For example, her reply is very short, never causing a topic, and it takes a long time to reply to you, sometimes even not to reply to you. There are two points about how to pick up girls in WeChat chat and solve the problem that girls lack motivation to interact with you. First of all, girls' first impression of you: for example, your appearance, usually pay attention to hair style and facial skin care, and pay attention to some fashion information. For example, your body language and speech, keep your body stable, don't lean forward when you speak, make eye contact comfortable, slow down and pause, and articulate clearly. Girls have a good first impression on you, so they will naturally have the motivation to associate with you. Many students are not confident about their appearance, but this is unnecessary. As long as you pay attention to the above, it is basically possible. Secondly, chatting with girls on WeChat should pay attention to the construction of their own WeChat circle of friends. Your circle of friends is the window to show your life. To make girls curious about your life and more interested in you, it is necessary to establish a circle of friends. For example, you must pay attention to the background and light in the photo, and try to choose a place where the background is textured and the light is not too bright or too dark. Students who want to improve themselves in these aspects can take part in the task of love times and get detailed guidance. Click the talent button in the middle of the bottom of the WeChat screen, or directly reply to the task of the love era. After solving the motivation of sister interacting with you, let's solve the structure of chat. Your chat with your sister should have a clear structure.

The answer is not easy, I hope I can help you, please help me adopt it if you are satisfied, thank you!

Question 9: How do blind date chat with WeChat? First of all, say sorry and explain what was interrupted last time. Appears to be very polite.

Second, tell me about her.

"Talking about her" means not always talking about yourself, but asking more girls.