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Is the son-in-law shameful? Will the door-to-door son-in-law be looked down upon?

In the past, the door-to-door son-in-law may be regarded as a soft meal, but now the society is very open and it is a common phenomenon. So, will it be shameful to be a door-to-door son-in-law

Is the son-in-law shameful?

See what you think. Actually, it's okay The name "son-in-law" is probably unique to China, which means that the man is adopted by the woman's family. To put it simply, the man "married" to the woman's house.

In fact, this is nothing abroad. Marriage is a free choice of both men and women, and is generally not influenced by family, relatives and friends, public opinion, etc. However, it's quite different in China. The influence of feudal patriarchal clan system for thousands of years is deeply rooted, and our consciousness has already formed the ideology that men are superior to women. Although people's minds have been greatly open and more tolerant in recent years, it is really unrealistic to change for a while.

Will the son-in-law be looked down upon?

No, it seems that in the last ten years, being a door-to-door son-in-law has been laughed at, but now there are many door-to-door sons-in-law around me, and I have never seen them feel ashamed. How to live or how to live. Nowadays, many family planning parents are single parents. If you say so, it would be a shame to be a door-to-door son-in-law Then don't have many people who can't find a wife. Sometimes there is nothing wrong with being a son-in-law. Find a rich man, at least you can change your destiny. At least I think so, because my family is in a poor area. I don't have much education and no ability. If I work hard by myself, I will struggle for at least many years/maybe I will struggle for many years if I find something better.

How about being a door-to-door son-in-law

In fact, I don't think it's good, just like a girl getting married. It is impossible for everyone to handle family relations well. Actually, I came to the door, too. My wife's parents treat me better than her daughter, so I don't think anyone looks down on me. As long as you treat each other's parents as your own, you won't have a knot in your heart.

Why don't you be a door-to-door son-in-law

1. Be called spineless by others and eat soft rice.

People say that men should support a sky and a home. How can we build a happy and perfect family if we can't even solve the basic problem of food and clothing without a certain economic foundation? Under the pressure of this big environment, it also created the appearance that the door-to-door son-in-law could not be understood and accepted by others, and was labeled as spineless and dependent on women. They can only bear the cynicism of the world alone and make irresponsible remarks behind their backs.

I have no position at home, and I can only endure the injustice silently.

A person's economic strength often determines his position in the family. When there are contradictions and disputes between the two parties to the marriage, the son-in-law will always be the weak one. Houses and cars are provided by women, and women can confidently vent their dissatisfaction and even blatantly threaten you to "leave if you don't want to live". On the other hand, even if the adopted son-in-law has good reasons, he can't stand up straight and openly resist the woman when he clearly knows that he is right, because they don't have the courage. From the day they choose to be the door-to-door son-in-law, it is doomed that they have only a negligible position in the family and can only be wronged by themselves and suffer silently.

3. Children don't have their own surnames.

In China, under normal circumstances, children will take the man's surname, which is a traditional concept handed down from ancient times to the present, and it is also called inheritance. After a man chooses to be adopted by his wife, most of his children need to take the woman's surname. Although surnames are only a form of expression, people pay less attention to them in today's society where men and women are equal. But in today's environment where most children take their father's surname, if you do the opposite, you will be regarded as different by others and classified as weak and incompetent.

If you are divorced, you can leave home cleanly.

In the marriage law, personal property before marriage needs to be maintained for more than eight years before it can be converted into the same property. That is to say, if the house, car and other valuable things are provided by the woman, then if you divorce within eight years, you will have nothing and leave home clean. As we all know, many people can become rich through their own efforts from the beginning, but when they suddenly encounter a low point in life and become poor again, they often can't accept the change from high to low, so they choose extreme ways to deal with it. When you have adapted to the identity of the door-to-door son-in-law, living a life of food and clothing, and suddenly one day you are swept out of the house, you will definitely not be able to accept the psychological gap at that time and don't know how to face the future life.