Why didn't anyone want to marry a maid-in-waiting in the Qing Dynasty? What is the reason?

No one wanted to marry a maid-in-waiting in the Qing Dynasty, because the maid-in-waiting was very old after she left the palace, and it was difficult to get married. Secondly, because of the bad atmosphere in the palace, the rumors from the outside world are very ugly and have a bad impression on the ladies-in-waiting; Then there is the maid-in-waiting suffering from blood stasis, which makes it difficult to have children.

The first reason is that ladies-in-waiting are basically older women after they leave the palace, so it is more difficult to get married again. Many ladies-in-waiting were 25 years old when they left the palace. In ancient times, many of them were older women. Because they married early and gave birth early, the 25-year-old ladies-in-waiting remained single when they left the palace, and it was already difficult to get married. Some ladies-in-waiting may marry others to be concubines, while others can only die alone or have their hair cut.

In addition, the atmosphere inside the palace is not good, and people outside the palace generally despise maids. Life in the palace is actually very monotonous and boring, so there is a feeling between maids and maids, and some maids and eunuchs also have feelings, which is the opposite of food in the ancient population. These two vulnerable groups walk together to comfort each other and relieve loneliness. For people outside the palace, they have also heard about it. If anyone marries such a maid-in-waiting, they will be laughed at. So many people don't want to marry maids.

Another reason is that many maids who leave the palace suffer from blood stasis. This kind of disease is actually very common in the palace, and many maids have it. Because they have to serve their masters, their spirits are high every day, their diet is irregular, they have many rules to obey, they are often beaten and punished, and their bodies and minds are devastated. In the long run, they will suffer from this disease. In fact, it is a tired disease, and you can recover with more rest and recuperation. However, after many maids leave the palace, they have to take care of the family after they get married, so their health is getting worse and worse, which leads to their infertility. In the long run, many people are reluctant to marry maids.

In fact, ladies-in-waiting are the victims of feudal times. They are miserable and regarded as poor people with humble status. When they leave the palace, they have no place to settle down. Many of them die alone! It is really embarrassing!