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How to understand that if you are poor, you will never leave your relatives, and if you are rich, you will never return home?

This sentence is actually a mixture of two sentences.

The first half of the sentence is complete: "The poor do not leave their relatives, and the rich do not string neighbors." The original words are "the poor don't go far from the rich and don't string neighbors", because "the poor string relatives and are easily looked down upon; Rich neighbors are prone to false crimes. " If you are poor, even your relatives will not move around (that is, alienate). When you are down and out, don't think about what benefits you can get from going to relatives' homes, which is easy to be looked down upon! Even the neighbors are afraid to visit if they have money, for fear of being dragged down (that is, indifference)! From "Augmented Xianwen": "The poor don't ask in the downtown area, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains; You can tell the truth if you have money, but you can't believe it if you have no money. Look at the glass on the table and persuade the rich first. If you are poor, you won't leave your relatives. If you are rich, you won't visit your neighbors. Put a begging stick in front of your door to keep your relatives and friends away. It takes gold to make friends in the world, not too much or too deep. Even if you make a promise temporarily, you will always be a pedestrian. Money and wine make more friends, so you can't meet people in urgent need. The winner is king, and the loser is a shackle. Only clothes are not important. " These are the true portrayal of interpersonal relationships in the money society. Describe the world as cold. Many people think that the poor love the rich!

The original words of the second half of the sentence that the rich don't return home are actually "riches and honour don't return home", which comes from Xiang Yu. After Xiang Yu, the overlord of the Western Chu Dynasty, captured Xianyang, some people advised him to build the capital, but because he missed his hometown, Xiang Yu was eager to return to the east, saying, "Wealth does not return to his hometown, like a night trip, who knows!" It means that if you go back to your hometown without wealth, it's like walking in the dark in gorgeous clothes! In fact, Xiang Yu is eager for the feeling of success, eager to return home with clothes and eager to show off in his hometown. It can also be said that he was carried away by victory.

The first half of the sentence is linked together, and then extended, meaning that poor people don't go to their relatives, they will be looked down upon and looked down upon. Relatives think they just come to borrow money to climb their relatives to find trouble; Don't go back to your hometown if you have money, lest those poor relatives borrow money to make trouble.

There is no gap between the poor and the rich, but there are differences in habits, mentality, behavior, goals, courage and ways of doing things between the poor and the rich, which leads to the gap between the rich and the poor. Poor people are reluctant to visit relatives for the following reasons:

1. The poor man is poor because he has no broad mind and always thinks I am poor. That's the way it is. It can't be changed. Narrow-minded, not open, thinking, not creative. The rich think differently. I want to be rich, try to make money and be admired. I am extremely cheerful, unrestrained, unrestrained and feasible in thinking.

The poor and the rich have different behavior habits. Poor people usually watch TV, play games and kill time in their spare time. Rich people can play with contracts and plans.

3, the poor are always afraid of things, bound, and push when they see things. Rich people always dare to take things, dare to take things, and have the responsibility and responsibility.

The poor are always afraid of being with people who are better than themselves. They think they are inferior. The rich always look for people who are better than themselves to learn and communicate, and explore greater business opportunities and development paths.

In fact, to put it another way: when you are poor, you should work hard and manage yourself well, which is not suitable for walking. Moreover, going to relatives' homes will unconsciously bring pressure to themselves, even if some relatives try their best to help, they will also bring pressure to themselves. So it's better to be quiet. It's the same when you have money. When you are rich, your relatives will inevitably want you to share or help some difficulties, or some relatives will feel inferior and uncomfortable when they see you. So in order to avoid distinction, let's walk around on an equal footing, or don't show poverty and show wealth.

In short, the poor fundamentally change their views, it is good to visit relatives, and the rich can help them!