Parental love: Why does Jiang Weimin look down on Anjie the least?

There is an old saying in China called "Like a tiger father, like a son", which has also been verified in "Parents' Love". In this play, Jiang Defu and Anjie have five children, three of whom follow in their father's footsteps, and the youngest daughter is admitted to the university and becomes a writer. Only the third son, Jiang Weimin, doesn't want to be a soldier. He went to the countryside to become a farmer, and later left his job to live on his laurels with his wife and daughter.

There are two impressions of Jiang Weimin. One is that he liked to complain when he was a child, and the other is that when he grew up, he went to the countryside and said that he was the scapegoat of the Chiang family. Other Jiang children's personalities can be seen clearly as parents, but Weimin is very strange. His "strangeness" may be related to his growing environment. Some people will say that he grew up in a good environment? Not exactly.

Wei Min is three men, the eldest daughter Jiang Yafei is a twin, and there are two older brothers Guo Wei and Wei Min in front. There is a younger sister Yaning behind, who should be one year older than Wei Min Yafei and others. Big brother and second brother grew up together and got along for a long time. Before the three brothers and sisters were born, they had deep feelings.

It is not difficult to see that the relationship between the eldest brother and the second brother is closer, and Weimin is just a small follower. Jaffayanin is a sister with little age difference, and the relationship from childhood to adulthood is naturally better than that with her brothers. In this case, Weimin became the most embarrassing child in the middle. He can only follow the big brother's ass, but he can't squeeze into Yafei Yaning (I don't think he wants to squeeze). There must be a gap in his heart that his brothers and sisters don't need themselves. Perhaps because of this, he likes to complain, making himself feel comfortable and needed.

Wei-min Jiang was not favored since childhood, and Jiang Defu and Anjie didn't care much.

Eldest brother Weiguo joined the army and finally became the brigade commander of motorcycle infantry brigade. The second child, Weidong, joined the army and finally became the logistics department minister. The third son, Jiang Yafei, worked in the army and finally joined the political commissar of Qingdao veteran cadres. The fifth young man, Jiang, was admitted to the university. Finally, in order to become the husband of the political commissar of the military region, he stayed in Songshan Island and became the principal of the school.

These four children can basically be said to have stable jobs and good development. Only Jiang Yafei's fourth child, Jiang Weimin, accomplished nothing. In the end, he had no job, no education and no house, so he had to eat at his parents' house.

Jiang Weimin is like this, which is related to Jiang Defu Anjie's educational methods. Of the five children in the family, Jiang Weimin is the least clever and the best.

Considering that there are many children, serving the people is not outstanding, and they are often ignored by their parents, in such an environment, the psychology of serving the people is unbalanced, and there seems to be not much thinking about their own lives.

This is the responsibility of Jiang Defu and Angie. In the face of sons who are not smart and children in the middle, they should give more care and encouragement, instead of all kinds of blows and denials when they want to attract their attention for the people.

Looking back on the growth track of serving the people, we can understand all kinds of performances in the later period of serving the people. Parents have been guiding children since childhood, so in the end, Jiang Weimin didn't get along well, and Jiang Defu and Anjie were both responsible as parents.

The reason why Jiang Weimin's personality is like this may be because he has always been related to Dehua. When I was a child, Jiang Weiguo and Jiang Weidong lived together, chatting and being naughty. When he was a child, Jiang Weimin lived with his aunt all the time. Many things that the brothers did, Jiang Weimin did not participate. Therefore, Jiang Weiguo and Jiang Weidong are naturally not independent and responsible.

Therefore, the reason why Jiang Weimin doesn't like everyone is not only related to age, but also related to personality. Jiang Weimin is kind and honest, but timid and has no goals and ambitions.

When I was a child, Weimin used to be a doormat. The children at home got into trouble and made mistakes. Mom and dad often hit him conveniently. When brothers and sisters work together, he will be bullied by his twin sister.

I remember very clearly that once he went out with two brothers who hit him on the head. I can see that he is used to bullying at ordinary times. Yafei is like a boy, articulate and often scolds him, but his elders are partial to Yafei, so he reluctantly accepts it.

Once, he wanted to go to the toilet, but Yafei wouldn't let him, so he really held back. Then the boss said he couldn't go.

At breakfast, no one cares what other children say wrong. Angie hit him on the head with chopsticks when he said the wrong thing.

On another occasion, in the face of Angie's accusation, he told menstruation that the lock was locked, and the result was good. Angie scolded him, and his sisters also scolded him, always saying that he was a traitor. Aunt always said that he didn't look like a man.

This family environment caused him to shrink and shrink, and he dared not show his face. Courage is also very small, paying special attention to the faces of elders. His most accustomed action is to cover his head, indicating that his family likes to knock him on the head intentionally or unintentionally.

Later, for various reasons, he didn't go to the army like his two brothers. It stands to reason that he can actually be a soldier on the island like Yafei. Yafei didn't go to school either, but his parents preferred boys to girls, so he left her and sent Jiang Weimin, his age, to the countryside. This is actually an obvious prejudice.

Finally, when my parents went to their hometown, they took a look at him "by the way" and saw him working in a mess. At that time, Angie's eyes were full of tears, and she felt that she had "ignored" the child.

But Yafei beat him, kicked him and laughed at him as a "donkey".

Although these humiliations are embellished by his own pot, he will feel that I am not needed and bullied, and everything is my fault. This strange figure has been growing up with Weimin.

Parents treat their children equally and respect their future choices. Both the eldest brother and the second brother are going to be soldiers, and dad agrees. Find a way.

When Weimin was old, his parents asked him that he didn't want to be a soldier in the first year. When he wanted to go, he had no chance but to go to the countryside. His parents also told him to wait for two years and try to get him back. So, he took the initiative to drive a tractor in a factory in the country ... Later, his parents went back to their hometown to see him. He said, Nothing, anyway, I am the scapegoat of the Chiang family. I guess Changyi Jiang, the "bastard" who didn't reveal his true identity at that time, got along better than himself and was more angry inside. ...

Judging from the whole plot, Jiang Weimin's performance since childhood is cowardice. He works hard outside with the help of his brother and the love of his parents and aunts at home. When stealing peach cakes, because Jiang Weimin found that others were stealing peach cakes, it was his turn not to eat them, so he reported it to Anjie. Jiang Weimin was very angry after being beaten by Angie. He didn't eat. Why did he hit me? Angie taught him a lesson. Who told you to snitch?

I have no opinion since I was a child and like to report, which is the biggest difference from other brothers and sisters. At home, Jiang Weimin is not as brave and good at fighting as his two brothers, and his personality is not as flamboyant as Jiang Yafei. He has always been a punching bag at home, and anyone can kill Jiang Weimin.

I think this seemingly insignificant and worthless for the people is the shadow of some ordinary people. It seems that he doesn't exist in an excellent military family like his parents, but is just a member of an ordinary family that needs to go to the countryside. Love gossip, love talkative, love complaining, sometimes inexplicably beaten, used as a gun, suddenly forgotten, away from parents, go to the countryside, where you can also find a hobby, make some friends, be practical, short-sighted, find a girl from an ordinary family, get married and have children. Laziness is not a big responsibility. I quarreled with my wife, mixed a teahouse and raised a child. I can't make public if I don't make public.