I often get cold feet when meeting strangers at parties, what should I do?

I think we cannot lack meeting some strangers in our lives. Sometimes we meet by chance, and sometimes we have to get to know each other because of work. Some people are very good at interpersonal relationships. People who interact with others are relatively tactful in dealing with things. They can quickly mingle with these strangers and have a lot to talk to them. However, some people may be shy in personality and don't like to do things that are more tactful. That's natural. When you are with these strangers, there will be a cold moment, and neither party knows what to say.

Such a scene must be very embarrassing, and something we don’t want to face. If you want to ask how to do it, I think there are only two ways. The first is to reduce the number of encounters with strangers. If it is not necessary, if it is not something that must be done, then you should not say hello to others and try to trick others. Almost, just be yourself quietly and meet people you are familiar with.

In other words, when you meet these strangers, it is best to bring an intermediary, someone who knows you and knows him. Such a person will definitely understand the relationship between the two of you. With some help, he will find some topics for you.

The second method is to start from yourself. Go through more such occasions, accumulate some experience, and look for many related topics. This also requires you to do your homework in advance. Find out what this person usually likes to do and what her hobbies are, and then you can find some topics to chat with her from these points during the quiet period. I believe it will be very exciting.