If you are joking, your husband is serious.

When your husband asked you, you said it was a joke, which means he knew it was just a joke, but he didn't really listen. Think about it. Did others say anything nice to you when they quarreled? As the saying goes, it is difficult to quarrel, and he just wants to catch you and beat you, so your husband is not petty, maybe most men will be like this, hehehehehe! Men can be unreasonable!