Capricorn analysis (source Zhihu)

Re-edited the content (basically rewritten)

Let’s analyze this Capricorn from childhood to adulthood.

The growth of Capricorn is a process from self-denial to self-affirmation, with constant reflection, discussion and association.

What was Capricorn like as a child? Problem children, Capricorns are full of problems, disobedient, stubborn, rebellious, rebellious... These problems will appear in them earlier. If you want to compare people to the initial equipment of a game, the earth sign should be the worst kind, while the air sign should be the best kind. The difference lies in the issue of double quotient.

Let’s talk about emotional intelligence first. Young Capricorns are actually very bad at making friends, mainly because they can’t keep their heads down and ask others to beg him to be friends, but in their hearts they are particularly envious of social butterflies with the wind sign. There is a group of people around. At this time, Capricorn is pretending to be aloof. He just ignores people on the street and doesn't say hello. The children are confused. Why is this person like this? In fact, he really wanted others to hang around him all day long, but he didn't want to show it like this. Then he is very rude and often makes other children cry. He feels that he is great and thinks that everything else he does is stupid, but in fact he is super naive. At this time, Capricorns are actually very indifferent to people's faces. They are not sweet to their elders and were even scolded by their parents when they were young.

As for IQ, Capricorns should feel that their grades since childhood have not been top-notch, but they are not bad either, somewhere in the middle or upper reaches. When you encounter innovative questions when doing questions, you will get stuck in expansion questions. This is because Capricorn's fixed thinking is good at constantly reflecting on and modifying one thing, but not good at expanding. So Capricorn is really not smart, but outsiders generally comment on Capricorn that this child is very smart. The main reason is that although Capricorn is not perverse, Capricorn is very spiritual. Although he is very introverted, he is good at expressing and elaborating, and he is eloquent.

There are several main problems with Capricorns in childhood

1. It is difficult to grasp the scale of things, not knowing when to do what, what can and cannot be done.

2. Not understanding oneself, taking oneself too seriously, being paranoid and unwilling to bow down. Although this happens when you grow up, it is especially serious in childhood.

3. Self-denial, lack of confidence, and extreme low self-esteem. He is envious and envious of everything he sees in others, and always uses other people's strengths to compare with his own shortcomings. Then I can't see my own shining point.

4. Too sensitive and possessive. If you are my friend, you can't be nice to others. If you are nice to others, you are betraying me. Then I don't want you.

5. Too childish. Capricorn knows that he is childish. He always wants to restrain but cannot bear to make mistakes, and then the next second he goes back and despises himself for the last second. So why are Capricorns unwilling to recall and talk about the past? Because the past was all about himself that he couldn't accept.

Capricorn's growth is stage by stage, elementary school/junior high school/high school/university/graduation...

At different stages, Capricorn's mind will be more mature than in the previous stage. In terms of reason, this change is probably more profoundly affected by the environment and time, just like suddenly one day figuring out something that I couldn't figure out in the past. Although Capricorn has been constantly self-reflecting, this change in thinking takes time, a subtle thing that allows his acceptance and tolerance to continue to grow. He will begin to accept things that he previously rejected. At this time, everything around him is the material for accumulation of reflection. He not only thinks about the things around him, but also thinks about other people's things.

It is worth mentioning that the maturity of Capricorns is a process of assimilation. No matter what the process of growth is, they will eventually become the same type of person. Just like young Capricorns, young Capricorns see my previous analysis and feel that it is completely wrong, but older Capricorns will become more and more cynical.

Here let’s talk about Capricorn’s first love. Capricorn usually falls in love for the first time, or the first few relationships are basically spent in secret love. From the beginning to the end, the other party does not know and has nothing to do with him, even in his opinion This is not considered first love, just a simple liking and good impression. Why do you like to keep silent? Because of my low self-esteem, I felt that I was not worthy of him and that it was impossible. When a Capricorn is faced with a relationship that is completely impossible, the choice is to cover it up and not tell it, so that you can't see it, and even if you chase me, you will refuse. Therefore, Capricorns during this period are really not simply passive.

The reason for low self-esteem is that Capricorns will fall in love with the best people in that environment at different times, and your excellence forms a very strong contrast with his shortcomings. Capricorn thinks that you will not like him due to this contrast, and he is too concerned about face and is afraid of being rejected, so he will never speak. Next, which zodiac sign is the one who breaks up as soon as they graduate? Capricorn. At that time when Capricorn is very realistic, he still doesn't know why he likes you, what is love, why he wants to be with you, and there are also practical issues that Capricorn can't cross in his life.

The important criterion for measuring a Capricorn is maturity. Compare a Capricorn to a fruit. When it is ripe, it becomes a god or a goddess. Before it is ripe, your mouth will be green. You have no idea what it is going to do. It is very serious. Weird and selfish. This kind of maturity mainly comes from the mind. Capricorn's naivety lasts his whole life, no matter how old he is. But the more mature the mind, the stronger Capricorn's tolerance and acceptance. It can be said that mature Capricorn is calm and calm, while young Capricorn is He behaves better and is impetuous and rejects, opposes and refutes everything.

The following analysis is mainly for mature Capricorns, who have been out of society for about 2-3 years.

First of all, let’s talk about the disadvantages caused by rationality.

"He is a good person, but we are not suitable for being good friends. I don't hate him but I can't like him." This is a Capricorn's evaluation of a past enemy. Capricorns can see a person's bright spots and shortcomings. , the dark side. Super intuition can see whether others are real or pretending. Even if you hate someone, you can still praise them. This is Capricorn, a completely rational person. In this way, the only relationship between people that is clearly seen is the relationship of interest. If people are treated as objects, what are the advantages and disadvantages? Which one is better? How much emotion does such a person have left? Any relationship may be abandoned for them, they only want the most suitable and comfortable emotion. The person who is attracted to you may not necessarily marry him, but the person who can marry must be the most suitable one who can stay with him for life. This is Capricorn’s view of love. Capricorns will not give up their career or life for love. If the relationship is gone, it will be gone. At least there will be money. So why do some people say that Capricorns have a dead heart? It’s because Capricorns see too clearly through rational thinking. People will die eventually and others will leave them. He just needs someone to accompany him to live his life. Capricorn will not force others to change for him or change for others. Compared with a natural pair, Capricorn believes in time and mutual adaptation. Therefore, Capricorn is slow to warm up, and Capricorn needs to test the other person a little bit before giving in the end. Time becomes a test for Capricorn's relationship, because he has experienced too many people leaving him. The longer you can stay, it shows that you are not casual about him. Capricorn believes that good emotional experiences will last forever.

Young and mature, late bloomers

The thoughts of Capricorns of the same age are often more mature than those of the fire and air signs of the same grade, because Capricorns like to reflect and think, and relatively reflect on things. deeper direction. So maybe people of the same age have similar experiences, but Capricorns seem to have experienced more. At the same time, Capricorn likes to simulate associations, which is roughly YY, so when Capricorn does something again, he is very skilled because he has simulated it in his mind countless times. The disadvantage of this approach is that when encountering a new physical object, he has no Thought of it. Capricorn is confused on the spot because he is not good at responding to such sudden things and needs his brain to think and judge.

The other is the deep reflective side of Capricorn. For example, when a Capricorn is cheated, Capricorn will not blame the person who cheated him, but blame himself for being stupid. So why is Capricorn's growth so difficult? It's because he forces himself to find mistakes to promote his growth. As said before, "In a sense, Capricorn's value formation model is the weakest." This is why Capricorns have many problems in childhood, and this rapid overtaking of others comes from this painful forced self-reflection. The result of reflection is that the heart finally dies. Because every time you reflect, your heart will die and your heart will become harder. Because in his opinion, being abandoned is his problem, so if you hurt Capricorn once, Capricorn will actually suffer more harm. This kind of growth process causes Capricorns to be very defensive against people, and at the same time cruelly abandon their feelings, because the pain they have experienced is too insignificant to this point. The greatest comfort for pain is to see one's own growth. Breakup is just an experience for Capricorns, and Capricorns will hardly fall into emotional pain because they are too rational.

It is this growth process that causes Capricorn to have enough experience to mature and establish his own values ??before he can succeed, so it makes no sense to say that Capricorn is a late bloomer. And after this rising period, Capricorn will become more and more charming. He will eliminate or hide the side that should not be exposed, and know how to say things. Capricorn's emotional intelligence can be discovered through exploration. Capricorns are very good at exploring human nature and are very proficient in it. The most important thing is that Capricorns at that time will be able to control the degree of various things, and will not go out of their way to do things and will not be too emotional to the extreme. At work, he is a veteran cadre, but emotionally he is a veteran driver. So why do Capricorns produce gods and goddesses?

Gray

The previous rational analysis also said a lot. Capricorns will not react too emotionally to things. Justice and evil are not absolute in the eyes of Capricorns. He only has eternal interests in his eyes. Enemies can also sit down for profit. It can be said that Capricorn is a very purposeful person. Capricorns will not have a particularly strong sense of justice, nor will they have strong negative thoughts. If there is no meaning, they will choose to remain silent. Everything must have a purpose or meaning for Capricorns.

Come back to Capricorn, who has been in darkness since childhood. For a person who has seen darkness, this black bin is nothing. Capricorn can imagine many terrible places in human nature, which also indirectly leads to Capricorn’s How cruel.

Furthermore, Capricorn also lives a very gray life. Capricorn is proficient in human nature and can take advantage of it, and is good at verbal inducement. Next, every word Capricorn says is actually half-truth and half-false. This is called a "true lie". Capricorn will automatically filter out the parts that cannot be said. Capricorn will never lie, but Capricorn will cover up.

Capricorn-style rejection

Capricorns are good at rejection and denial. Always accept after denying.

Capricorn's rejection and negation are habits. Capricorn will refuse before he thinks about it.

Sometimes Capricorn's rejection is a disguised promise. It's like if you invite Capricorn to go out for dinner and Capricorn says it's too far away and the food isn't good, it's not that he doesn't want to go but that he doesn't want to go to that restaurant, or he might like to call a taxi. But Capricorn, the zodiac sign, instinctively likes to "don't say anything directly" and "speak with words", so at this time you just need to say take a taxi, right? Or if you go somewhere else, Capricorn may just leave with you. Because Capricorn is actually a very casual person, he will say this because he wants to say it but he is not good at making demands. Capricorns generally say "I'm sorry, I have something to do tonight, it's a class reunion" when they don't want to go, and they won't give you a chance. This is the purpose of Capricorn mentioned earlier. Chatting in circles for no reason must have a purpose. Although Capricorn can hide, he really hopes that someone can understand him. At this time, if you don't get his point, Capricorn will think you are boring.

What Capricorn needs is for you to understand him, not for you to inquire about his family past... First of all, if you want to understand Capricorn, you must talk to Capricorn about your affairs and try to have a heart-to-heart relationship with Capricorn, and then Capricorn will act Tell you about him in return. Next, you need to know that there is a forbidden area in Capricorn's heart, which is a part of himself that even he hates, memory. Generally speaking, it is called shame (the ex is also included in this), so Capricorn does not want you to know him too well. What he needs is knowledge. When Capricorn talks to you, what he needs is your comfort, and that kind of intelligence is an answer that sees through the essence of the matter.

Inducing, covering up, hiding

Capricorn is definitely the most hidden sign. He will hide his past, his stains, his purpose... Capricorns are really masters of lying, and they can easily tell lies. I said that this kind of lie is not a pure lie, it is mostly half-truth, and even if he really lies, you will not notice and catch the pigtail. This is really the great thing about Capricorn. If he knows that you don’t believe it, he will find someone to verify it. He will find someone to co-star with him and eliminate all evidence. This is also the result of his good observation. Capricorn likes to spy on others, so why he says he knows something is not just trusting you out of thin air. On the other hand, Capricorn's so-called non-explanation means that he is too lazy to explain whatever you think, because he knows that he is innocent. You can't misunderstand him at this time. For example, "You're having an affair, you're a scumbag." Capricorn may actually do it to you for this. This is why Capricorn is the most misunderstood sign.

Capricorns are naturally more competitive about winning and losing. Before the modification, these words were placed as "Capricorns live in the eyes of others", "The objects of comparison for Capricorns may be family members, lovers, friends, and enemies" and "Capricorns compare to prove themselves to themselves."

In fact, it's more than that. Why does Capricorn take softness but not hardness? If you and Capricorn are in a head-to-head confrontation, it will eventually turn into a competition between Capricorn and you to see who is tougher. You have to understand that Capricorns are hard-hearted, and the more they compete with each other, the less likely they will be soft-hearted. You can't win against him, because he is already ready for your end. Capricorns should have had this thought, "If I want to be a bad person, I must be the worst one. Nothing is pure evil." So cheating and having an affair are nothing to Capricorns. It's not that he doesn't dare to do it, but you have to misunderstand He's going to do it for you. I said Capricorns are quite ruthless. Capricorns are actually quite villainous, because Capricorns love to hold grudges and retaliate. If they offend Capricorns and don't explain clearly, they will become cold-blooded, quarrel with others, and then turn to retaliate. Capricorns are very good at fighting people and keeping cold wars. First of all, Capricorns are good at moral attacks. Most of Capricorn's words are purposeful or aggressive, and many times they are not just joking. And Capricorns usually say the most unpleasant words when joking. When it comes to a cold war, be sure not to have a cold war with Capricorn because he keeps thinking about whether you and him are suitable for continuing to get along, and his energy has long been dispersed elsewhere. Capricorn is the best at distracting attention.

Capricorn doesn't like to speak directly. It's hard for me to describe my willingness in this paragraph. Capricorn will feel embarrassed if he expresses openly. He just wants to hint at you and let you discover it. In his opinion, it is a kind of "interest". What you can understand about him is what he wants you to know and does not want to tell you. Maybe you will never know. Capricorns have too many secrets.

The city is full of evil

I briefly wrote this paragraph, but after saying so much, everyone knows what it is.

1 Good at guessing and testing others

2 Good at hiding oneself

3 Likes to mislead and induce others

4 Proficient in using human nature

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5 Completely rational and disposable

6 Dark nature and strong purpose

7 Strong intuition and good at routines

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Do you know who Capricorn is? Whether he is an angel or a devil depends on his thoughts. Capricorn firmly believes that people are not pure, so Capricorn is not pure either. Everything has a hidden purpose. He knows things better than you. By nature, it's easier to let go of emotion, knowing how bad he can be. But he usually won't do this, because he has a kind heart, and you must have forced him to do this, so Capricorn is like a mirror.

At the same time, Capricorn is more like a machine. Everything needs a reason, so most of the time Capricorn thinks just to give himself a reason. The same is true for Capricorn's initiative and passivity. He will take the initiative if he has reason. Should he take the initiative then it will never take the initiative.

The Contradiction of Capricorn

1. Water sign + earth sign, more precisely a combination of Taurus and Scorpio. Capricorn can be very casual or very careless. Capricorns are all paranoid, sensitive, thoughtful, and suspicious of water signs. The earth sign is rational, pessimistic, values ??the outcome, and is confident. Capricorn also has it, but in many places the two are incompatible. In Capricorn, both are present, so why is there a contradiction.

2. The inner childishness lacks the mental maturity. People who are familiar with Capricorns will know how childish Capricorns are. Many times they are no different from a child, and even childish, but you have to treat them as a child. Look, kid, he's so sophisticated that you can't believe he's good at calculating tricks, and many times you'll be eaten to death by him.

3. Confidence and low self-esteem, there are too many aspects to talk about. Most of the time, Capricorns are arrogant and unwilling to bow their heads. I am wrong. Only you admit your mistake and I don’t bow my head to apologize. But most of the time, Capricorns hug and say I don’t. I chose not to mention my qualifications and your attitude towards making requests. Next, although Capricorns look very strong, they actually long to be controlled, but most people don't have this ability.

4. Hiding and longing to be understood, as mentioned before, imagine an "orphan constellation" with such a bad temper, how many people really understand him and are willing to take the time to understand him? No matter how good he is and how many people are around him, there must be very few people who can live in his heart. This is why he may have many choices, but there may be really few choices. Capricorns really don’t insist on relationships, but they look forward to it very much. . So even if you don't understand him, you still try to understand him and accompany him. Maybe you don't have the intellectual beauty to understand him, but he can see your dedication.

Getting along with Capricorns

Be mentally mature, know how to look at faces, and control your temperament

Three points can identify a kind of person

Capricorns like comfort. What does comfort mean? If we don’t have time, we won’t see each other. See you again when we have time. You have your life and I have mine. Don’t ask weird questions like “Do you not love me?” or “Do you love me?” What"... Most of the time, he is more mature and more open-minded than you, so you are expected to control him like a mother or father. Don't say anything, learn to leave a step for him. If he is unhappy, just be quiet and elegant. Don't force, ask, force... it's boring and he won't speak unless you force him to death. You should be by his side when he needs you, not force him to speak when he doesn't want to talk

Finally, this is my personal opinion on this issue

If you are a Capricorn, then I hope it can help you discover your shortcomings, break through yourself, and make yourself more perfect. Capricorns are highly malleable, and this plasticity comes from their desire for self-shaping.

If you want to know about Capricorn. Then I hope you can be more proactive. You have to know that Capricorns are often too arrogant and unwilling to bow their heads. I hope you can understand him more and be considerate of him.

If you want to trick Capricorns, Emmmm, Taurus, Scorpio and Virgo may not need to tell them what to do. If you don’t just forget it, you will be counterattacked. Capricorns don’t even have to think about it.

Just listen to things like horoscopes for fun, don’t be too serious. After truly experiencing the huge personality differences between twins caused by different family education, I think it is better to teach one person through tutoring experience and school hours. The impact will be deeper and longer-lasting. Although many phenomena can be found around people with the same zodiac signs, it does not mean that everything is always on target. Unless you have the experience of a zodiac blogger and have known a zodiac sign for more than ten people and know how to attack each other, the rest is really a rational suggestion. It’s “at best it can only be used to understand some of the other party’s behaviors.” No matter how many people think you are Capricorn, Virgo, Taurus or Scorpio, it is really difficult to understand Capricorn. For the same reason, all Capricorns I know have no understanding of Aquarius, and they are powerless against Leo. Moreover, many horoscope characteristics are based on big data. With big data, it is difficult to say that your most special person may not necessarily win the bid. There is a Capricorn around me who is not like her (I don’t know what her zodiac sign is). I recently worked with a Taurus and found that there are still many differences. I found that the method of getting along with Capricorn started to work.

As for whether horoscopes are trustworthy, emmm... First of all, the zodiac signs we are talking about are part of astrology. It is a very rigorous subject. We can only say that we have not learned enough. Again, don’t use the reason for being passive because I am a Capricorn. As a Capricorn, when you understand why you are passive, you have to break through and take the initiative. In terms of relationships, Capricorns sometimes really deserve it (experience it yourself). If you know that your conflicts come from your paranoia, you must learn to let go of your obsession. The biggest advantage of Capricorn, which is also the characteristic of the earth sign, is to improve and become a better person through learning, exploration and proficiency. Among them, Capricorn mostly comes from being in trouble with himself (self-denial), proving it to himself, and forcing himself. , reflection and summary of deep thinking. So now that you know what your problem is, why not force yourself to take the initiative to get out?