What would you do if you met a violent girl who loves to hit people?

Recently, something like this happened around Bian Xiao. A couple, the woman is a wayward, irritable and impulsive person, and everything at home is basically in her charge. The man is a cowardly, introverted, honest and simple man with no achievements. When you are in love, a woman's temper is also very bad, and a man is very patient and has no resentment. At that time, women liked such a man very much, and they got married hastily after living with him for two years. Women don't even have a wedding, just ask their relatives and colleagues to bless them. The wedding photos were taken when they were three months pregnant. Women really loved men at that time. After marriage, in daily life, women always love to hit men. It has become a habit for women to lose their temper when they are dissatisfied, but men once endured it. One day, the man finally couldn't stand it and hit the woman. The woman cried silently all night. What do you think of such a thing?

Everyone will say that everyone knows that boys should love girls and can't fight. There is no denying that the boy who defeated them will always be love rat. In fact, whether it is love in marriage or daily communication, he is wrong, but some girls are also willful, savage and violent. It is enough for a boy to meet a girlfriend who likes to beat others violently. What should boys do?

1, violence is coquetry:

Girlfriends often beat themselves and look very violent. In fact, it's a kind of performance that girls spoil their boyfriends. The so-called beating is kissing, scolding is love, because you will do that because you are in your heart, and you will definitely not do that to others. Beating yourself is also an intimate act. Girls are more reserved in expressing their love. As long as they don't play badly, they won't complain.

2. Listen more and talk less:

Girlfriends are violent and like to hit people. It must be very angry. That girl is usually willing to hit people. When she sees her girlfriend angry, she will coax her quickly. Don't add fuel to the fire. Listen to your girlfriend more often. Don't talk back when encountering contradictions and frictions. Girls like to make boys talk back. Wouldn't it be noisy if boys talked back? Noisy girls will naturally do it. If they listened more and talked back less, they wouldn't be beaten.

3, more reminders to find opportunities:

Girlfriend likes to hit people violently, but she doesn't want to do it. There are many times when her temper is too big to control and she is more emotional, which is often said. Such a girl is not bad at heart, but has poor self-control ability. As a boyfriend, remind her more and help her more. More importantly, we should understand her, avoid provoking her, and choose a suitable one when encountering contradictory communication.

4, don't want to say it:

It may be a habit for a girlfriend to like to hit people violently. I have no idea what I did was wrong. As a boyfriend, I can't bear it blindly. If I don't say or tell my girlfriend what I really think, my girlfriend will misunderstand. I think hitting people is nothing, and I don't know how heavy it is. If I see my boyfriend unhappy, I don't know what's wrong. I will be more angry and depressed. Boys must find a suitable opportunity to have a good talk, communicate and let their girlfriends know what they think. If they don't say it themselves, how can others know whether they are willing or not and mistakenly think that they like being beaten by themselves?

5, can't stand shouting out:

Girlfriends are violent and like to hit people, which shows that they are willful and even barbaric. If you just don't use force at ordinary times and can't get hurt, it's not violence. It depends on the beating. If you push hard, or if you hit yourself with something, you will feel very painful. In this case, boys must speak out, tell their girlfriends that they are in pain, and see their reaction and performance. If your girlfriend thinks she's lying, that's fundamental.

6. Reflect on yourself and improve yourself:

Girlfriends are violent and like to hit people. Many times, she hates iron and wants her boyfriend to be better, so that her face will be brighter. Girlfriends are often very violent to themselves, so you can't just blame them. She should also consider rethinking her words and deeds. If she doesn't do well enough, she has angered her girlfriend. If she is wrong, then correct herself first, make herself mature, understand and understand her good intentions, and improve her comprehensive ability.

7. Be strong:

Girlfriend likes to hit people violently, which shows that as a boy, he is weak and dotes on his girlfriend too much. Girlfriend is used to hitting himself, and he always endures it, but he won't or won't express it. Maybe he will only be silent in the cold war and even giggle. In the eyes of his girlfriend, he will think you are weak and lack of blows. As a boy, you should be a little manly, but you should also have your own opinions. The weak is the weak, and the strong is the strong. He can't always look like a weak person.

8. If you can't change it, leave:

Girlfriend likes to hit people violently, which shows that she can't control her negative emotions. She is an impulsive girl, not gentle enough, and has a willful personality. She also told her girlfriend her feelings and thoughts, hoping that her girlfriend would correct her and understand her pain. But she can find that her girlfriend has not corrected, and there is still a tendency to violence. If she can't stand it as a boyfriend, then break up early, indicating that they are not suitable for each other.