Children owe their parents nothing when they are born. Raising children for old age is parents' biggest joke!

Since ancient times, people in China have had the traditional concept of raising children to guard against old age and giving preference to sons. But with the improvement of people's education level, more and more people begin to change their ideas.

As a post-1995 generation, most of the views I came into contact with were attacks on these two views.

Children are born as an independent individual, not an accessory of anyone. In this case, she has her choice. As a parent, if she raises a child with the concept of "raising children to prevent old age", then the relationship between parents and children becomes a simple interest relationship.

For parents' emotional appeal, children can't give it or not.

I am deeply touched by this passage, and I am more and more sure that the child is an independent person. When she was young, she didn't have the ability to distinguish right from wrong. As a parent, she has the obligation to persuade and teach.

When he grows up, as a parent, he will use "being nice to you" as an excuse to force his children to become their ideal appearance, which I can't agree with.

My child, I hope he can become an upright person.

What wealth, honor ... how to live, these should not be the standard of his "success".

I have a best friend. When I was in college, the national second child policy was relaxed. His parents gave birth to her sister, secretly, without telling my best friend.

When my best friend came home for the New Year, she was at a loss when she saw her baby sister.

Parents mean that they are afraid of her loneliness, so they give her a brother and sister to accompany her.

When my best friend said this to me, I thought to myself: Which of these parents is right?

Give birth to a child to accompany another child, and the other child is almost twenty years old.

Later, my best friend's parents changed their minds and said that since they went to college, they were too lonely and wanted to have a baby with them.

In fact, the real reason is that my best friend's father always cares about not having a son, because my best friend's father is a civil servant, so I dare not have children when I was young. Now I have a second child with the attitude of having a son, but I don't know it's a daughter!

This attitude of girlfriends' parents is a continuation of the concept of the older generation's adopted son continuing the "incense".

Before I went to my best friend's house to play, her father said more than once that he was left alone when he was old.

My best friend always solemnly says that she is in charge.

However, my best friend's father always shakes his head and says, "If you marry someone, that's someone else's family. How can you care about me? "

I saw an interesting conversation on the internet earlier.

A man asked a dink couple why they didn't stay.

The couple replied: "The world is so difficult, why drag others into the water?"

Tsinghua's brother Li Jian has no children until now. He once said that he did not cherish species and was afraid of frequent extinction.

There will definitely be gangsters who say that everyone will not have children, and mankind will become extinct.

I want to say here that I am relieved to have you here! Humans will not become extinct.

Uncle and aunt have been married for many years without children, and grandpa is so anxious that his hair is white.

Later, it was found out that menstruation couldn't have children. After more than two years of trouble, the two divorced.

After my uncle remarried, she gave birth to a daughter soon, and the family was very happy.

I hate that cousin very much. My little uncle and aunt are classmates, and they are free to fall in love and get married. They respect each other like guests and have a good life.

Originally children or something, two people don't care too much.

I don't know when the gossip of relatives at home began to increase.

My aunt began to go in and out of the hospital frequently, and the final result was that two people divorced.

What impressed me the most was that my uncle got drunk and scolded my little uncle: "You are letting our family die, unfilial."

Very ironic! Having children is to continue the incense. I just want to ask how precious your blood is. Do you still need to continue to save the world?

Or do you think your descendants can still remember your name, or do you have any noble deeds that need to be told by future generations?

I want to say that if you really need future generations to tell stories, the Internet can solve it.

Personally, having children means wanting to be born and be a parent. From the process of cultivating children, I can experience the happiness and troubles of being a parent and enrich my life. Instead of having children for the strange "tradition" outside, especially the view that it is unacceptable to have sons to continue the incense!

However, as children, no matter what reason parents gave birth to themselves, this kindness still needs to be returned.

what do you think? What are the reasons for having children? What kind of situation made you have a baby!