After the marriage, Ma Bao's husband showed his true colors: "My mother said that your salary would be kept by her." What should I do?

Filial piety has always been a virtue that people admire, and everyone will think that a person who is filial to his parents must be a good person. But is this really the case?

In fact, this involves small probability events. In this world, nothing is absolute, because no one knows whether an accident will happen. Even a filial person may be a bad person. He is only good to his parents, not to others. Can this be regarded as a good person in our mouth?

No, our definition of a good person is that a good person can treat everyone equally and give up himself to satisfy others.

We don't have to think so complicated. Everyone may have a better impression of a filial person. But once this person has been too filial and turned into a foolish filial person, can we still have a good impression on him?

In my hometown, there is a man who is a famous dutiful son and is famous for his filial piety to his mother. But his mother is a little unreasonable, seniority, in short, is the kind of unreasonable woman.

The man had married a daughter-in-law, who was very virtuous and kept the house in good order. But somehow, the man's mother just despises this daughter-in-law.

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This unruly old man is always beating and cursing his daughter-in-law, even the neighbors next to him can't stand it and stop her. But she swore at her neighbors and said that she had taught her family a lesson. What do you care?

The neighbor was angry and left it alone. But I still feel indignant when I look at my daughter-in-law

A woman can bear it, and her mother-in-law is not good to her. She doesn't say a word, which virtually encourages her mother-in-law's arrogance. Then her mother-in-law did something even more outrageous. If she is slightly unhappy, she will let her son beat her daughter-in-law.

I don't know if this man is crazy or something, but he really did it. Hit his hard-working wife.

Now the woman is chilling and divorced from the man. After the divorce, people around said that this woman did the right thing, and she would never be happy in this family.

Until now, this man is still single, his mother is ill in bed now, and both mother and son are unhappy.

Every time I think of him, I wonder if he will regret driving his wife away now. What did his so-called filial piety bring him?

At that time, I understood a truth. Although filial piety is a good thing, it should be moderate, and it should not be blindly filial. This not only harms oneself, but also harms parents, which is not worth the loss.

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In fact, an ignorant and filial man described above now has a more famous title on the Internet: Ma Baonan.

Speaking of Ma Baonan, I believe everyone will think of one sentence: marry a wife instead of a brother-in-law, marry a Ma Baonan. It can be seen that Ma Baonan's harm to marriage is enormous.

The reason why people don't like Ma Baonan's marriage is that there will still be one person between husband and wife in this marriage, and this person is the man's mother. It is precisely because of this that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be very tense in Ma Baonan's marriage.

A woman can't see any hope when she marries Ma Baonan, which is equivalent to marrying a giant baby who is not weaned. Such a man can't give a woman any future. Therefore, women should polish their eyes and carefully identify whether there is a mother's treasure in men.

Xiao Lu, who had just been married for less than half a year, cried and confided to me that she had lost confidence in this marriage. I was shocked when I heard this. Just got married not long ago. Why do you feel hopeless about getting married?

Lu Xiao told me what happened to her, and after listening to it, I realized that what she said about hopeless marriage was true.

Lu Xiao and her husband, Paul Yuping, are high school classmates. At that time, Paul Yuping was a good boy, and their relationship with Lu Xiao was just classmates. After graduating from high school, neither of them went to college. Lu Xiao went to work in other places, while Paul Yuping stayed in the local area.

Paul Yu Pin has been helping his parents. He listens to his mother. He does whatever his mother tells him to do.

In this way, in the past few years, Lu Xiao had enough wandering outside, so she returned to her hometown. By chance, she reunited with Paul Yuping.

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Old classmates get together very cordially, and two people are in one place, so they come and go frequently. It didn't take long for the two to establish a relationship.

Lu Xiao thinks that Paul Yuping is an old classmate, honest and good to himself, so he agrees to associate with him.

Two people have been dating for more than a year, and Xiao Lu thinks that there is nothing wrong with Paul's remaining products except being too honest. However, Lu Xiao noticed that Paul Yupin always said: My mother said that Lu Xiao thought Paul Yupin was filial to her mother, so he always talked about her. So I didn't take it to heart.

Finally, two people are ready to get married.

When talking about marriage, the two families did not have any differences, and both families agreed with their marriage very much. So the wedding preparations for the two went very smoothly.

However, after getting married, Lu Xiao found that they would live with their in-laws, and Paul Yupin didn't tell her beforehand.

When she asked Paul Yu Pin, Paul Yu Pin casually said, What's wrong with living with my parents? I have been living with my parents and it is convenient to take care of each other. This is my mother's decision.

Although Lv Xiao had some thoughts in her mind, she refrained from having an attack.

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After several months of marriage, Lu Xiao felt that she didn't seem to know much about Paul Yuping. At home, he seems to be a different person.

Lu Xiao thinks that Paul Yuping is like a child who hasn't grown up. His mother should take care of everything and take care of him. He didn't have any opinions. He just asked his mother what to do, which made Lu Xiao feel very disappointed.

Lu Xiao's mother-in-law is a strong woman, and she can be said to be the head of the family. Everything can only be done with her consent. Therefore, Lu Xiao felt very uncomfortable because her mother-in-law interfered in her life.

It's no use complaining to Paul Yupin. He will only tell Lu Xiao that my mother is good for you, and you should listen to my mother. Xiao Lu was very angry. She had a big fight with Paul Yuping.

My mother-in-law doesn't like Lu Xiao always shopping online, saying that she wastes money. Therefore, she found her son and asked him to bring Lu Xiao's salary to her for safekeeping.

Paul Yupin listened to her mother's words, so when Lu Xiao got off work that day, Paul Yupin found her and said, "Daughter-in-law, my mother said she would keep your salary."

Lu Xiao, of course, disagreed, so they quarreled again. The mother-in-law who heard the news even accused Lu Xiao of not being sensible and spending money indiscriminately. Looking at the mother and son, Xiao Lu was furious. Now she finally understands that she has married a baby boy!

Now she wants a divorce, but she just got married not long ago. She is afraid of being laughed at, so she is in a dilemma now.

Regarding Lu Xiao's marriage, I just want to say that when it is difficult to change each other, we must change ourselves. Either endure it or be cruel. There is only one choice between divorce and patience.

I hope every woman will polish her eyes before getting married and carefully distinguish whether the man around her is a baby boy. If there is, stop loss in time.

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