How should a dumb boy chat with a girl he likes? What are the skills?

Boys who can chat always have a great advantage when chasing girls, but not all boys can chat, and some boys are even stupid. So, how can stupid people chat with girls? Let's teach you three skills to watch together!

1, when chatting, first establish a comfortable feeling.

Whether you are stupid or not, as long as you feel comfortable chatting with girls, even if you are just a listener, your chat will go smoothly. When chatting becomes commonplace, it becomes natural for her to contact you. On the other hand, if the comfort is not perfect, even if she wants to send you a WeChat, she will consider whether it will be too abrupt.

2. Chat by exchanging questions.

Think about it, how can a person who doesn't even know your personality, work, hobbies, tastes and three views attract each other? If you ask each other questions blindly, they may feel unfair. Why does she just share and you are unmoved? The correct way is to share your information first, and then ask the girls questions. For example, my hobbies are reading, playing ball and playing musical instruments. What about you? In this case, since we contribute our own value first and then ask the other party, the other party will tell us her information. (Simple summary: say yourself first, then ask others) In this way, the other person can feel your trust in her, and more importantly, you provide value first. So you won't be under pressure.

3. Dig out other points of interest from the chat.

Maybe you don't know how to chat with girls to expand the topic, but you can always dig out keywords from girls' words! Maybe this keyword can represent her current state, what she is doing, hobbies, favorite stars, and so on. We can tap the keywords in each other's vocabulary to cater to her taste and make the chat smoother.

Whether a man is stupid, can't talk, or something else, the first thing you have to do is to overcome your inner fear. Whether it is social software or chatting, you must be bold, overcome your inner contradictions, and don't say it excitedly when you see beautiful women. Don't talk. Then improve your emotional intelligence, show your life values, and let girls take the initiative to be interested in you.