Introduction skills of chasing boys

Many people may think that girls can't take the initiative, and even elders will say, are you proud of pursuing men? Personally, the pursuit of male gods is not a problem. Everyone has the right to pursue happiness and good things. This is undeniable. The problem is how to pursue, beg or chase them. So how do you chase the male god? Everybody learn from me!

1, distinguish male gods

First of all, male gods and pseudo-male gods cannot be confused. There are some boys you think are particularly good, but in fact that's because you are blind. When pursuing a male god, you must first confirm whether the other person is a male god worthy of your energy. You must not have men: those who have girlfriends, are married, think they have gender advantages, lack respect for women, have no empathy, have incorrect views and have an affair ... Real love begins with the elimination of "wrong inferior boys".

2, confirm the character

If you have confirmed that there is nothing wrong with the character of the male god in all aspects. We need to do more in-depth research on male gods. Through various clues, it is necessary to analyze what he likes, what hobbies he has and what his circle of friends is like. Look at his social platform, make sure he still has the habit of hooking up with girls when he is single and ambiguous, and ask friends about his reputation. Not only can you know more about the male god, but you can also confirm whether this male god is the person you want. What if he is handsome and cute, but he is not suitable? Isn't it useless to chase him

3, the mentality is dull.

Don't worry, don't treat male gods as unattainable people. If you really think he is unattainable, it is estimated that you will never get in touch with the male god in your life. When you kneel, you are sending a message to each other: "I am not as good as you" and "I am trying to have a love that does not belong to me". Considering that people are not always rational, when they often receive such signals from you, they will think that you are a person who is not worth socializing with.

Step 4 win respect

The establishment of any good relationship begins with winning respect. If you want the other person to respect you, you must do something to win respect. No man/woman will develop a long-term relationship with someone he despises. If you want to make a positive result with a boy, you must first make the other person realize that you are an independent person and you have a bottom line. If you can be trampled at will, people naturally feel no need to respect you. You have a reasonable three views, neither humble nor supercilious, and always remember to like him, but you are equal and you need to be respected. I like him and love myself.

5. Long-term contact

If the other person can't fall in love with you at first sight, then you should consider catching each other in long-term contact. Don't send a text message to the male god today, and then don't contact him for a long time. Be nice to him after a long time. The other person will be confused by you and want to know what you want. Instead of "always not sure when it is appropriate to contact", it is better to ask him for help or work together on a topic or project. In short, find something that will ensure that you meet and contact frequently. When you create opportunities for frequent contact with each other, you can show what a good person you are.

Every girl always has a boy in her heart, near or far. As long as you work hard enough, it is still possible to hold that boy in your hand. Here are some strategies for chasing boys.

6. Get what you want

It doesn't mean that the male god says he likes fried dough sticks, so you buy them for him early in the morning. Or what he wants, you give it to him right away, and so on. This is a big mistake. We just need to pursue the male god, not to raise a son. Even if you cook for him, you should feel "passing by" instead of "deliberately". Also, please don't scrimp and save money to buy things for the male god. You might as well spend that money on yourself.

Another important thing about doing what you like is to make the other person feel that he has a * * * sound with you. When the other person feels recognized, or meets someone with similar interests, he will naturally feel very happy. A normal' male, whether he talks to the other half or has the same hobbies, is still concerned. After all, no one wants to quarrel or be speechless every day. You have to draw a picture first to find out the coincidence point between them. Create the same topic according to the coincidence point.

7. How to get along

When you meet a male god, you will inevitably feel your heart beating faster, and you can't wait to make it clear. Some girls are cute when they are nervous, while others are bored and neurotic when they are nervous. In order to avoid such risks, you should be fully prepared.

First of all, you should have confidence and meditate in your mind three times. I can do great things through hard work, and don't lose heart when I encounter setbacks halfway. Secondly, you should think about what topics you will go out to talk about. You can think of several interesting and sustainable topics in advance, think about the starting point and ending point of the topic, and then prepare a few jokes. When you have a certain reserve in your heart, you will have the confidence to talk to the male god. Self-confident and happy girls are the most attractive, but self-confidence comes from constantly improving their reserves. Otherwise, your heart is empty, where does your confidence come from?

8. Quiet dating

Try to choose a quiet place where you can chat. Spicy hot pot is delicious, but it is definitely not a place to cultivate ambiguity and love. Eyes are very, very important … don't be afraid to look into each other's eyes. Please practice in front of the mirror if necessary.

Do you want to give a scarf or a small gift knitted by a male god when dating? Personally, I don't think it is particularly appropriate for girls to give gifts. If you really want to give it to them, don't hesitate. "I heard that you have been under great academic pressure recently, so I will give you a pack of XX coffee beans", or give each other a small cake for their birthday. In short, gifts are embellishments, and things that express your good feelings are not necessarily more expensive. If gifts are given too frequently and too expensive, the other party will also feel pressure.

It is very important to pursue boys, not to put pressure on each other, but to create a comfortable feeling. However, never go to places that are too ambiguous and private, such as nightclubs and drinking, where you are likely to have further physical contact. If you just want to sleep with a male god, that's fine. Confirming a good relationship before starting physical contact will make you less confused and give this relationship a good start.

9. Praise is not irony

You are not a big-breasted MAX, and you are not a TV series. You'd better not make too many jokes before determining the joke scale of the other party. When the other person is very happy about something, you have to spit on him, which is really annoying.

10, give full play to your own advantages

Everyone has his own advantages and disadvantages. However, you can't be all shortcomings. For example, if you are lazy, greedy, self-motivated and resentful, how can there be a male god? Most people should not be so miserable. If you are really so miserable, then study more and exercise more. If you look average, but have great personality charm, you can use your eyes and personality to attract each other, make him feel comfortable and happy with you, and try to lose weight when dressing up. Advantage is not the key to chasing the male god, but advantage can give you great points and increase the chance of catching up with the male god. In short, show your strengths and don't let your shortcomings hold you back.

1 1, initiative

Personally, I think the best degree is "point to stop". TV series is TV series, and life is life. Don't be crazy, pestering me. Most boys are afraid of this kind of thing. You can choose not to confess to a boy, but to hint at his confession. You can say to him, "A boy like you is great. There must be many girls who like it." "I think your XX personality is quite good. I really hope that my future boyfriend will have such advantages. " As long as he is not too stupid and interested in you, he will naturally confess to you.

12, do you want to confess?

Some girls feel that the method of "hinting" is too implicit to restrain their inner agitation. They will ask, "Can I confess to boys or not?" My answer is, of course. When the feelings between you are warming up, you can dress up beautifully and choose a warm and private place to confess to him. The language of confession can be subtle, such as "I like you very much from the moment we met …". If the other person refuses you, don't be too embarrassed and embarrassed. It would be better to have a mentality of "at least this thing has been done"

13, advance is retreat.

Now there is a very popular method, which is to be kind to boys for 2 1 day, or 30 days, and then suddenly ignore each other, make them feel bad, come back to you and so on. And be nice to him, but when he refuses you, you pretend to do something that makes the other person jealous, arouse the other person's possessiveness, and then turn around. Okay, I admit it's this way. But this method is often based on taking advantage of the weakness of human nature, by making the other person lose his mind, let the other person make the choice you want. This method seems to have achieved its goal, but the other party will wake up in a short time and regret his choice. Use these techniques carefully to ensure that you can bear unpredictable consequences and risks.

14, beware of rural male gods

The appearance of rural male gods looks "not bad", but in fact, there is basically nothing in their hearts. He has not received a good education since he was a child, and he has no reading habits at ordinary times. They basically have no respect for women, and they don't know the moral concept and bottom line. Hooking up and cheating are their specialties, and then find some high-sounding excuses to rationalize the wrong things. Good girls who are clear-headed, interesting and beautiful don't care about them at all. They can only talk about soaking up and fooling girls with an ambiguous and irresponsible attitude.

The male god may not be Gao Fushuai, but he is the "most unique" boy in your heart. Whether you are in love or married, you should be with the person you like. With the person you like, you won't feel bored even if you queue up to buy a movie. In order to get married or for other practical reasons, I just make do with others, and finally I don't want to be unhappy. True happiness and happiness are more important than being envied and looking happy.