A sister-in-law: I don't like my sister-in-law Why should I care whether she is divorced or not?

I am from the countryside and my family conditions are not good. I have been my mother's pet since childhood, my father's apple, and my brother loves me very much. I have never done farm work at home. My brother didn't do well in school, so he dropped out of school before finishing junior high school. Moreover, my academic performance has always been among the best in fame and fortune, so he advised my father to provide me with a school. After graduating from college, I stayed in the city to work for two years and met my husband, who was very kind to me. My mother-in-law and father-in-law have nothing to say, but my sister-in-law always finds fault with me and dislikes me being from the countryside.

After getting married, my brother and father gave me 50 thousand for fear that others would dislike me, saying that adding in-laws would be enough to mortgage a down payment house. Knowing that my brother loved me dearly and was afraid that I would suffer indignities, he gave me another 20,000 when decorating the house. My husband and mother-in-law are very grateful and care about me in private. My mother-in-law said, "You can take all your in-laws and live together. We can get along well here and go out to play together. " I told my parents, and they said, "We won't go, because the air in the country is good and it is suitable for providing for the elderly." Later, my mother told me that you should learn to get along with your mother-in-law. You left us to spend the rest of your life with them You must learn to respect your husband and your mother-in-law and father-in-law. Don't come to us if you have nothing to do. We have your brother and sister-in-law here!

I usually go on a business trip to buy clothes and gifts for my mother-in-law. Although my mother-in-law is a city dweller, they are always frugal and never put on airs. Expensive things are rarely bought Buy her some clothes. Every time I say I don't forget to buy it for my mother. Don't buy anything too expensive. Sometimes when she sees the price tag, she says to your mother! It doesn't suit me very well, knowing that she is afraid that I will spend a lot of money, she always says that the price is very cheap. When I came back from my last business trip, my mother-in-law asked me to go back to her house for dinner, and my sister-in-law was there. I bought some local specialties this time, but nothing.

My sister-in-law saw me and said, rural people, where have you been this time? Why not buy a rag for my parents this time? You shouldn't get married in the first place. Marriage is a matter of divorce sooner or later. I'll persuade my brother to divorce you later. Your country taste is too agricultural for city life. I was angry, but I can't be angry. She doesn't like me since I fell in love with her brother. It's not the first time to call me a countryman. Considering that she is getting married soon, there is no need to dispute with her. My mother-in-law is a smart person, and my father-in-law heard it, so she told me something else and interrupted me.

My mother-in-law has been very worried about my sister-in-law's personality, and explained to me that she told me not to tell her common sense, but to worry more about her marriage. The man's bride price has been sent, and the man's family is very rich. Mother-in-law is afraid that she will get married and suffer indignities, but her temper is still bad. However, the man's partner has been found, the wedding photos have been taken, and all he needs is to get a license and hold a banquet. I'll discuss with my husband and give my sister-in-law the 30 thousand we usually save! Husband: "Say no, where there is such a thing, give 10,000, we still have to pass!" " "I smiled and said," money can be earned. My sister had no money there, so she asked her husband's family for money. How pathetic! "Finally, I gave the money to my mother-in-law, who wiped her tears and said that I was a good wife.

After my sister-in-law got married, we rarely met, that is, once during the Chinese New Year. Later, we each had children, and she called me because of the children! My mother-in-law called us and said that she would come back for dinner at night. Let's go back. Sister-in-law's family is here. My mother-in-law and father-in-law are very happy and insist on eating out. After dinner, my sister-in-law and her husband called me with a card in their hands and said, I know all about the money, thank you! There are 50 thousand in it. Even without this money, I will love her and our family.

I was moved by his words. Think about it, too. Whoever marries is not alive. Now that you are married, you should live a good life. When the other party is in a bad mood, give in to each other, communicate more, learn from each other and make progress together.