Can the emotional gap between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law be bridged?

As long as two people treat each other sincerely and treat each other as a family, they will be able to live in harmony and the emotional gap will be bridged. But that's the problem. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are two strangers. Because we love the same man and live under the same roof, our living habits and concepts are definitely different. In the process of getting along, there will inevitably be friction and contradiction. If these contradictions cannot be properly adjusted, serious family problems will inevitably occur. Why do some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have better relations than mother-in-law and some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are really tense every day? Both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have reasons. If either party is unreasonable and haggle over every ounce, the so-called emotional gap will only get bigger and bigger, let alone make up for it.

In my neighbor's house, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is very harmonious. Hello, daughter-in-law, sweetheart. She treats her mother-in-law like her own mother, with respect and understanding. She understands the thoughts of the older generation and respects some behaviors and habits of her mother-in-law. Mother-in-law also loves this daughter-in-law and will help anything. She often teaches her son to treat his daughter-in-law well. You say, how can such a relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law be bad, and how can there be a gap?

However, the situation of my distant relatives is just the opposite. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had a small quarrel for three days and a big quarrel for a week. Both of them felt wronged and were bullied by each other. Mother-in-law feels that her daughter-in-law is uneducated, and her daughter-in-law feels that her mother-in-law is particularly ignorant. Don't be honest with each other. You don't even have the minimum respect, let alone enhance your relationship.

Everyone has a mirror in her heart to measure how she treats herself and how she should treat others. Both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law should treat each other as family, not enemies. Accepting and respecting each other from the heart is the best way to get along!