What kind of clothes do children wear at school, which makes them feel inferior in the future?

For Bao Ma who takes care of her baby full-time, it is the happiest thing for her children to go to school. Chatting with Yining's mother that day, Yining's mother said: If my family goes to kindergarten in Yining, I have to celebrate and play for two months.

How much treasure mother's voice is expressed in this sentence! However, the reality is often not as beautiful as imagined. Children have an adaptation process when they just start school. At this stage, Ma Bao cannot relax. According to most Ma Bao, children often get sick when they first enter the park, so they can't let their guard down.

When a child goes to school, it means that the child will start the second stage of life and learn to get along with teachers and classmates. So besides teaching children some ways to get along, Ma Bao should also pay attention to other aspects, such as dressing, and don't be as casual as at home.

Colleagues always like to wear leftover clothes for their sons, and sometimes even the neutral clothes left by their sisters will be worn by them. Last year, my son went to kindergarten, but his colleagues didn't pay attention. He still dressed his children according to his usual habits. As a result, after a while, he found his son unhappy. Colleagues thought his son couldn't adapt to kindergarten life and asked him what happened.

My son said hesitantly, my classmates all say that the clothes I wear are really ugly!

When I first heard my son say this, my colleagues didn't care, thinking it was a joke between children. Later, my son was a little resistant to going to kindergarten, and my colleagues found the problem, but they still said it was difficult to understand: how did you know that you were handsome at such a young age?

After hearing my colleague say this, I don't know how to persuade her: it's not for being handsome, it's the normal needs of children.

Perhaps we think that children will not know beauty until adolescence, and then they will know how to wear some fashionable clothes. In fact, wearing clothes is to cultivate children from an early age, not to make them more beautiful at school, but to make them look cleaner and fresher.

I have a relative who is really old-fashioned. Their family conditions are ok, but they are really economical. I have never seen clothes that fit their two daughters. They are all left-over clothes, some are fat and some are big, but they look funny in short.

When I went back to my hometown this year and saw the two sisters, it was still the same style. My sister is better, because she has gone to middle school, but the new clothes look awkward on her, probably because she is insecure.

Because I used to wear leftover clothes, even if the children didn't say anything, they complained a little. At school, all the other students were dressed well and appropriately, and they felt very abrupt and didn't know where to put their hands and feet. So even if you wear new clothes, you don't look safe.

We don't advocate extravagance and waste for children, but at least let them dress appropriately and don't make others laugh.

No matter how small children are, they are independent individuals. Nowadays, children have more contact with the Internet and know more. Maybe we didn't understand beauty when we were young, but today's children know that new clothes look good when they are very young.

So parents should pay attention to this problem. After children go to school, they can't always wear clothes that don't fit them, so as not to make them feel inferior.