My husband is having an affair in Liyang, Jiangsu. I want a divorce. I have two children who don't want to have sex with him.

How do you react when a woman finds out that her most loyal husband has a different attitude after cheating? It is wrong to make a scene, fight, cry to parents-in-law, and ask friends for help, no matter who makes a principled mistake in marriage. Life needs tolerance and forbearance, but sometimes it needs catharsis. I understand women's yelling, but I object. The three common magic weapons that ordinary women want to conquer men are "crying, making trouble and hanging", which are extremely artistic and skillful. Be careful that after the man you love cheats, women are easily confused and suddenly have no opinion, as if they are going to collapse, everywhere. "

",let your little scandal have nowhere to hide. Of course, any kind of behavior and measures will have advantages and disadvantages. The key is how to prescribe the right medicine. Some men will mainly persuade, apologize, correct mistakes and guarantee. But some men are very resistant, which may be the reason.

Honey, you can't save your family. Noisy is an instinctive reflex of many women, but it is not a good way to solve the problem. It's okay to put some pressure on men appropriately, and it's normal to talk to relatives and friends. However, the key is to grasp a degree, to have your own position and self-digestion, and to evaluate the consequences. Emotion is counterproductive. Second, it is emotionally unacceptable for a man to cheat and divorce directly. There is a kind of woman who is extreme and thoughtless, which may be related to her own experience and personality. In her opinion, it is not easy for two people to be together. Now that we are married, we should be responsible and loyal to each other. In the face of men's betrayal, being firm all the time is an insult to her and emotionally unacceptable. It's not that she doesn't want to save it, but that she always competes with herself, pushes herself into a dead end, and then kills hope and happiness by herself. In some women's eyes, men are their dreams, and the pursuit in her heart is almost harsh and perfect. When in distress, the firewall also loses its function. In the depths of their marriage concept, some deep-rooted things have already quietly formed, which is the only bottom line they always adhere to. Even if the marriage barely continues, it will never eliminate the shadow formed in the mind. After all, it is a latent fuse. Such a day naturally looks very tired, so it is better to get rid of it as soon as possible. Their hearts are completely in a vacuum, or they can live in a lie, but they can't see the dark clouds, otherwise there will be a storm. Third, if you cheat, I will cheat and seek a balance in revenge. Adapt to life. Women are more or less vengeful, but these women are too strong, seemingly dull and calm, never start work in their mouths, but they are brewing repeatedly in their hearts, like snakes and scorpions. Anyway, I'm afraid of these women. What you did was wrong, and I followed it on purpose. When you complain about me, the old and new accounts are counted together. This is called a tooth for a tooth, blood for blood, and deal with a man as he deals with you. You give me a junior, I give you a fifteen, you are good and I am bad, and life has always been muddling along. You are not afraid of me, and I am not afraid of you. Who can't live without who! Men are very stingy in the relationship between men and women. They can steal big fish and meat outside, but women are not allowed to steal a bite of soup. In the final analysis, the fundamental reason is that women's social status is lower than that of men. I once reminded some playboy men that "when you are anxious to sleep with other people's wives, you might as well."

Take a look. "By rights, if you cheat, I will cheat, and we are even. It seems reasonable, but after all, we are all doing something wrong, which is not feasible in today's mainstream consciousness, and it is also the sorrow of women's choice. Fourth, it doesn't matter, I feel that men are like that. I admire that kind of "broad-minded" woman, which sometimes makes men puzzled. When they found out that men were cheating, they were indifferent and took it for granted. I don't know why they form such a view of marriage. Is it related to your background knowledge? It's still related to his debauchery. Anyway, he doesn't care about his man's stupidity. " "It doesn't matter" is not a good sign in marriage. There should be more "so-called" between husband and wife, so that there can be fish and water. Feelings are the most selfish in marriage, and no one wants to share them with others. But once you have an "indifferent" attitude, you may get sick. Fifth, find a mistress to duel and put all the responsibility on the woman. Such a woman is irrational and tenacious. She put all her troubles on mistress, even sheltering her own man. She always believes that her man is a good thing, if not met.

It is impossible to be framed. She thinks that the fault is not the man at all, but the woman.

, deliberately trying to destroy her home. The spearheads all point to Xiao San, who made a subjective conclusion without asking about the situation. Clean up the third grade first, and then try to train your man. A man has an affair, not necessarily because his wife is not good enough, nor because his mistress is slutty. The responsibility is not on the woman, many women inside and outside the wall are victims. I also admit that some mistresses are immoral and knowingly commit crimes, but

And then what? It's all because of that garbage. Is it worth it? Besides, rust is conditional. Marriage also needs to be maintained. Six, adhere to a principle, you can find anyone you like, anyway, I will not divorce, you have to give me money to spend. Usually meet a man's playboy, and a woman who doesn't want a divorce has her own ideas. Some for face, some for their own interests, but more for children. Children can catch a woman's heart. Children are the most painful after family breakdown. They are innocent and should not bear the mistakes made by adults. Therefore, a woman who loves her family and children will forgive a man's despicable behavior to a great extent and become insensitive until there is nothing she can do. After the divorce, I won't let you go. I'm having a hard time. You can't. This kind of woman is almost close to abnormal condition or self-collapse. She simply can't accept the fact that men are ungrateful. And she will take the initiative to break up, but she can't face it. When I finally couldn't convince myself, I lost my mind. If the fish dies, the net will break. If I can't, neither can you. Some people even say that if you betray me, I will kill you. 8. Agree to live with her husband and his lover. In a monogamous society, it seems like a joke for a man to live with two daughters-in-law, but it's actually nothing, except that many things are not understood by the public for the time being, and some still find it rare. Although it cannot be put on the table, it actually exists behind the scenes. Agree or be willing

Serving men is not something ordinary people do, but it is also a kind of ability of men. As for what women think, I'm afraid they all have their own needs and gains. Nine, there is no way, so we have to submit to humiliation. Her husband is too powerful, and his position at home is only equivalent to that of a nanny. This kind of woman has no place in the family. She relies on her husband to eat and dress, and is always punched and kicked by men. It is equivalent to hiring someone who is not as good as hiring someone. Common in poor rural areas, or the man's family conditions are excellent, or the man is simply a local ruffian. Ten, patiently listen to his analysis, understand his real thoughts and the whole process, and accompany him through the difficulties. When you find the man you love cheating, you'd better not expose his lies to his face. A smart woman will rationally and methodically let a man know that he is wrong, make him feel guilty and take the initiative to turn around. This is not the best way to end a marriage that still has hope. A cruel reality is that many women choose to refuse men's infidelity.

Leaving, I didn't get a complete liberation, and I didn't find the happiness I expected again. Life is not a fairy tale, and love is not as holy as imagined. Born in this mortal world, anyone may deviate from the normal marriage track. Giving each other a chance to return is also a happy exit for themselves. Therefore, when there is a crisis in marriage, it is far more practical to take active measures to save it than to fight back passively.