Matters needing attention when girls meet for the first time

Girls are different from boys. In sexual relations, girls are usually losers. Therefore, before meeting a man for the first time, a girl should first know herself clearly, and then make clear what she wants and where the bottom line is according to her own situation and actual needs. In this way, if you find that some aspect of the other person is lower than your bottom line in the later chat, you can find an excuse to interrupt the meeting between the two people and save time for both sides. Of course, this bottom line is not only as simple as the external conditions of the other party, but also includes the spiritual conditions such as the self-cultivation and personality of the other party. It is also very important that face value cannot represent everything, nor can it be an excuse for you to relax the bottom line, otherwise problems will follow. When you meet a man for the first time, dressing is very important, which will directly affect whether you can develop in the future. So in order to leave a good impression on each other, we should work hard on dressing up. 1, dressed neatly, not too casual and not too personal. Suggestions are: wear a light-colored dress with single shoes or high heels (shoes can be adjusted according to the man's height). 2. Elegant makeup. Neither necessary nor heavy makeup. Simple light makeup makes people look radiant and temperament. 3. Keep your body fresh, try not to spray strong perfume and keep your breath fresh. Behavior and speech 1. If you eat together, you should pay attention to eating, don't talk while chewing, and keep your mouth shut. 2, don't do too many small moves, such as scratching your head, scratching and other indecent actions. If you need to pick your teeth after eating, you need to put your hands in front. Don't start without any cover. 3. Speak softly, but not too low for people to hear clearly, and not too high for people to feel harsh. 4. Speak gracefully and slowly. Smile often. If it's really funny, laugh as much as you want. Remember to cover your mouth with your hand. 5. Keep the conversation as concise as possible, don't talk too much, and don't interrupt each other when they are talking. Chat content 1. Don't say "casually" when the man asks for advice, and don't say the word "casually" at any time. When ordering, if a boy asks you what you want to eat, you can make a choice and leave the rest to the boy. Never say "whatever", let alone make all the decisions. If you really don't know how to choose, you can say "whatever you want." 2. In the process of chatting, you can ask some questions you want to know, but don't get to the bottom of it and visit home. 3. If the atmosphere is awkward and both sides don't know how to speak, they can start a topic around their hobbies and try to get him involved in the topic. When a boy speaks, you can respond appropriately, but don't be perfunctory. 4. Don't talk about sensitive topics, such as predecessors and past experiences, and remember to speak briefly. Precautions for girls to meet for the first time 2 Precautions for boys to meet on blind date Although blind date is introduced by acquaintances, you know more about it. After all, this is the first time we met. It is inevitable that some places will be at a loss, and you are afraid that it will leave a bad impression on blind date girls. 1, appearance dressing The first time we meet on a blind date, we don't have to dress up deliberately or go to the barber shop to get a cool hairstyle. As long as you pay more attention to neatness, you can wear any style at ordinary times. If you are too deliberate, you will not persist in the future, which will make blind date girls feel that you are inconsistent and the contrast is too great! 2, the choice of blind date location, the first blind date meeting does not need to go to a luxurious place, as long as the place is clean and tidy, quiet and suitable for chatting. There is also asking the blind date girl in advance what she likes to eat, whether it is Chinese food, western food or hot pot ... No matter what she likes, the girl will relax a lot before there is no food. 3. Talk and Chat No matter how much nonsense you usually say, pay more attention to the rhythm of chatting. Don't show your unreliable side of Hu Kan in front of girls on the first blind date, or girls will be at a loss because of the obscene jokes flying all over the sky. After all, it is a blind date, and everyone is still in the exploratory stage. Just don't scare away the girls on blind dates. The topic choice of blind date and girl chat should be related to the day as far as possible. Don't mention how brilliant you were when you were a child, and don't tell girls about your plans for the next five years, plans for the next n years ... blind date girls are not interested in knowing your past and future at all. You can talk more about hobbies and topics that blind date girls are interested in. If you don't understand this, then ask more questions and let the girls talk more, and Pu 'er will agree with you. If you meet a topic that girls are not interested in, just stop in time and change the topic. 4. Grasping details Boys may not pay much attention to details, but girls care. So the first blind date can pay more attention to some details. For example, if you have the conditions, you can pick up girls for dinner; Help her pull open the chair when she gets to the place to eat; Ask the girl's opinion or her taste more when ordering; After eating, you can find a place with a good atmosphere to drink tea or something and continue to increase your understanding; When leaving, send the girl downstairs and watch her go home before leaving ... don't think that these little details don't mean anything. Girls will judge how much you care about her from these small details, so as to refer to whether to continue to develop with you. 5, the body warms up When you can feel that girls have a good impression on you from the blind date process, you can master the heat and have physical contact with girls for legitimate reasons, such as: walking together and touching your fingers when handing things. In short, there are many opportunities. But you must pretend that you didn't mean it. You don't have to apologize. Pretend nothing happened. Mastering this will soon eliminate strangeness. But the premise of all this is: make sure that girls have a good impression on you, otherwise the consequences will be at your own risk. 6, special circumstances handling methods If you meet a girl on a blind date for the first time, her parents are on the scene, you should pay more attention at this time. Besides paying more attention to good relations with blind date girls, it is much better to pay more attention to her parents than to befriend her. At this time, how sweet you say, you will be less afraid. You will find that the girl's parents will always laugh, as if the son-in-law is in front of you. In fact, there are still many precautions for boys to meet on blind date for the first time. Here, I will focus on the above six points for everyone. If you really feel that you have done your job and the girl is still not satisfied, don't just reflect on whether you haven't done it well or whether the girl is reluctant. In short, be yourself and the rest will follow.