How to praise children? Let the children know that they are the best?

In fact, parents really need to be "cautious" in the process of educating their babies. Some words are easy to blurt out in front of the baby, and we think there is nothing wrong with them ... but in fact, their influence on the baby may be beyond your imagination.

"Don't cry, don't cry, don't cry"

Baby crying is probably the most common and helpless moment for parents. For a time, whenever a child cried, I clumsily held him in my arms, stroked and kissed him, and muttered, Don't cry, baby, don't cry. This is also a kind of self-hypnosis. It seems that only by saying this can you feel at ease. ...

However, it is easy to get the opposite result when such praise is applied to children aged 3 or 4. When the child points to a simple Chinese character and says the meaning of the word, the parents will still say "you are great" and "you are really amazing", and the child's expression will be dull and even a little lost, as if to say in his heart: bragging is not sincere at all.

At this time, if you ask, "How do you know this word?" Or "how to learn secretly!" Instead, you will jump up and down happily.

Therefore, it is skillful to praise children. Today, we will talk about how to praise children to really motivate them, and attach some common words.

A compliment I often hear is "Baby, you are great, you are really great." Then there is nothing below, which is a more general way of praise.

In fact, this kind of praise will keep the child in the praise of the word "best". It just lets the children know that I have been praised. I am the best, but I don't know what my best point is. After a long time, it is easy for children to appear: well, I am the best, and I must have the best psychology. If one day children don't get the "best" praise, they will feel depressed.

Therefore, to praise children to specific places, you can praise the results, details, processes and so on. And use descriptions instead of critical compliments.