Is the wedding ceremony that important?

I worked as a bridesmaid for a newly-married girlfriend this summer, and I helped a lot back and forth, deeply feeling the hard work of preparing for the wedding. It's just that the selection of wedding dress involves the quality of fabric, the difference of waist circumference, the design of style, repeated trying on, modification and customization. The confirmation of bridesmaid dresses needs to pick several bridesmaids and try them on together when you have time. There are also the design of invitations, the determination of churches, wedding banquets, cakes, bands, flower tasting and so on. These are all things to worry about after work and on weekends. This is simply a huge project.

However, on the wedding day, when I watched my best friend walk into the church with music money, was entrusted by my father to her husband, and exchanged vows and rings in the middle of the church, I suddenly understood that all the efforts made before for the ceremony were necessary and worthwhile. People need a sense of ceremony to express their inner solemnity and feelings. You put on a wedding dress, make vows, exchange rings and cut a happy cake among all the money. In this grand ceremony, in this impetuous noise, your heart is particularly calm. You know better than ever that your life will be completely different after the big fight. This moment is a serious farewell to the past and the beginning of hope for myself.

We need weddings, graduation trips, farewell dinners and other ceremonies because we need a sense of ceremony to give our future beginnings new meaning or to make a formal farewell to our past.

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