2023, a very sweet word to myself.

1. Some pressures are always shouldered by themselves, and when they are said, they become complaints full of negative energy. It does not help to seek comfort, but also increases the troubles of others. And when you walk through difficulties and obstacles alone, you will be grateful to yourself for keeping silent and gritting your teeth.

2. Failure is inevitable in life. There is nothing to regret about the failure of people who have tried their best but are not as good as others; The most cowardly failure is to give up when there is still strength and opportunity to fight. Failure is not shameful, but surrender without firing a shot is shameful.

Don't let the pressure of life crowd out happiness. No matter what happened yesterday, no matter how embarrassed, helpless and bitter you were yesterday, it has passed, will not come again and cannot be changed. Let yesterday take away all the bitterness, all the tiredness and all the pain, but today we have to clear our minds and move on.

Everyone will have extremely difficult times, such as the embarrassment of life, the frustration of work, the pressure of study, and the constant fear of love. If you survive, your life will be suddenly enlightened; You won't succeed. Time will teach you how to shake hands with them, so you don't have to be afraid.

I was really tired when I was in tear drops. Life is like this: you have your troubles, I have my difficulties, everyone has silent tears, and everyone has unspeakable suffering! Unforgettable yesterday, busy today, unexpected tomorrow, endless life, endless ups and downs, endless helplessness, endless lies, endless worries, endless ups and downs, this is life, this is life.

6. The man who brought you up was still young in your memory yesterday, so how did he get old? At that moment, you can see from the person you love that the oil is exhausted and the lamp is withered. This is the process of life. And then you know, one day you will be the same. After all, youth is old, a tree is full of flowers, and existence is bitter. Whether for yourself or for your family, you should learn to let go on that day.

7. Everyone will be less skilled than others. There will be times when people depend on them. Don't feel ashamed, and don't feel inferior. We are all human beings, mixed in the stream of people and living an ordinary life. When you are ignored, jokes, criticized and framed by others, as long as your heart is not chaotic, it is difficult for the outside world to change anything about you. Don't envy others, everyone has pain; Don't lose yourself, cheer up is better than anything.

8. If there is something wrong with your life, don't be dissatisfied. You don't have to be so miserable. If you are depressed, you have to face it. Whether it is a blessing or a curse, good or bad will pass. Anger is to punish yourself for other people's mistakes.

9. No one wants others to see their helpless side, and they will never give up if they can survive; No one wants others to see their lost expression. If they can hide, they will never show it. No one wants others to see their cowardice, and they will never cry when they can disguise themselves. Behind everyone, there are hardships that others cannot understand, and in everyone's heart, there are difficulties that others cannot feel. Life is not easy, but there are always some people who give us warmth and let us stick to it.

10. Life is to live beautifully and walk secretly. Without struggle, it will always be a decoration. No matter who you are, you would rather be a struggling loser than an ordinary person who is content with the status quo. The purpose of shipbuilding is not to stop in the harbor, but to break the wind and waves; The purpose of being a man is not to stay at home, but to build a dream. Life is like a stage, never give up until the curtain call!