The older man confided, "I chased her for three months, but when I confessed, she said she regarded me as a friend." What should I do?

With the growth of age, people want to get married, have children, settle down and live a full life.

It is a normal life phenomenon that men should get married and women should get married.

With the development of society, men chasing women is still the mainstream phenomenon. It is every man's dream to catch up with the girl he likes to be his girlfriend or even get married.

"I chased her for three months. When I confessed, she said I was a friend. " An older man confided.

Chen Jie is 3 1 year old this year. At marriageable age, her classmates, friends, friends and children of the same age in her hometown all went to school, and her second child ran around, and she was still alone.

Although, in big cities, it is common for 3 1 year-olds not to get married, I won't say much about others, and everyone is very busy. However, when you go home for the Spring Festival, it is inevitable that someone will gossip about him and say that if you don't set your sights so high, you won't find a girlfriend.

In fact, Chen Jiezhen is not noble, but poor in thought. He can't tell whether others are interested in him. He spent money, time and energy. Finally, others turned him down.

Here's the thing.

By chance, Chen Jie met a girl 10 years younger than him. She is very beautiful, and her long black head hangs straight over her shoulders, which makes Chen Jie very moved.

02.

Chen Jie then pursued this girl, and the first thing she did every morning was to send a message to greet her, but the other party just perfunctory.

After work in the evening, Chen Jie invited her to a movie for dinner. The girl didn't refuse, so she went to the appointment as usual. After dinner, she said she would go back to the dormitory to work overtime, so she stopped hanging out with him.

In this way, Chen Jie chased for a month, and there was no actual progress. The other party wouldn't even let Chen Jie touch his hand.

Chen Jie thought, maybe girls are reserved, and they have to pay more to impress her.

So, Chen Jie picks her up from work every day and buys her breakfast. Although that girl keeps saying that you don't have to pick me up every day and spend money, in fact, she still enjoys it.

A colleague saw it and thought that the girl had a new boyfriend and wanted to gossip about her, but she shook her head and denied it.

Chen Jie sometimes buys small gifts for girls and wants to ask her out for a trip. What happened to that girl? She accepted a small gift and refused to travel.

Girls always feel at arm's length, as if they have feelings for you, but in fact they don't seem to have feelings. This unpredictable situation makes Chen Jie very headache.

We have been dating for almost three months. Sometimes Chen Jie wants to hold her hand, and girls will subconsciously throw it away.

In fact, whether a girl loves you or not, the body can know the answer best.

If she really likes you, she can't wait to get close to you all the time. If she doesn't like you, she will always keep her distance from you.

03.

Chen Jie asked the elder brothers if this girl likes me. Everyone laughed at him for being stupid. You didn't ask how you knew. If you don't confess, how can others know your mind?

Chen Jie suddenly realized, so she bought a bunch of big roses and waited for her downstairs in the girls' company. Kneel down on the spot while she is not looking and let her be her girlfriend.

The girl obviously felt a little surprised. Seeing the crowds coming and going, she turned her attention to herself and felt a little embarrassed, so Chen Jie stood up quickly.

"Teacher Chen, thank you for taking care of me during this time, but I have always regarded you as a friend and never thought of developing other relationships." What the girl said is very straightforward.

Chen Jie is not don't understand, she refers to the "other relationship", is not a lover relationship? In other words, the girl turned him down on the spot.

Chen Jie can't figure out why she chased her for three months and paid energy and money. She never refused. Why did she refuse me mercilessly when I couldn't help expressing my love? She didn't say early or late, only at this time.

Anyone with a discerning eye can understand this truth, but Chen Jie can't. Bystanders see clearly, but the authorities are confused.

The girl just used him as a spare tire. Before meeting the man she really likes, she doesn't want to be in the window. Too boring, too boring, too lonely. It's just the pursuit of a man who likes himself. Hang on first. "Don't take the initiative, don't refuse, don't be responsible", don't take an attitude. When a man really can't stand it, he will refuse his kindness, say that he is not suitable for him, and give him good cards.

This is a routine for ordinary girls to develop spare tires without making a clear statement.

04.

If a girl has feelings for you in her heart, she will definitely not let you pursue it for three months, let alone respond to your efforts.

Because she will also be afraid that you will suddenly lose interest in her and leave her, so she will lose a good man who can develop a relationship.

She hasn't responded to her suitors for a long time, and won't even let you touch them. The only truth is that she doesn't like you and just wants to enjoy your contribution for free.

If you are not sure whether you have become someone else's spare tire, try not to contact her suddenly. If she doesn't respond, feels cold and quiet without contact, then you don't need to continue to pay, and whose time is not precious.

If you try to lose contact suddenly and she is nervous, then you can judge that she is interested in you and don't miss a good marriage.

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