My father-in-law said bluntly: My daughter can’t do anything except eating and housework. What do you think?

My married parents and grandma also told my husband’s family that my daughter can’t do anything. He has been in poor health since he was a child and the boss didn’t let him do it. In fact, in the countryside, I don’t talk about washing, cooking and drying. The housework is very good, but they are all very good. What they mean is that I will not do it well after I get married. I hope my in-laws will not blame me and take care of me. After all, they told me in advance that I will not do anything. Mom and grandma, just do whatever you want to do for me. Be diligent, don't be lazy, and don't know how to study. We will pamper you in your mother's family, and your mother-in-law's family will not pamper you.

My father may be right. Today’s girls can’t do anything at home, and it’s normal for them to want to find someone to take care of them. For example, most of the women who go on blind dates on "If You Are the One" fall into this category, and they are still complacent that I can't do any housework. Hey, he has not reached the quality of starting a family at all, and he is still looking for a partner. Life is made up day by day. No wonder the divorce rate is so high. Which man is willing to be a nanny for 365 days, with all kinds of consciousness waiting on him. Women, just having a pretty face is not enough to move forward in life!

If your father is telling the truth, you are not allowed to have an affair in the future. You will swallow all the shit. The credibility of your father’s words is 99.9%. Nowadays, many women not only don’t know how to do housework, but also don’t know how to eat, drink, and wear anything. She's very good at it. If you can't satisfy her desires, just ask the old man next door to get a next generation who is not your biological child. Therefore, whether you are single or divorced, the most important thing is the woman's character, which is closely related to her family. It has a big relationship. If the mother-in-law is a promiscuous woman, you must not have such a daughter. Of course, you must also have a father who is promiscuous. The character of the children in this kind of family is basically passable, because most of the children with cheating fathers have a kind mother. The children in the family are particularly hard-working and promising, but of course there are exceptions!

Parental education is so important. I am afraid that some parents may look like their elders, but they may not act like their elders. Before my husband married me, he rarely cared about what his parents thought. After we got married, I often thought about his parents. I felt that they were lonely as an only child. Under my guidance, he was very filial and considerate of his parents. Who knew that his parents never He doesn't think about me and my parents. After getting married, he always thinks about not letting me go back to my parents' house or less often. He never teaches my husband to call my parents during the New Year or holidays or ask my husband to go back to my parents' house with me. He occasionally says He was not very happy during the Chinese New Year at my house, thinking of ways to let his son celebrate the Chinese New Year with them, scheming and scheming all day long. I have been bullied for my good intentions. I will try to have as little contact with my parents-in-law as possible in the future. I can do whatever I want and will never worry about them again.

If this was placed in ancient times, it would definitely be a substandard product, but today, it is not a big problem. You can learn to do housework slowly, as long as you are not lazy, stupid, or dull. If she is really like this now, at least she should have a stable job that can support herself. When you get home from get off work, work more. What are you afraid of? No one will die. You can also induce her to work with you. Gradually, she will become independent in housework and can take charge of her own business. You are like flying a kite. The higher she flies, the longer the string you fly. Finally, let go. Of course, it’s best to do it together. This is a lifelong thing, and love must come first. Nowadays, many parents educate their children that girls do nothing in housework and let men do it after they are married. The boy did nothing. Marry a daughter-in-law and let her do it. So there are a lot of conflicts after marriage. I still don’t understand why I raise children. My parents have taught me since I was a child that in addition to studying, I also need to master survival instincts. Housework skills. Basic repair tips. It all has to be taught. You can’t just sit around and eat. This will not be happy.

If men do all the housework at home. Then this woman must have been very miserable in her later years. Either the man's energy is focused on this woman and he accomplishes nothing in his career, or the man is exhausted early. Such an outcome will make such a lazy woman's life miserable. A father who proudly says in front of his son-in-law that his daughter can’t do any housework is not loving his daughter but harming her. If the father has a fortune for his daughter to inherit, that's a different matter. When my father says this, he has to look at his own achievements in this life, right?

Fortunately, you don’t have princess disease yet. Many girls think this is natural. How does resentment against a wife come about after marriage? Isn’t it because the man becomes the uncle and does nothing and doesn’t help? It gradually accumulates. Although your husband does nothing. But think about how long ago, he did everything while you sat on the sofa playing with your phone. Over time, some negative emotions will definitely accumulate.

Therefore, children should develop their hands-on skills from an early age so that they can have better self-care ability and independence in the future. It's really good for them.

There are really people who love to do housework, and there are full packages and half packages. For example, I do everything except laundry. It seems that when my wife became pregnant, I took over and became accustomed to doing it for many years. (I use a washing machine for laundry, but I don’t like doing laundry. It’s not as fulfilling as cooking). I have a friend who likes to cook and do housework. It’s all-inclusive and his wife doesn’t do anything. It seems that there are many housewives nowadays, it is very common.

Before getting married, I was a non-committal person. After getting married, I would sometimes not clean up my house. My partner would sometimes look down upon it and clean it up. Now I have two children. I know how to wash clothes, cook, and clean up. When I go to work, my husband's family can't count on me at all, and I have to take care of the children by myself. So, a woman is a mother; being able to marry a good man and being pampered like a princess for the rest of her life is an ideal; being able to raise children and run a household is a life.

Nature is hard to change. After a woman develops the habit of not doing housework, she will not do it. My wife and I quarrel all about household hygiene. I don’t need her to do it very cleanly, just about the same, and then I will do it again. I clean it carefully, but it’s useless. Every time I clean it up, as long as I’m not at home, it doesn’t take more than a day to get everything messed up. It’s really tiring to come home after working outside and have to clean. Housework requires two people to maintain it instead of one person. , if it were not for the children and the old mother, this marriage would have been divorced long ago. The family is like a pig's nest and I really can't stand it.

There are many girls who don’t do housework. In fact, nowadays we think of housework as too complicated. What should we mean by not doing housework? They don’t do housework and cleaning every day, but they can put clothes in the washing machine or clean up their own rooms. ? I guess my father spoiled me, but I lacked etiquette and was a bit arrogant. In fact, when boyfriends and girlfriends get along and talk about marriage, they basically know whether the other person is a hard-working person and basically acquiesce. If you say it out loud, there is no etiquette. ? No need.

My father’s words may be modest. Men don’t have to take it seriously. After hearing this, the daughter should work harder and get out of the kitchen and out of the hall. Don't embarrass your father. If it's really delicious and you're too lazy to cook it, you'll be left with nothing to show for it. . First, I feel sorry for my father, secondly, I feel sorry for myself, and thirdly, I feel sorry for my husband. He has harmed his ancestors for eight generations and will remain in disgrace for thousands of years!

If the woman who said this has a family with tens of millions of assets left to her daughter, it is reasonable to say these things because she can afford a nanny. If not, it is a joke! I am a woman, and my salary is not lower than that of my husband. I do most of the housework, and my husband does it too, but there are some things that I don’t trust him to do! If you are selfish, don't get married, because no one owes you anything!

I think a person’s blessing is limited. Before my child went to junior high school, I never touched the spring water and enjoyed the blessings of my parents. Later, my father gradually became ill and my mother got sick again. After breast cancer, I became independent. Although I wasn't doing very well, I was still better than before. Therefore, people's blessings are limited, and they must accumulate blessings.