How to chat on WeChat on blind date?

First, the opening remarks of WeChat greetings

The prologue is your social card. Opening remarks are very important in the first chat with the blind date. The quality of opening remarks will directly affect your next chat, so it is necessary to master some opening remarks skills in WeChat chat.

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1, starting with the details

Boys who pay attention to details can't be wrong in the eyes of girls. You can find details from the girl's WeChat avatar, WeChat nickname, personalized signature, circle of friends and so on. And then start the topic from the details.

For example, the girl's nickname on WeChat is "Flying Fish", and you can say the opening words: "Do you particularly like to eat fish, so it's called Flying Fish Cute". For example, girls' circle of friends often basks in pets. You can directly say, "Girls who like pets are very caring."

Of course, everyone should be specific according to the specific situation. In short, some details can be used as the opening remarks.

2. Praise the details

Women are vain creatures, and they all want to be praised and recognized by others. Knowing this psychological feature of women, we can start by praising girls. Of course, praise is not perfunctory and exaggerated. Be sure to pay attention to details and praise girls.

Details can be found from girls' hairstyles, makeup, clothes, accessories, hobbies and so on. Praise for details will be sincere. For example, you can say hello to a girl like this: "Your earrings match your hairstyle and make you look small." Such praise for details will give girls a different feeling.

3. Cold reading

Cold reading is a psychological term. Simply put, it is to replace interrogative sentences with declarative sentences. Many boys often take pains to ask questions when chatting, which really makes girls have no desire to chat. Then we can use the skills of cold reading to get rid of the label of low emotional intelligence, and we can also have deep feelings with girls.

The sentence pattern of cold reading is generally like this: although … but … although you are a lovely girl on the surface, there is a woman's heart in your heart.

Second, the chat content

Chat content is how to find a topic in chat. The prologue is just chatting with girls, and the core of chatting lies in the content of chatting. The key depends on how you find a topic, how to talk about interesting feelings through the topic, and how to connect the topic with two people. After two people are familiar with each other, they must learn to talk about the topic with ambiguous feelings.

The steps to determine the relationship between two people are: stranger-friend stage-ambiguous stage-dating stage-love stage. Chatting with blind date is also such a step. Just after adding the blind date WeChat, I have a basic understanding with the other party first, and then lead the topic to the ambiguous stage step by step.

You can find topics from hobbies, clothes, travel, food, work, childhood, pets, TV movies, current fashion and so on. The topic is best humorous and interesting, focusing on attracting each other in the early stage, enhancing ambiguity in the middle stage, and inviting people to meet later.

Let's look at the following chat record:

Man: "I just went on a business trip and passed by the coffee shop where we dated last time, and I remembered our first date." (open the topic)

Woman: "You remember it so clearly."

Man: "Haha, I still remember you blushing shyly" (recalling details)

Woman: "Haha, isn't that the first blind date?"

Man: "If I see your red face, I really want to pinch it" (upgrade relationship)

Female: "If you pinch it, you will lose it."

Man: "OK, then I will give my life as compensation" (the girl didn't resist, and continued to work hard to improve the relationship)

Woman: "Hey, I don't want it."

Man: "I know a restaurant that makes Sichuan food." The food is really real. Don't you like spicy food? I'll take you to try it one day "(vague invitation).

Woman: "Really? I'm still a little greedy. "

Man: "Then it's a deal, you greedy cat" (confirmation date)

The above is the content of the blind date plus WeChat chat shared today.