What does it feel like for a girl to shave her head?

Walking on the road, we are not surprised by the baldness of boys, but we always seem to be watching and even curious about the baldness of girls.

I remember when I was very young, in my impression, my mother always had long hair fluttering, and I also like to have long hair. But because of too much hair, it is particularly hot every summer, and it will hurt the scalp when tied up.

I once had the idea of shaving my head, but I was "afraid" because I was afraid of other people's eyes, evaluations and even disapproval.

In the process of learning the Hundred Laws, I saw that there were so many fears, concerns and persistence in my heart.

Because I care about what others think of me, I dare not express my opinions directly; Because I am afraid that my dream will fail, I simply don't do it and dare not try to act; I'm afraid of not being recognized in a group of people, so I'm afraid to speak in the crowd and like to sit in the corner. ...

I see so many fears, worries and anxieties in my mind, which seem to have existed for a long time, and even this fear seems to be a fact in my cognition, even if it has never happened.

I don't want to lock myself in a cage of fear. I want to break it and try.

Try to speak in public, try to express your different views, try to be different …

At that moment, I thought of "shaving my head". It sounded countless times a few years ago, but it stopped because of "fear". Now I want to challenge it. The point is not to challenge the external hairstyle, but to break through my own fears and see if those things I am worried about will happen. If it really happens, do I really can't stand it?

Then I communicated with my mother, and my mother shaved my head ... when I felt every strand of hair fall, I felt comfortable and relaxed. It seems that it is not my hair that has been removed, but my persistence, concern and trouble. ...

I just started to go out after shaving my beard, and I felt a little cold and uncomfortable on my scalp. I used to wear a hat a few times before. Then I felt really troublesome and went straight out.

I've met people with surprised eyes, and they will stare at you. But so what? I don't care. Hold your head up and go my way.

I once met a boy and asked me directly, "What do you think? Why shave your head? " I replied, "I just want to try. Shaving your head is very comfortable and washing your hair is really convenient. "

The other party replied to me: "awesome, although I thought about it, I didn't dare." I smiled and continued on my way.

When my mother-in-law learned that I shaved my head, she first criticized me and couldn't accept it. But I was not hurt, because I knew we had different ideas.

My mother-in-law asked me to wear a hat to cover it. I laughed and joked with her: "Look how beautiful it is. It is cool in summer and convenient to wash your hair. Do you want to try? " I know she means no harm, but she is worried about me.

At that moment, my mother-in-law also put down the entanglement and said, "Don't shave your head again in the future. People are joking." Liu Tongxue replied to her mother-in-law: "No one is joking. People want to shave their heads, but they dare not. Their hair is their own decision! " We smiled at each other.

Bald me, verified a fact: I really look too much like my father! When I was a child, some people said that my father and I were very similar, just like carved in the same mold. I was talking back to others. I didn't believe it.

But when I looked at my bald head, I really verified this conclusion.

After discovering this fact, it is different from the rejection and disgust when I was a child. On the contrary, looking at yourself in the mirror gives birth to an acceptance, which is quite beautiful and has its own characteristics. Then I took a photo and sent it to my father. Dad has been very happy there.

Mom said, look at my bald head, just like my father when I was a child.

I am his daughter, and I have my father's genes in my body. Normal like my father. This is also fate, and this body will accompany me in this life.

In the process of balding, I found that I was stronger than I thought. As long as I am firm and think about many things, when I don't care and don't insist, others can't hurt me!

Their opinions belong to them. I just need to know what I want to do, what I want to choose, and then move forward firmly. Because this is my life experience, even if the relationship is close, they can't bear the consequences of my life, but I still need to bear it myself.

Before I shaved my head, some things I was afraid of happened and some didn't. But no matter what happens next, I can bear it, far from being as fragile as I thought.

Think of a sentence: scare yourself-the original "fear" is your imagination, and the future may not really exist.

Here's the thing about the haircut. What about the others? Why not!

If you want to do something, do it bravely, make your own choices and be responsible for your own choices. What will the "future" look like? Who knows? Now is the reason for the future. Not now, when?