Get a divorce! Your family borrowed money to marry a wife and gave a piece of it to repay the debt after the marriage. This does not mean that you got a wife for nothing. What do you think?

I got married on National Day, and today is the seventh day after the wedding. But I am already prepared to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau with my husband to divorce as soon as I get to work tomorrow.

Both of us are from rural areas. We worked in other places before getting married. We met on a blind date arranged by our families. Before this, we didn't know each other at all.

During the blind date, I saw that he was not short in stature, and he looked quite pleasing to the eye, he spoke well and was not stingy with his money. Thinking that I was not young, and the matchmaker praised him like a flower, I agreed to date him.

The matchmaker saw that we had no objection, and quickly arranged for the parents of the two families to meet to discuss our marriage. My family's requirements are not high. We have a house in the county town, with at least two bedrooms and one living room. The bride price is 150,000 yuan according to the local medium level.

After hearing this, the parents-in-law said they wanted to discuss it, so they took her husband and the matchmaker to the outside of the house to discuss it. After waiting for a while, they came in. After coming in, he expressed his agreement to my home's conditions without saying a word.

After confirming the relationship, we both went back to work separately. Because my job is not far away, sometimes my husband comes to see me on the train on weekends, treats me to dinner, and watches movies with me. He doesn’t seem stingy. I always thought that his family’s conditions are pretty good. Because we don't usually get together, we didn't have any conflicts during the year we dated, and our relationship developed quite smoothly.

Before the National Day wedding in 2019, we went home to look at the wedding room, bought "hardware", bought new clothes for me and my parents, and took wedding photos together. These were all paid for by my husband, and everything seemed fine. On the day of the wedding, my parents-in-law gave me 10,000 yuan for each person's confession fee.

My parents were very satisfied to see my wedding going so smoothly. On the day they returned home, they both praised their husband vigorously. But just last night, my husband solemnly told me that the wedding gifts and the money to buy a house were all borrowed, and we need to repay the debt together after we get married!

I find it incredible that you haven’t saved any money for so many years? My husband said he must have saved money, but not so much! If you think about this marriage, what would my family not spend on it? In addition, when I usually go to play with you or buy things for your parents, I need to spend money!

After hearing this, I was very angry, saying, "Don't you know whether you have money or not?" If you can’t afford a wife, you don’t have to marry? I dare your family to borrow money to marry a wife, and then let her marry her and repay the debt. What is the difference between this and a white wolf with empty hands? Isn't this a lie?

I decided to divorce him, because even if I am not allowed to pay back the money in the future, the money they earn will be used to pay off the debt, which will definitely directly affect my quality of life!

Everyone said, should I be asked to repay this money?