Qiao Mou Wang Xifeng Why does she make everyone in the Jia family obey?

Wang Xifeng is a person with a distinctive personality in the Grand View Garden. Jia's mother once said that she is "famous for being a scoundrel" and "a spicy Phoenix". However, it was such a "rascal who settled down" that aroused Jia's mother's love and pity. She praised him as "Sister Feng has a good mouth, how can he complain so much that people love him?" It was Wang Xifeng who could neither be hated nor loved. With his sharp teeth and sharp tongue, his status in the Jia family was unmatched. 1. Receiving Grandma Liu skillfully and respectfully

As the chief helmsman of the Jia family, Sister Feng inevitably has to deal with all kinds of people. What makes us deeply admire is that although we are both Sister Feng, she has different language responses to people with different identities. In her response, she still appears to be well-measured and neither humble nor overbearing.

Grandma Liu entered Rongguo Mansion is a good example. At first, Sister Feng didn't know whether Grandma Liu and the Jia family were related. But for such an old lady, she couldn't neglect her. Therefore, Sister Feng "didn't take the tea or raise her head." She just pushed the ashes in the stove and said, "Why don't you invite me in?"

Sister Feng's language is very clever, a "please" The characters show enthusiasm for treating others, while the lazy body movements show one's noble status. When Grandma Liu entered the room, Sister Feng spoke more appropriately. What she said was both modest and courteous.

Sister Feng said hurriedly: "...I am young, so I don’t really recognize him, but I don’t know what generation he is from, so I dare not call him."

Sister Feng first told Grandma Liu that she was young. Grandma Liu needs to be more considerate of her ignorance and lack of etiquette. Her humility and courtesy are obvious. At the same time, she complained about the difficulties, "Looking at the prosperity from the outside, I don't know that there are big difficulties ahead." "I'm just relying on my grandfather's false reputation to be a poor official. Who has anything? It's just an empty frame." He always pinched Grandma Liu's sore spots, because Grandma Liu came here to "fight convulsions."

Sister Feng learned from Mrs. Wang that Grandma Liu was not a real relative, so she no longer had any restraints and just wanted to get rid of this old lady. However, there was still a touch of humanity in her words, which made Grandma Liu feel very warm.

Sister Feng said with a smile: "Please sit down and listen to me tell you: I already know what you meant just now. When it comes to relatives, you should be taken care of before you come to the door... You Since you have come from a long way, and this is the first time you have spoken to me, why should I ask you to go back in vain? But by chance, the twenty taels of silver that my wife gave my girls to make clothes for were not used yet. Don’t you think so? "Young master, please take it and use it first."

"When it comes to relatives, we should take care of them before they come to the door." Although these are words on the scene, they reflect the Jia family's care for their relatives. The feeling is clearly expressed. I think when Grandma Liu returns to the village, the villagers will ask, what is the attitude of this wealthy family towards the poor? Grandma Liu can boast a lot, which can be regarded as establishing a good reputation for the Jia family.

Sister Feng complained a lot at first, and Grandma Liu thought she couldn't fight the convulsions. Later, when she heard that she was given twenty taels, she was so happy that she felt itchy all over again, and said the famous saying "A skinny camel is bigger than a horse" and "Your hair is thicker than our waist!" Seeing Zhou Rui's family What he said was vulgar, and he quickly stopped him with a wink.

It should be said that Sister Feng had asked Mrs. Wang for instructions during this reception, which was in line with the rules. The language is also very appropriate, neither too warm nor too concise; neither loses dignity nor shows off. Not only that, she was also very polite and did not miss anything in what she should do or say.

No one knows how the smooth-tongued Wang Xifeng developed his eloquent skills. Perhaps this is the ability that comes from being the head of a big family.

Since Sister Feng manages such a huge family business, she will inevitably offend people if she fails to take care of it. Naturally, she needs to rely on her clever words to get the maximum benefit for herself. Benefit. With this clever mouth, at least ordinary people cannot shake Wang Xifeng's status in Jia's family.

Giving Grandma Liu some money was nothing more than a convenience to the Jia family and Wang Xifeng. But Grandma Liu was grateful. After the Jia family fell, she still spared no effort to find ways to rescue Qiaoer in order to repay Sister Feng's kindness. The importance of clever words in daily life can be seen. 2. Witty language comes from life

Although Wang Xifeng comes from a famous family - the Jinling Wang family, she has not studied much. It is probably because of "not knowing the words" that Wang Xifeng did not bury himself in a pile of old books and had enough time to learn and understand the language from life. Sister Feng's language skills are very good, and she often makes the "ancestor" laugh, making Mother Jia sigh: "I can speak well, but I can't speak to this monkey."

Once, Jia Mu praised Sister Feng in front of everyone, but she was afraid that she was too smart, which would be a bad thing. Not only was Sister Feng not annoyed after hearing this, she continued what the old lady said, making everyone laugh with her humorous eloquence.

Sister Feng laughed hurriedly and said: "My ancestors said it wrong. Everyone in the world said that if you are too smart and smart, you are afraid that you will not live long. Everyone in the world can say it, and everyone believes it, but our ancestors should not say it. I don’t believe it. My ancestors are only ten times smarter and smarter than me. How come I’m so blessed and blessed tomorrow? I’ll wait for my ancestors to return to the West after I live a thousand years. He's dead." Jia Mu said with a smile: "Everyone is dead, what's the point of us two old goblins being left alone?" Everyone laughed.

Here Wang Xifeng uses "return to the west" and "die" to distinguish the death of his ancestors from his own. There is an inherent distinction between honor and inferiority. However, when talking about the death of Jia Mu in person, he cannot help but say that it is a "taboo". What's more, longevity should be "twice as good" as that of ancestors. However, this bold joke is still a way of flattering Jia Mu. What's admirable is that Sister Feng's joke, which went beyond the rules, got a surprising result.

Compared with Sister Bao and Sister Lin, Sister Feng’s language lacks literary grace and bookishness. But why can Sister Feng, who has a low level of knowledge, be so charming when speaking?

Look carefully and taste it. Sister Feng’s language contains less rhetoric and less quotations from poems and songs, but more colloquialisms, slang and idioms. These are some of the essence of spoken language, that is, the language of ordinary people. Sister Feng's language has these things in it, so it seems very vivid.

For example, Sister Feng would say, gambling: "The money in the money box is worth it. You can also take the bucket in front of me. The money inside is beckoning, and you just have to think about it." Take it in and save the money and trouble inside." This is a way of personification.

Sister Feng didn’t know how to write poetry, so she said, “I don’t know how to do anything dry or wet.” The homophone is used here.

Sister Feng is good at using homophony, duality, and personification. Her narration, romance, descriptions, and personification are all very vivid, as if she knows everything without a teacher. The source of the charm of her language is not in books, but in life, the information and wisdom contained in life itself. Although Sister Feng's language is vulgar, she has a fresh and hot life background.

Among all the people, the one who cared most about Jia Mu was none other than Wang Xifeng. Jia Mu also made no secret of her preference for Sister Feng. She once said with a smile: "But I haven't laughed happily in the past two days. It's thanks to him that he laughed all the way. I feel a little happier. I'll have another one." Zhongjiu! It’s worth ten people’s time to have someone else talk and laugh..."

As long as Sister Feng is present, her popular and entertaining banter is indispensable. Sister Feng's ability to manage the entire Jia family docilely lies in her ability to ridicule and humor. "She is always good at telling jokes, and the most important thing is that she has unlimited fresh and interesting stories in her belly." Even the maid and mother-in-law who were most afraid of her gathered around her when she heard that the second mistress was about to tell a joke.

Sister Feng’s clever tongue is worth learning and learning from.