What should the elderly do if they are partial to their children?

The post-80s and post-90s are generally only children, and this phenomenon does not exist. People born after 70 are usually brothers and sisters, and I have a younger brother below me.

As the old saying goes, old people have been partial to their children since ancient times. As the saying goes, the emperor loves his eldest son and the people love him. It can be seen that quirks are very common from the emperor down to the people, so it is not surprising. A few years ago, in some traditional parents' families, especially in rural areas, there was a serious preference for sons over daughters, and eccentricity was even more inevitable.

At present, the policy encourages the second child, and some of them give birth when they are older. There is a big age gap between children and those who love less, which is even more difficult to avoid.

Old people are partial to their children. What should they do as children?

It depends on his children's cognition and understanding of things. In my opinion, no matter how our parents treat us, we should repay them with the greatest filial piety. This is by no means what I said in high profile here. My family has been partial to my brother since childhood, but I have never felt unfair.

I still remember when I was about 6 or 7 years old, I stole a catty of food stamps from my family and took my brother to the market to change my pot helmet (a kind of pasta here, just like a cake). The pot helmet seller cheated us children and changed a catty of food stamps. I swallowed and watched him finish it alone. When I got home, my mother gave me a good beating. I don't think she is biased at all. Later, when I grew up, I felt more or less strange. I never thought I was wronged.

As long as he is happy with how our parents treat us, as long as it is not outrageous, we will let him be partial. Brothers and sisters must not hurt their feelings because of their parents' partiality. Blood is thicker than water. At the critical moment, our family is still by your side.

No matter how eccentric his parents are, he will love every child, but the degree of love is different.

Our tradition in China is to pay attention to filial piety. Only by bringing up children can we know the kindness of parents. I have always believed that children's love for their parents is never as good as their parents'. Therefore, under no circumstances should we blame our parents.