What do you think of the change of heart of Hubei boys on their wedding day because of the bride price?

We always talk about freedom of marriage, but in life, marriage is not that free. Many marriages are often hampered by various problems, especially the bride price, which is a big problem for some people. In general, if everything is settled before marriage, there will be no big problem in getting married, but there are exceptions to everything.

On June 65438+1 October1day, 2023, a young man in Hubei met with freedom of marriage on his wedding day, but in life, marriage is not so free, and many marriages are often subject to various problems, which is a big problem for some people. In general, if everything is settled before marriage, there will be no big problem in getting married, but there are exceptions to everything. On June 65438+1 October1day, 2023, a young man in Hubei met a disturbing scene on his wedding day.

According to media reports, on June 5438+1 October1day, 2023, a young man in Hubei ruined his marriage because of the bride price. According to him, the original plan was to give a bride price of 65,438+10,000 yuan, but the woman felt that it was too little. After negotiation, the price was raised to150,000 yuan, but the woman reluctantly agreed. Objectively speaking, the bride price of 6.5438+0.5 million is not a small sum for the average family. If the woman thinks she can't do it, she can choose not to marry directly, but on the wedding day, she changed her mind and tried to force the man to submit. This is a bit unusual.

When the groom arrives at the main entrance, there are still many things threatening to add bride price. This kind of parents' handling method is generally to beat Yuanyang and break up many couples abruptly. Even if the groom will allow it, there will be barriers in the future. How much is the bride price? Can't you say in advance that it won't change? There have been similar scenes before. Some people marry their daughters-in-law, and the bride price must be 1.5 million. This person can't stand it, so he wants to make the woman's parents change their minds. "You have two sons, and later they got married, and the other party asked you for a150,000 bride price. What if I can't get it? " As a result, my ex-girlfriend's mother thought about it for a long time and raised his bride price to 1.5 million, which was twice as high as 300,000. It is equivalent to the two brothers can solve the bride price money in the future. Of course, this is a joke, but there is no denying that there are similar ones in daily life. The bride price is originally a celebration of manners and customs. When it becomes a high threshold, it will make people think deeply. In small rural areas and cities, bride price is given. After all, the bride stayed in her family for twenty or thirty years. In addition, the bride price is also an important concrete expression of feelings before marriage. The amount of money should be discussed by both families as far as possible, and the details must be considered. If the man is qualified and acceptable, it will be fine if he doesn't change it for the time being. On the contrary, if you don't fully consider the details, you will only compare with others or go higher. Bridal gifts need to empty the man's family savings and go out to borrow them. This has increased the financial burden of the new family, which can't be recovered for many years, and many couples with deep feelings have to separate. In fact, the worst thing is a temporary price increase. This is not only a matter of numbers, but also intentionally teasing others and hurting their self-esteem. At this time, after a person has left, there is no turning back. This time is harmful to both parties to the marriage. Two people can get married and fall in love for a long time through lover relationship. It is not only the price of love, but also the waste of beautiful youth between each other. Of course, some people think that there is no love between them. I just can't get along. This is another matter.