Discourse communication skills

1. Speak slowly when you are in a hurry, because it is easy to make mistakes, and you can slow down the pace and give yourself time to think and adapt, while speaking slowly can give people a sense of stability and practicality.

2. For major events, make it clear, and for important things, so as to avoid making mistakes in the future.

For trivial matters, we can say humorously that it can often achieve good results. Trivia solved, the relationship is closer, giving people a sense of approachability and easy contact. In life, there is often a kind of person. When a trivial matter is said, it becomes a big deal. It should have been easy, but the situation is serious. This is the wrong way to communicate.

If you are not sure, say it seriously, or don't say it. Remember that disaster comes from your mouth.

Don't talk nonsense about what you can't do. After talking nonsense, it is your own credit that overdraws. You can still remember the story of the wolf coming. The lesson of blood is painful.

6. Don't talk about things that harm others and benefit themselves, not to mention things that harm others and benefit themselves, and don't talk about anyone, no matter how good friends, because this is about character.

7. When you encounter annoying things, you should treat them correctly, not people. At the same time, you should always remember to distinguish the relationship between the two. You can have different views on things, but don't cross that vague boundary. Once you pass, you will be a sinner.

8. When you are sad, don't say it. After all, everyone likes to get along with people with sunshine and positive energy. No one wants to be a trash can except their relatives.

9. Live in the present and talk less about the future. There is a saying that things are good without hair, which means that young people always brag and are often unrealistic. The actual things should be done first, and it is well known at this time, if not said.

Second, how to be a talking person

1. Not egocentric

Don't always talk to others in a commanding tone. Not everyone likes your tone. Let others do one thing and say "please". This will show that you are educated and others feel respected, so they will be willing to help you.

2. Listen carefully to other people's conversations

Don't interrupt others, it's very impolite. Even if there are any questions, ask them, or wait until they are finished. When you ask questions, be tactful and don't be too self-centered, so that others will be willing to listen.

Pay attention to the attitude of speaking to different people.

Speak boldly with extroverts to avoid hesitation and unnecessary misunderstanding; When talking to an introvert, pay attention to whether the other person is interested in your topic, be tactful and subtle, and it is best to start with him.

Third, how to get along with people and speak skills.

1. Grasp the proportion of "giving" and "receiving"

Dialogue is a two-way communication. Don't be arrogant. A person chatters endlessly, regardless of the feelings of the other party, dominating the world, and don't go to the other extreme and say nothing, resulting in silence. The correct way is to listen carefully and respond to each other's conversation. Speak actively and master the timing and discretion of speaking and listening.

2. the dialogue is oriented to the other party.

Give priority to topics of interest to the other party, use "you" instead of "I" in language, and address the other party by name appropriately. In the process of conversation, we should deliberately highlight each other's sense of superiority, so that each other can devote themselves to the conversation, causing * * *.

3. When talking to more than three people, they should all be the objects of conversation.

The topic should be interesting to everyone, the language should be understood by everyone, and the eyes should take care of everyone. Don't talk to only one or two people, let alone whisper to each other. It's rude to others.

4. Invitation and participation

During the conversation, when they come, they should be invited to talk. Generally speaking, they should not rashly participate in other people's ongoing conversations. If they want to attend, they should also say hello first. Men should not participate in women's circle conversations, let alone just talk to a woman.

Praise more when you speak, don't gossip, and be careful to joke.

Use more praise language, don't blame each other, praise should be serious and simple, and don't exaggerate and appear hypocritical. Don't say gossip that is harmful to the interests of the parties and become gossip. Jokes should be divided into occasions, and don't turn jokes into ridicule. Be sure to be discreet and be careful when joking.

6. Use body language correctly in conversation.

Sometimes, in order to achieve better results, we can use body language appropriately. Body language can make the conversation more lively, but don't exaggerate it too much to avoid giving people the feeling of instability.

7. When talking, except in special circumstances, be careful when answering the phone, and turn the ringtone of the mobile phone into vibration.

In an important call, you should turn the ringtone of your mobile phone to vibrate, and it is best not to answer the phone in the middle, which is impolite and affects the call effect. Under special circumstances, you should ask for the other party's consent and apologize before answering, and at the same time control the telephone conversation time not to be too long to keep others waiting for too long.