Tactfully deal with children who talk big and show off their strength. Are you doing the right thing?

Did you do the right thing in dealing with children who talk big and show off their strengths?

A parent said: “His son has a problem that troubles him very much. He likes to talk big and show off his strength. He always thinks he is better than other children. No one does as well as him.”

This phenomenon is not uncommon in families. Many children have such problems, and many parents do not know how to educate them in the most reasonable and scientific way. .

Here I will tell parents how to guide their children to have such a personality. (Thank you everyone for reading my article. I will post one every day. If the article I posted is helpful to you, you can like or follow me. If you have different opinions, you can say it in the comments) < /p>

From this parent’s description, I think this child has a great personality. The word "personality" here is a neutral word, with good and bad sides. For children, it's not that serious. This child has a strong personality and doesn't leave any room for himself when speaking. (Thank you everyone for reading my article. I will post one every day. If the article I posted is helpful to you, you can like or follow me. If you have different opinions, you can say it in the comments) < /p>

It has a positive effect. Children do not have low self-esteem and have strong self-confidence. If they can grasp the sense of proportion, the child will be greatly encouraged; at the same time, there is a negative aspect. If the child cannot grasp the sense of proportion, the child will There will be blind arrogance, complacency, stagnation, and inability to move forward, reaching the point of being complacent. (Thank you everyone for reading my article. I will post one every day. If the article I posted is helpful to you, you can like or follow me. If you have different opinions, you can say it in the comments) < /p>

When dealing with such children, we should mainly use persuasive education as a guide. We should first talk about the consequences and harms, and also instill in them that "humility makes people progress, and pride makes people fall behind." Let them understand how others will see them, and let the children Awakening.

If this method cannot awaken the child, then "punishment with natural consequences" should be used to educate him.

"Punishment of natural consequences" is to allow children to experience the adverse consequences of their inappropriate words or actions, feel the pain, learn lessons, and then correct bad behaviors. We often say that we suffer it ourselves, which means that we let ourselves suffer and reap the consequences of the stupid, bad, and stupid things we do. (Thank you everyone for reading my article. I will post one every day. If the article I posted is helpful to you, you can like or follow me. If you have different opinions, you can say it in the comments)< /p>

Specific methods:

When a child brags, do not let others criticize him, but use the bad consequences as a means of punishment. For example: when a child brags about himself and has high ambitions but low ambitions, but ends up failing and being ridiculed by others, then the child will experience the consequences of his own bragging and learn to restrain himself from such behavior. (Thank you everyone for reading my article. I will post one every day. If the article I posted is helpful to you, you can like or follow me. If you have different opinions, you can say it in the comments) < /p>

"Talking out of strength and talking big" is another obvious manifestation of children. This mainly shows that children lack the ability to self-evaluate and cannot evaluate themselves objectively and realistically, so they will blindly overestimate themselves. Parents, don't worry about this issue. It's not a big problem. Don't be sarcastic or laugh at your children simply and rudely, as this will hurt your children's self-esteem. (Thank you everyone for reading my article. I will post one every day. If the article I posted is helpful to you, you can like or follow me. If you have different opinions, you can say it in the comments) < /p>

Parents should also learn to use methods to deal with such children. They can cleverly guide their children to compare with other children and children who are better than them, and let real examples tell their children that "there are people outside the world." "You are not the strongest, but also let your children know that everyone has strengths and weaknesses, and they should use their strengths and avoid weaknesses to evaluate themselves appropriately. And learn with humility.

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The comparison here is not to dampen the children's self-confidence, but to let the children see themselves correctly. At the same time, parents should also be good themselves, pay attention to their words, deeds and behavior, not be frivolous and exaggerated, and set a good example for their children.