What kind of experience is it to be cheated by your good friend?

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"Self-righteousness" means that you treat each other as friends, but they are not.

The other party's intention is nothing more than taking you as a stepping stone to get their own money, resources and so on through intimate relationships.

So once such people appear, they are doomed to be cheated.

As the tree, so the fruit. The ultimate reason is not that you are blind when you meet someone. ...

The first time was a reunion after a long separation, and I used to be a friend of my best friend. She said happily that she would take me out to play and take me to eat and drink. Later, when she showed me WeChat, her hand slipped. When she saw it, she told the person who was said to have invited us to dinner that xxx had come, so you must give her face if you insist on inviting her to dinner. I ... doubted life for a moment, but pretended not to see it, and then I never saw her again.

The second time was a friend that my aunt cherished at that time, and she was also very dependent on my aunt. She met love rat who was pregnant unexpectedly, and the man didn't care if she called me aunt. My aunt came from other places and later went to college, and she didn't have much money. She gave her all her savings of more than 3,000 yuan and stayed there to take care of her after the abortion. Once they went shopping, they all bought something. My aunt bought clothes, shoes, bread and so on, wrapped them in bags, and then she went to the supermarket. She asked my aunt to get the cart, and she went to save my aunt's bag. After visiting the supermarket, I went to the bag storage office to get my bag. As a result, menstruation's things disappeared. She said that because there was only one cupboard left, she put her things in. My aunt's things were too much to put in, so she put them on the top of the locker. She said I thought no one would take it, but they did. My aunt was greatly influenced at that time, and she poured out her heart and lungs. This little detail shows that she is too selfish to take my aunt seriously at all. My aunt has alienated her ever since. She will occasionally send messages to my aunt in the next two years, saying what's wrong with her and asking what my aunt is doing. My aunt never replied.

First of all, I think I am a good friend. I want to reflect on whether I am too open-minded and too smart. Trust between friends is mutual and tacit, and unilateral trust is dangerous. It is necessary to guard against people, not only for strangers, but also for friends around you. Of course, there is a degree that needs to be grasped by yourself, which is both intimate and principled. I hope you can learn from your mistakes. As an adult, it doesn't hurt to be careful.

Secondly, a good friend cheated you, intentionally or unintentionally: if he cheated you unintentionally, then you are a pair of good friends, one can fight and the other can suffer. Forgive him this time; If it is intentional, it will be even worse. Is your wishful good friend, don't care about your feelings. Then thank him for letting you discover the shortcomings that you don't know much about people, which is also beneficial and harmless for you to get along with others in the future.