What happened to the girl who was refused a blind date and never had a relationship?

When I graduated from Arab University, I was 25 years old, and my family urged me to get married very badly.

She went to school late, and for various reasons, she stayed in the first grade in primary school. So when she graduated from college, all her friends who didn't go to college had already given birth to a second child.

Ayu's mother is a very traditional person, and her neighbors "fanned the flames", and her words are eloquent: "It is difficult for girls to find a partner after 25 years old!"

After a while, her mother was anxious and began to let Ayu go on a blind date.

A Yu's first blind date was introduced by a friend of her mother's friend. There were several references in the middle, but she didn't know them anyway. She didn't want to see him at all, although the other party praised the boy very well.

Before we met, her impression of that boy was greatly reduced, because the other party asked the introducer for her photo from the beginning. She doesn't want to give it, but mom can say yes.

She murmured, "Why did he look at my photo first, but didn't show me his photo?"

The introducer said to himself, "The boy's family conditions are good. Be sure to live a good life when you get married! "

A Yu was a little surprised, as if in the eyes of the introducer, the necessary condition for girls is as long as they are beautiful, while for boys, as long as their family conditions are good, everything else can be ignored.

Later, it was found that the introducer was out of place.

02

Ayu and the other party haven't talked for a few words, but they refused. The reason is that she hasn't been in love yet.

Aya, who just graduated from college at the age of 25, has never been in love, which makes the blind date boys feel a little strange, so she said without hiding: "What's wrong with you not falling in love?" ! "

Ayu has always been a good girl at school. She studies hard and doesn't want to go to anything about falling in love.

This point was proudly taken out by her mother when she was studying and said to others many times: "We never worry about my children studying!" " So I dragged it on until I was 25.

The blind date broke up in just 20 minutes. The blind date boy didn't graduate from high school. She always thought that education was not equal to personality, but later found that the three views were really different and could not be said together at all.

After coming back, Ayu told the other party that it was inappropriate and deleted her contact information.

The introducer is a little unhappy. She speaks Arabic: "At this age, I really don't know what to choose. The other family condition is so good. What are you dissatisfied with? "

The parents of that boy's family are small businesses, and the family conditions are completely exaggerated by the introducer. And he himself, he didn't have a job at that time. Later Aya said that she would never go on blind dates again.

She dragged on until she was 27, and her parents at home were more worried about her. A Yu was urged badly, and I was a little anxious, thinking: Otherwise, find someone who doesn't hate it and get married!

It was at this time that she met him. At that time, her sister went to her best friend's birthday party, and Ayu followed her because she was close. He was also at the birthday party that day.

Later, I learned that the boy was her sister's high school alumnus, one year older than her.

03

She said that only when you meet the right person will you know that all the waiting is worthwhile.

After the first blind date, later, under the persuasion of her parents, she had two blind dates again. She always disagrees and gradually becomes "too picky".

She got married last year because her parents and relatives urged her many times. The man she married can neither like nor hate, and life is neither salty nor light.

But Aya is obviously not very happy when she sees her married life, so she thinks she must find someone she likes.

Luckily, she waited.

After a year together, they got married. What makes Ayu dumbfounded is that when she got married, she actually met her first blind date, the one who disliked her not having been in love three years ago.

He was the driver of the wedding car that day. Obviously, he doesn't know Arabic. Maybe she was just an ordinary girl in her blind date career, but she was deeply impressed by her.

She was impressed by him because her mother talked about her for a long time because of her refusal.

Relatives see that she has never been married since then, and often take him out to teach her a lesson: "There are so many suitable boys that your aunt introduced to you for the first time. You have to choose, or get married early!"

All this is only because the boy's parents have been doing small business all their lives and have several suites in the county.

Ayu herself was not in a hurry, but the urging of her parents and relatives made her inexplicably anxious. Because all my friends around me gradually compromised, went blind, and then almost got married, which made Arabic more like an alternative.

When the car started, the boy began to chat with her husband and began to swear without saying a few words. Not them, of course. Ayu feels more and more that the original matchmaker is out of place, and they still have different views.

She is glad that she has waited so long and finally found the right person.

She asked her husband if he knew her. Her husband shook his head. He is busy at work, and his father is in charge of the wedding car.

After getting married, my aunt told two famous sayings to the unmarried people around her: The first sentence is that single people should go out more and don't always stay at home alone, so you will have to wait for a blind date.

The second sentence is "quality is better than quantity". You should marry someone you like, not someone else's.