I am from the countryside. What should I say and pay attention to when meeting for the first time?

Pay attention to wearing: hair: generally dandruff or oily hair, go to the hair salon to wash your hair in the morning or before seeing you the night before; It is recommended not to wear a suit, especially a dark suit, for blind date. )

Clothing: casual clothes should be clean and tidy, jeans should not be worn with holes or old and wrinkled, and try to be gray or light to make themselves look neat and generous; Try not to wear a coat outside a wide dress, just find one that suits you best and has the right length.

Shoes: sports shoes, casual shoes: not too much dirt or stains; Wear dark leather shoes but not white sports socks. Pay special attention not to wear sports socks with sports signs, which is a taboo in dress etiquette. It's best to let the shoeshine clean and polish the shoes. Wear a suit on a blind date. Remember to keep the suit clean and your pants pressed. The easiest way is to take the suit to the dry cleaner for dry cleaning.

Hair: generally dandruff or oily hair, go to the hair salon to wash your hair in the morning or before seeing you the night before; It is recommended not to wear a suit, especially a dark suit, for blind date. )

Talk: Say hello politely when you meet! When eating, help the girls pull the chairs away. The topic of chatting is mainly the interest of life. If girls are extroverted, they can listen more and talk less and respond appropriately. If a girl is introverted, talk about her hobbies and anecdotes appropriately. Never say dirty jokes when you meet for the first time, unless you want to end this blind date early, and then everyone will die of old age. Telling dirty jokes to girls at the first meeting is a typical self-destructive image!

Don't ask about girls' income and age, past emotional history, ask about their parents' occupation, family background, hobbies and so on.

Take the initiative to help girls pour water, adhere to the principle of ladies first, let girls order first, and don't let girls pay the bill unless AA is strongly requested.

If the blind date doesn't suit you, leave politely and leave a good image for yourself. Maybe your next blind date will be someone else's sister.

Good luck. .

Children in rural areas are relatively simple, so don't worry too much. If you don't like her from the beginning, you can abandon her. .