Decision-making rules, don’t take the road before you see it. Thoughts after reading "The Sky and the Red Dust"

The book "The Red Dust" begins with the disintegration of the Soviet Union and the overnight bankruptcy and suicide of oil tycoon Luo Jiaming. It has never left "politics". As a believer in "Western Malaysia", Ye Zi Nong lives alone overseas and attempts to After turning the tide, he was finally killed by overseas right-wing forces. If he sees the road but does not follow it, he will see the cause and effect. Seeing the appearance but not the appearance, does that mean seeing the Tathagata?

I won’t elaborate on the details of the story here. I will simply share with you the highlights of the article. ?

The moment I saw this, my whole mind was focused on the book. I read it several times. The more I read, the deeper my understanding of the text became. ?

In this 21st century society, impetuous and anxious mentality is the norm for every young person. We often rely on an article or a paragraph of a successful person. To change oneself, and even to give up some things that one has insisted on. ?Refer to your own life based on the successful experiences of others. As a result, I had nowhere to go. This behavior is actually like deliberately trying to please others. There is no shortage of people in our lives who are good teachers. He thinks that he is a person who loves to learn and loves to work hard. After he achieves a small amount of success, he starts to boss others around, saying a bunch of things like, what should you do, what should you do, what should you do. Go for it. If a person is not strong-willed, he will start to follow the dogma he said. And then when we get to a certain point we don’t know how to go. ?

It took China more than 100 years to find a development path that suits itself, so as a person on the road, you don’t have to worry. Don't listen to their spiel. Don't listen to their orders either. You just need to enjoy the moment when you are doing things, enjoy your work and savor every bit of life. You will definitely find your own way. ?

Wonderful Point 2?

Seeing this, my head was hit again. My mind immediately became clearer. ?

When we don’t work hard, we still expect to receive a better result. If you think about it, it's just a joke. ?

We are clamoring for good skin, a good figure, and better performance. ?Can the behavior be really done? If you do this, there is no way you won’t get results. Just like Dai Mengyan, I tried hard to read the script carefully but still didn't understand it. ?She still wants to take pictures? Ye Zi Nong's words made her make the right decision to give up filming the drama. ?

There is no difference between us and Dai Mengyan. We and she are both looking forward to a good result. Dai Mengyan achieved better results by giving up.

If we want a good figure and good performance, we also need to achieve better results through some behaviors. ?

In fact, in this fast-paced era, those who achieve better results are those who take life too slowly. Know what you want and get it quickly without wasting time. ?

The third highlight?

The third time I hit the head, this is the best interpretation of clothes and women I have ever seen.

Many women in our lives buy a bunch of messy clothes, but we throw them away after wearing them a few times. Can we change our way of thinking and think about problems? We buy those that suit us. Yes, if you match yourself, if you match yourself, will it take your image and temperament to a higher level? Will it make your life more refined? ?

We always use other people’s experiences and dogmas to deal with our own lives, thereby losing more possibilities. When you see someone else wearing something that looks good, you buy it too. ?

If you are plump, you also bought it. It will only look ugly if you wear it.

Through these few sentences, I understand who is the essence of the matter and who is the phenomenon between body shape and clothes.

Whether clothes look good or not depends on the person. It doesn't depend on the clothes. ?The clothes look good but no one is wearing them. At best, it's just a decoration.

There is no shortage of good-looking clothes. ?A good-looking figure, but a rarity. ? So don’t abandon the basics and chase the last. ?

Is this passage wonderful? Quite exciting. ?

I really like this paragraph because it explains something I often say.

Yes, I have always said this. My spirit of not admitting defeat and my fighting attitude of not admitting defeat have always been my life creed.

Before I read this book, I kept saying this sentence, but now I have changed it.

I wonder if you have noticed this phenomenon: "When you are nothing, the suggestions you make are just a pile of shit"? When a rich man says: "That is Take the Bible? ” ? Our values ??are divorced from the reality of things. It comes down to more money and less money. ? This has led to many people taking risks for the sake of money. ?He ended up in jail and harmed his family. The starting point is good, they all want to make more money? You have to create more income based on your own conditions. Rather than breaking away from one's own conditions to become a better person for others. ?

Five wonderful things?

I believe everyone has vanity, including me, you, him and her. After I saw this, I pondered for a long time, and suddenly I discovered that our life is really like what Ye Ye Nong said, and what we said, we have to be better than others. ?Put aside these vanities and let’s look at what the matter itself is. It's happiness. Our happiness should come from ourselves, not from others. ?

We live better than others, live richer than you, earn more than you, eat better than you, wear better clothes than you, and our sons are better than other people’s sons. Daughters are better than other people’s daughters. ?

We have all ignored the essence of things, why can't we get happiness from ourselves. But take it from others. Eating what you want is happiness, earning enough money is satisfaction, wearing something that suits you is beauty, and your children becoming better under your education is pride. Why should we compare to create a sense of happiness? ?

Through comparison, how many tragedies have been brewed. Because my mobile phone is better than yours, go for an online loan. Then he couldn't afford to commit suicide.

Watching other people start a business, you also start a business, and then use unlimited overdraft cards, take out online loans, and end up with a lot of debt, living in a miserable state?

Watching the rich spend a lot of money on investments Stocks and real estate, you also use various credit cards to invest in stocks, but in the end you end up giving away someone who is thousands of miles away, which is more polite than affection. ?

Watching others sign up to study, you also follow them. In the end, they graduate with glory, but you don’t even have the courage to start. ?

How many people seek a sense of existence just because I am better than them, because of their vanity. In the end, you bear the consequences. ?

Wonderful Point Six

This passage made me think of a lot, a lot. We often escape from the essence of things by doing them.

We are here to learn and grow. It’s not about looking for vanity or a sense of presence. But on the way of learning, we often behave differently from others. The friends we study with praise, praise, or stay away. We often lose our true selves in order to cater to them. ?

In order to grow, we learn not to be afraid of other people's eyes, nor of other people's praise or ridicule, because it is only you who want me. It is for growth, not a sense of existence, not vanity. ?

When we work, we often work very hard in the early days and have many ideas, but as time goes by, we are assimilated by them, and we are also transformed by them, and we also become them. One of them has lost himself. ?

Let me give you an example of real growth and finding a sense of existence

Everyone has the dream of wealth and freedom, including me. ?

But how many of them actually take action and stick to it? ?Robert Kiyosaki, the author of "Rich Dad Poor Dad" said that when investing, you put your brain first. Learn about investing and then start doing it yourself. But how many people understand the concept of brain-throwing. Just read a few books and listen to a few people who are neither good nor good enough. Just listen to the speeches and methods of a few successful people and you will be fine. You get excited for a long time, then go back and make random bets. Then tell others what I am doing and whose training and lecture I attended. Do you know what you know? ?

People who know what they want will slowly learn, grow, and practice. Reflect and summarize, and do not let other people's words affect your judgment. Finally reap your own fruits.

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In fact, I really hate the fact that many public accounts are selling anxiety. Selling anxiety makes many people lose their direction, don’t know how to work hard, don’t know how to work, and even make many people sacrifice their own talents for the sake of the bottom. ?

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When we take advice, we often turn to friends, public accounts and parents. ?

Just because the article is well written does not mean that his life is better than yours. He is who he is because of his own condition. You can't completely copy his conditions, you can only be yourself. ?

So, based on your own conditions, you have to be you. Rather than a person who doesn't know the direction and runs blindly. ?