Is it shameful for outsiders to see a couple quarreling? What would you think if you saw other couples arguing?

I am very happy to answer this question for you. After seeing your description of this problem, my personal opinion and advice to you are as follows. First of all, you described whether a couple's quarrel is shameful and ridiculous to outsiders. If you were an outsider or you saw other people’s families quarreling and other couples quarreling, what would you think and what would be your opinion on this issue? First of all, in life, it is normal for couples to quarrel and stumbling over each other, because this is It's the kind of life that says never quarrel, always romantic, always harmonious. It's basically impossible. That's an ideal love life. It's a platonic love life, not real life. As for this matter, it's shameful. Personally, I think it is not shameful at all. Two people quarreled because of conflicts and misunderstandings. Both of them have a temper. How can it be shameful to argue? It is not funny. The two people must have been unable to solve something at the time. I just had this quarrel. Of course, quarreling cannot solve the problem, but it is neither shameful nor ridiculous. So when I see other couples quarreling, I have never thought about it. I think it is shameful or ridiculous. But here is a suggestion I will give you. This is it. In a married life, although sometimes quarreling is a fun part of life, don't quarrel over trivial things. When quarreling, you should discuss the matter, that is, if something happens, just say something to solve the problem. As we were talking and chatting, we went off track for a while and then it turned into hurting each other. Because we are the most familiar people, we know how to hurt each other better. If it is this kind of quarrel, it would be too bad if it ends up being a fight. It is necessary, but in reality, many couples encounter problems like this. Instead of thinking about how to solve the problem, they use words to hurt each other, and the more they talk, the more angry they become. In the end, both of them feel uncomfortable and sad. It will be bad if you stop until then, so this is also a small suggestion I give you. I hope that my answer and suggestions for you can solve the confusion in your heart and the questions in your heart. Finally, I wish you a happy life