What kind of person have you become after breaking up with your ex for a year?

A year ago, she was abandoned by her ex-girlfriend who was planning to get married. I also wrote a post in Tianya at that time. A year has passed, and things are different, and people are different, but I seem to have become ignorant of myself. Maybe what I write next will be reviled by many people.

Let me introduce myself first. I graduated from South China 2 1 1 University. I graduated four years ago. I am 27 years old. I didn't choose to continue my studies at first. I returned to a second-tier city, in the financial industry, with an upper-middle income. Before graduation, my family bought a car (an entry-level sports car, I really didn't say anything about buying it. My father gave it to my mother. My mother let me drive that old car. Later, my mother didn't bother. One month after graduation, my family moved to buy a house and wrote my name. I passively agreed, because I started to invest in stocks, and my father saved hundreds of thousands, so the first suite was full, but my father still paid two thirds. At that time, money flowed into the stock markets all over the country, and house prices did not rise much. Although the area is relatively large, 230 square meters, the total price is 654.38+0.5 million. Appearance conditions, appearance, I think it is a gentle and comfortable type, I am satisfied, appearance varies from person to person, so I won't describe it much. In terms of body shape, I used to be a little thin, with a height of 62KG at 175. Now it has reached 72KG, and there is also exercise. I can't say I'm muscular, but my overall figure is ok. Because I prefer reading, communication can always come, giving people a feeling of sunshine and a good personality.

A year ago, my ex abandoned me. To put it simply, I was in love with her for 1.5 years, and she came back to work in the city. I helped her find a suitable good job, and then I helped her rent a house. Of course, I paid the deposit, rent and household appliances. I take it for granted. I didn't care. I should share it with her. She wants me to move out and live with her. In fact, my home is relatively large and my new house is ready. About a month after we moved out, we had a few small quarrels, and the problem was not serious. Finally, because one night, my colleague and I came back from dinner and saw that she bought a high imitation coach bag from Taobao. I reacted a little, but I certainly didn't blame her. I just kept reasoning with her and told her that it was best not to buy high imitation for this brand. After all, she is not a girl now, and because her industry is also a financial industry, I am afraid of being laughed at. Basically, 95% of the expenses are paid by me, which is actually no problem. Because of her short working hours and ordinary home environment, she doesn't feel so much together. After I said something that night, I went to work. She was very unhappy and hid in bed. She ignored me when I went back to bed late. The next morning, I saw that she had not calmed down, and I was a little depressed. Finally, she sent a WeChat goodbye after work. It was Friday, and the evening was my mother's birthday. Originally, we agreed to go back together. Finally, she returned to her parents' home. I didn't go to see her at the weekend. When I looked for her again on Monday, I went back to the rental house. She refused to sit down and chat with me. I tried to hold her back and not let her go. Then she took out her mobile phone and called the police! ! ! I explained it to the police later, but fortunately I didn't come.